How To Tell A Guy You Want Him Over Text

1. Hello there, stranger. Don’t be a stranger.

2. Good day, you! I hope your day is going well!

3. How would you react if I invited you over right now?

4. I’m the one who initiates messaging, therefore I’m expecting you to initiate kissing as well.

5. I’m here to ask you out. Do you want to go out for coffee on Saturday?

6. No one understands me like you.

7. Now that I’ve officially texted you, don’t make me wait. I’ll be anxiously staring at my phone, waiting for it to ding.

Come on over. Now. Except for me, no one else is present.

9. Right now, I wish you were sitting next to me.

10. You can’t text me first, but every five minutes you may post your Facebook status? I see what you’re saying.

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What should I ask a guy over text?

50 Text-Based Questions to Ask a Guy or Girl

  • What’s the most humiliating thing you’ve ever said or done in front of a loved one?

How do you flirt over text?

It’s hard to realize that just 20 years ago, if you wanted to flirt, you had to call someone or meet up in person. Simply type a quick note, throw in a couple of emojis for good measure, then hit “send” to let someone know you’re into them. Flirting via SMS, on the other hand, is an art – the goal is to express your desire while yet remaining mysterious, and to exude confidence without coming across as arrogant. Do you want to know how to flirt via text? Don’t worry, I’ll walk you through the process of drafting the perfect message to pique your crush’s attention. Not only that, but I’ll provide you some useful examples that you can copy and paste or alter to make your own.

Here are some texting tactics to get the digital sparks flying, whether you’re trying to win over someone you just matched with on a dating app or trying to take things to the next level with someone you’ve previously gone out with a few times.

Keep it short and sweet.

In general, the more straightforward the message, the better. If you want to strike a flirty tone, avoid sending a long text. Consider the following scenario: Which would be more effective in grabbing your attention in a bar: someone smiling, saying “hello,” and then walking away, or someone approaching you and rambling on for 5 minutes about their life? A short text is not only easier to read, but it also invites some back-and-forth banter, similar to how you would naturally converse in person.

Stay positive.

Flirting is supposed to be fun and lighthearted by nature; it should make you both feel like you’re back in high school. So, if you want to strike a flirtatious tone, avoid talking about anything too serious or passionate. Maintain a happy attitude because the object of your affection will begin to identify you with good feelings.

  • I just received some fantastic news, and guess what? The first person I wanted to tell was you.
  • I finally watched the show you suggested, and I’m now officially addicted… What makes you think you know me so well?
  • I can’t get the amazing anecdote you told me out of my head. When will I be able to hear more?

Be complimentary.

Flattery, as they say, will get you anywhere. But keep in mind that a genuine complement will have the desired effect. Consider the qualities you admire most about your crush and utilize one of them as a starting point for contacting them.

  • When you’re watching a movie, the main character looks a lot like you… but not quite as cute.
  • I’ll admit it: every time I get a text alert, I hope it’s from you since that never fails to bring a grin to my face.

Ask a playful question.

  • Is it just me, or did we pretty much blow the first date out of the water? Don’t you think we deserve an award for that one?
  • How am I meant to be productive at work when my thoughts keep returning to our date the night before?

And just like that, you’re flirting over text like a pro. However, here are a few more useful hints: You can use your flirty texts to establish an inside joke if you’ve previously met in person at least once or have been speaking for a long time. Inside jokes create a sense of familiarity and closeness, and humor makes the recipient feel good, causing them to link you with a good time. Feel free to include an emoji or two in your sexy texts for added emotional appeal, but don’t go overboard. Because the recipient cannot see or hear your facial expressions or hear your voice, emojis are actually only meant to enhance the tone and personality of the message.

Finally, bear in mind that, while texting can be a great method to pique someone’s attention, the greatest way to flirt is in person. So, use your texts as a tool to set up your next date and show off your flirting talents in person!

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