Can we be honest with you?
As international dating and relationship coaches, we are SHOCKED.
98% of girls today just don’t know what men want in a woman.
The thing is, guys will never admit it to you either.
But after coaching thousands of girls around the world, we know exactly what guys think is attractive.
Here are some clues:
It’s not what you wear…
It’s not how popular you are…
It’s not even how you look.
The answer is actually much simpler than you think.
In fact, some of the weird things guys find attractive in a girl are things that you are already doing, without even knowing it!
Sadly, most girls don’t know what men like, and stress out over how to get their attention…
And in many cases, they end up doing the opposite, turning guys off and pushing them away.
Don’t worry – We’re here to help!
In This Article:
The Top 10 Things Guys Secretly Love That Girls Do
Today, we’ll show you the exact things guys secretly want from a girl.
We interviewed hundreds of guys around the world about the little things girls do that they love.
These simple things will make him think about you all day long, and tap into the deepest parts of his emotional mind…
We’ve put them in order, starting from casual and flirty things to do with crushes, and ending with intimate things that will make your boyfriend’s heart melt.
Later in this article, you will also learn some simple text messages that every man is dying to get from a girl, and will make him completely and fully devoted to you!
1. Smiling And Making Eye Contact
When it comes to what physical features do guys find attractive, most girls have it completely wrong.
The truth is: Guys are most attracted to a girl’s facial expressions.
In fact, men around the world all agree on one thing:
One of the most attractive things about a girl is when she makes eye contact and smiles at them.
Psychology tells us that people make the deepest connections through their eyes.
And when you make eye contact with a guy while smiling, you will communicate directly to his heart, and make him open up to you.
That’s why every guy is naturally drawn to this, just like a magnet!
What’s more, a cheerful smile and eye contact will make you stand out in a crowd.
Whether you’re in public or at a party, guys will always notice you immediately when you do this.
Try it yourself, and you’ll be shocked at what a big difference this makes!
2. When You’re Being Silly
Most men will never admit this:
Guys think funny girls are AMAZING, and fall in love instantly with their personality.
In fact, one of the biggest things guys find cute is a bubbly, cheeky girl.
Put yourself in his shoes:
Guys get turned off when things get too seriously too quickly.
But when you joke around with them, the vibe loosens up and everything feels more casual and easygoing.
It will make him relax, which makes flirting a lot easier for both you and the guy, and he will naturally be attracted to you.
This is also true in relationships: Sometimes, the happiest memories are also the silliest moments!
Also, every guy loves hearing a girl laugh, because they are always drawn towards positive energy.
3. Playing With Your Hair
Every girl likes to play with their hair every now and then…
But did you know? This is one of those cute habits that guys like, but will never tell you.
It’s one of those attractive things girls do naturally, without even knowing.
Twirling your hair around makes a girl look cute and innocent.
This gives of a type of “natural beauty” which men are actually more attracted to, compared to the “fashionable beauty” of magazine bikini models.
It’s a look that drives guys crazy, even though it doesn’t seem like a big deal at first.
The truth is: Men find girls with “natural beauty” a lot more friendly and relatable.
This makes it more likely for them to get curious about you, talk to you, and ask you out.
4. When You Ask Him How He’s Doing
Here’s the number one mistake most girls make when it comes to guys:
They play hard to get.
This can make some men jealous…
But for 90% of guys out there, it just doesn’t work!
When it comes to love and relationships, guys prefer kind-heartedness and compassion in a girl.
Think about it:
Everybody knows guys like to hide their feelings and play it cool…
But deep down, every single man is looking for a girl who wants to talk to them and understands how they feel.
That’s why asking him how he’s doing attracts a man to a woman emotionally.
By doing this, he will start to see you as someone special, and eventually feel the urge to connect with you on a deep level.
It might seem like a small act, but you won’t believe how much guys secretly like this!
5. Calling Him By A Nickname
Have you ever noticed that when couples get closer, they will start giving nicknames for each other?
It’s actually one of the strongest signs of a great relationship.
But here’s the thing that most girls don’t realize:
The opposite is also true!
By calling him a nickname, you will become closer, and more connected on an emotional level.
It’s one of those cute things girls do that melt a guys heart, but they will never admit it!
Now obviously, you have to be careful about this.
Always use a casual, teasing voice when calling him by a nickname, especially when you first start doing it.
This will prevent it from sounding weird or awkward, and increase the chances of him growing closer to you!
