There’s nothing in the world that hurts more than getting rejected by a guy you like.
As girls, we’ve all been there…
Crushing on a guy for so long
Keeping your feelings for him a secret
Feeling the pressure from society not to make the first move
And despite all that, you gather the courage to tell him how you really feel about him…
You give him your heart and show him how much you love him…
But he rejects you.
He takes your love and honesty and throws it away.
He hurts you…
You best friend asks you about it, and you tell her on the verge of tears…
“He rejected me”.
The pain of love rejection is terrible, and it’s normal to fall into sadness and depression.
Here is where most girls make a huge mistake.
It’s a mistake you can easily make when the emotions from rejection are so overwhelming that you just don’t know what to do…
Your friends will tell you to “move on” and try to make you feel better.
But they are wrong.
Here’s the truth:
When a guy rejects you, you will shift your focus to the pain and heartache that you’re feeling…
But it doesn’t always mean he doesn’t like you.
In fact, guys reject girls for many reasons:
For example, he likes you but has a girlfriend…
Or he just felt nervous being put on the spot and rejected you without thinking about it…
Perhaps he really likes you, but he’s still trying to get over an ex…
If this is the case, he will feel really bad and he will want to take back his rejection.
We all know guys like to hide their feelings. So you have to look for subtle signs in his behavior.
Unfortunately, most girls will be too hurt to notice these signs.
Today, we’re going to show you the Top 5 Signs He Regrets Rejecting You.
If you don’t want him to slip away, then you should pay attention to these signs.
At the end of the article, we’ll also give you some tips on what to do next.
Go through this list and look carefully – If he does have feelings for you, then you have to act quickly before they fade away.
If you do the right things, you can clear up the misunderstanding and rescue an amazing relationship that may have never happened otherwise.
Here are the 5 signs you need to look out for:
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1. He Seems Nervous Or Awkward Around You
This is the number one sign you should look out for.
Think about this for a second:
If a guy really doesn’t care about you, he wouldn’t spend any time thinking about it after rejecting you.
On the other hand, if a guy feels something for you, he’ll be emotionally invested in you.
He would be thinking about you, replaying over and over again in his head how you confessed to him your feelings.
He would also think about how he would have done things differently, wishing he did not reject you…
This means he will feel some nervousness being around you – It shows that he cares more than you think.
He realizes he’s hurt your feelings, and he’s not sure how to act in front of you.
He might even play it cool, and pretend to “not care”.
But don’t be tricked! If you look carefully, you’ll see right through this.
2. He Always Seems Like He Has Something To Tell You
Put yourself in the guy’s shoes:
He had just rejected you, but he didn’t mean to hurt you…
In fact, he might even have feelings for you that he just can’t express.
For this reason, it will seem like he has something to tell you, but is holding it in.
How can you tell? It’s simple:
The biggest clue is in the topics he talks to you about.
If he is holding something back, he will talk about a number of random topics, because he wants to keep the conversation going.
Unfortunately, guys usually get stuck in this cycle and never express what they truly feel.
That’s why you have to put a bit of pressure on him to finally tell you how he feels.
3. He Maintains Contact With You
One of the most tell-tale signs he’s interested in you is when he rejects you but still talks to you.
For most guys, they move on quickly. Their attention span is short.
If they really aren’t interested they won’t hang around. They might even ignore you, because they want to avoid the awkwardness.
But if a guy regrets rejecting you, he will often try to keep you in his life and stay in touch with you.
Often, he will text you out of nowhere, for random reasons just to start a conversation with you.
Other times, he might check in on you and ask how you’re doing from time to time.
Either way, if he’s maintaining contact with you in any way, there’s a big chance he wants to take his rejection back and get closer with you.
Some guys will try to “play it cool” and ignore you.
However, he will still express his feelings, just in a different way
In this case, look out for the next clues…
4. He Looks At You In A Funny Way
We get it – Your emotions are rushing while dealing with romantic rejection…
But he could actually be feeling the same!
If he rejects you and then regrets it, he will be feeling terrible for letting a great relationship slip by.
His mind will be racing with thoughts of “What if…”, “We could’ve…”, and “I should’ve…”
And most of all, he will be thinking about YOU.
Because of this, you will catch him looking or staring at you a lot.
He will try to look away, not to let you catch him staring at you, but he won’t be able to hold it in completely.
So here’s what you do:
Pay attention to where his eyes are when you’re around him. Pretend to look at something next to him, and try to spot where he’s looking at from the corners of your eyes…
You can also pretend to be looking at something else, and then suddenly making eye contact with him.
Watch how he reacts – The quicker he looks away, the higher the chance he is hiding his feelings and regrets losing you.
5. His Social Media Posts Are Secretly About You
If you don’t see him in person, look at his social media posts instead.
As we all know, guys are very reserved about their true feelings, so they won’t tell you about them directly.
Instead, they will express these feelings indirectly, especially on social media.
He might repost a quote, or share a song that has a hidden meaning.
He will also leave these posts very vague on purpose.
This is also one of the strongest signs he wants to reconnect. But because he was the one who rejected you, he will be unlikely to contact you first.
As difficult as it may be, it is up to you to make the first move.
BONUS: Make Him Fall Deeply In Love (Using Psychology)
We understand: Getting rejected after confessing to your crush hurts really bad.
But you have to set aside your emotions and look for these signs.
Because if you don’t, you might be letting an amazing relationship slip by…
Deep inside, he might actually be interested in you, but he just screwed up by rejecting you.
You’ll have to look carefully and decide if this is the case.
If he likes you, you will have to manage the situation very carefully.
Besides managing your own pain of rejection, you have to navigate a rather awkward set of circumstances.
The main goal is to get the guy to open up, but not to do it obviously.
The best ways to do this is to use “emotional triggers”.
By using simple words and phrases, you can target parts of his male mind associated with love and desire.
Unfortunately, most women walk through life without meeting the man they dreamed about since they were a little girl.
They keep getting rejected, and get stuck with men who don’t even love them…
Meanwhile, they watch their friends dating amazing guys who are warm and sweet to them, wrapping them up in love every day…
But you have a choice.
Don’t wait any longer – You deserve a man who loves you and fully devotes himself to you too.
Not a lot of women know about these special techniques, so you should learn them now before it’s too late.