6. Texting Him First
Most girls get nervous about this…
But believe it or not, texting a guy first is one of the best ways to intrigue a man.
When you text a man first, he will immediately notice you because most girls simply don’t have the confidence to do that.
It will also make him feel good, knowing that you are someone who is happy to talk to him.
The key is to do it the right way.
Just like nicknames, you should always be casual and carefree when texting him first.
This allows both of you to relax, and flirt with each other in a natural and open way without any awkwardness.
7. Showing Him Your Caring Side
As we’ve already mentioned, kind-heartedness and compassion are among the most attractive qualities in a woman.
In fact, these characteristics are what men look for in a woman when they are looking for a meaningful relationship.
When you help a guy out when he’s tired, or talk to him when he feels lonely, he will instantly feel emotionally attracted to you.
Because men socialize very differently than women.
Here’s what we mean:
As girls, we usually find it easy to open up when we’re hanging out with our girl friends…
But guys don’t do this with their friends. They like to play it cool and have a good time, but don’t connect deeply with them.
That’s why you can make a man’s heart melt instantly when you show him your caring side and connect with him on an emotional level.
It’s another one of those things guys like about girls, but will never admit!
8. Sharing Your Feelings With Him
When it comes to things guys like to hear, there’s one thing we girls never think about:
Our own feelings!
As girls, we’ve all wondered what guys are thinking at some point…
But here’s a secret about understanding men in relationships:
They are always wondering the same about us!
That’s why guys actually love it when girls share their feelings with them.
They love seeing our sensitive sides, and it actually turns them on a lot.
This is especially true when you’re in a relationship. In fact, guys expect honesty from their girlfriends, so it’s always a good idea to share your feelings with him, even though you might feel nervous about doing this.
9. Running Your Fingers Through His Hair
In our many years of experience as relationship coaches, this is one of the biggest things that men find irresistible.
When you run your fingers through a man’s hair, you instantly melt his heart and turn him on.
It makes him feel an uncontrollable urge to love you, and devote himself to you completely.
Why? It’s simple:
There are certain nerve endings on a man’s scalp that are especially sensitive.
Guys love it when you run your fingers on them because it gives them a level of comfort that they rarely experience in daily life.
This kind of intimate physical touch is usually reserved for close couples. But this also means a man will feel extra close to you every time you do this on him.
10. Cuddling In His Arms
One of the biggest things that attract a man to a woman physically is being able to cuddle with her wrapped up in his arms.
Guys love it when you cuddle up into his arms, and put the side of your head on his chest. This makes him feel strong and loved.
When your bodies are pressed close to each other, a chemical called oxytocin is released inside his brain.
This is the hormone responsible for the feelings of love and intimacy.
In other words, it fills his mind with intense romantic thoughts, and makes him feel extra close to you.
BONUS: The Innocent Words That Drive Your Man Wild
If you want the power to make any man feel a strong desire to connect and commit himself to you, and to treat you like the most special girl in the world…
Then you need to pay attention to this section.
We’ve spent many years studying the psychology behind love and attraction…
We’ve coached thousands of girls around the world to attract and keep the man of their dreams…
And after all these years, we’ve noticed something really weird.
It’s the one secret thing that drives every man crazy, making him fall deeply in love in the shortest amount of time possible.
And it’s not what you think!
You see, every single time a girl sends this special text to a guy, he will stop whatever he’s doing, and start to think about her non-stop.
At first, we thought it was just some weird coincidence or accident…
But we started to notice it happen again and again.
Here’s how it works:
When you send him this text, it targets certain “emotional triggers” inside his mind.
His mind becomes overwhelmed with romantic thoughts of you (and only you).
And he will suddenly feel an uncontrollable urge to talk to you, ask you out, and beg you for the chance to be your man!
Here’s the sad truth:
Most girls go through their whole lives without knowing what actually makes guys fall in love.
They get crushes on amazing guys, only to be ignored by them as they go for younger, more popular girls…
They settle for plain, boring men, and go through life without ever finding the man of their dreams…
Don’t let this be you!
Start using these texts today, and make any man you want fall in love with you.
The best part?
It doesn’t even matter how old you are or what you look like.
That’s because these texts are based on male psychology, hardwired in their brains.
So click the button right now and learn the texts!
You’ll be surprised at how quickly the men you send them to catch feelings for you, and come fighting to be your lover!