How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend To Want You Back

How do you reclaim your ex-boyfriend? If you’ve been debating whether or not to reconcile with an ex, know that it is feasible. The most important thing is to ensure that he stays once he returns; otherwise, you risk falling into the dangerous on-again, off-again relationship pattern. And it’s here that the majority of ex-love-recovery attempts fail.

To reclaim your boyfriend, start by reminding him of the special bond you once enjoyed, ignoring your differences, and convincing him of how wonderful your relationship was. When you’re already struggling with the gap your boyfriend left, a breakup brings emotional baggage, remorse, and confusion, which may be exhausting to deal with.

If you still have feelings for your ex and want to reclaim him, you must stop languishing and start acting. The first step is to devise an ex-boyfriend rehabilitation strategy that will make him not only want to be with you again, but also unwilling to leave.

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I’m sure you’d like to see your ex again. You, on the other hand, are considering moving on. Even though you know that person has flaws, your heart still encourages you to return, thinking about how amazing they are on occasion. For better or worse, you just want to be with that person again. What’s more, guess what? When we split up, more than 80% of us think of that.

Then you cry, maybe even gaze up to the sky, maybe even pray, and think to yourself, ‘Please… Just let me see my ex again.’ I’m hoping my ex made a blunder and wasn’t thinking things through. I know we’re meant to be together. I just want to call my ex and say, “I love you.” Then you check your phone every half-hour, checking your messenger, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and even your email inbox to see if your ex wants to talk to you, all in the hopes of reuniting.

What’s more, guess what? Your ex wanted to end the relationship because he or she believes there is something wrong with you. It’s not going to work out that way.

Do you recall my last post? Everyone has flaws and issues. If your partner wants to end your relationship, it suggests they don’t love you enough and are unwilling to work things out.

You must give them the impression that you are too busy for them since (a) your life is excellent and (b) you have a lot of people who want to spend time with you.

Consider a pair of shoes that might have been purchased for $50. You liked it, but it was too pricey for you, so you left. The next day, you drove by again, and people began forming lines in front of the store just to get their hands on those particular pair of shoes. Those sneakers went up in price to $150. Would you feel as if you’ve been left out?

You need to show your ex that you care about yourself. People, even your ex, will love you if you love yourself.


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Your ex-partner believes he or she is the finest person for you. This gesture simply reinforces to your ex that you aren’t that great, that no one else wants you, and that he or she was correct in leaving you.

That’s something I’ve done before. It resulted in two tragedies: (a) My ex did not pick up the phone or respond to my message. (b) ex saying we’ll never get back together again. #burn

Your acquaintances will first unfollow you, and seeing your negativity, they will be hesitant to approach you or introduce you to new individuals. Second, your new pals will all be aware that you are depressed and will not want to learn more about you for fear of becoming infected with your unhappiness. Third, for those close friends who truly care about you, you can simply meet up with them and cry your eyes out.

It’s a complete waste of time to try to gain more attention by being negative. No one enjoys being the center of attention.

I understand you’re hurting and probably feel useless right now because you think your ex doesn’t want you. You want to be loved, and you’re hoping that ‘My ex will find out that I’m in another relationship, and he’ll be envious and ask me to come back.’ STOP. That isn’t a form of self-love. My-ex-is-still-the-center-of-my-world is a phrase that means “my ex is still the center of my universe.” Everything you do is motivated by a desire to reclaim your ex. However, everything you do from now on should be centered on you.

To get your ex back by not trying to win him/her back may appear to be paradoxical.


Use these easy techniques to “lock-in” a man’s commitment to you, and to make him love you FOREVER!

And you always desire what you believe is in your best interests. So, what can you do to improve yourself? You can begin by improving your look (new haircut, new clothes, building muscle, eating healthier, etc.) and having a positive attitude/being open-minded. Join a meditation or yoga class, or learn something new. Improve your exterior appearance as well as your inside mindset. Be the best version of yourself that you can be.

To do what you love, you must have bravery. That is the most crucial aspect of loving yourself.

Start learning to ride a horse, for example, if you’ve always wanted to do it. Enroll in a class.

If you want to establish a business, now is the time to learn how to do so and surround yourself with like-minded others.

It’s time to visit your high school and see your favorite instructor, if you’ve always wanted to.

Take images of your fresh and improved appearance when you go out or have new adventures. Take pictures of yourself doing your favorite things. You can shoot photos with your buddies as well. Be content. Then share it on social media platforms such as Instagram or Facebook. This will also assist you in making new acquaintances! These photos may or may not be seen by your ex. What does it matter? You’re having fun, and you’ll attract more folks who share your interests. But don’t go overboard with your posting. Once every two days is a good amount of posting to avoid annoyance while yet showing off your fantastic life.


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Don’t even think about your ex or what he or she could want while you’re doing all of this. Do whatever you want. Be the best version of yourself that you can be.

I wouldn’t be shocked if your ex contacts you in some way again. The majority of them do.

And if he or she reaches you again, treat them as an acquaintance rather than an ex. Be courteous. If you don’t feel ready to communicate with him or her, simply ignore it. If they beg to meet, decline since, while you appear to be healed, I’m sure it will still hurt when you meet again.

After all, your worth has risen dramatically. Your ex-boyfriend is simply another persecutor. Allow them to wait and take as much time as you need to re-evaluate the person before returning. Maybe you’ll meet someone who loves you more than your ex!

Is my ex going to come back?

It’s a solid sign your ex is thinking of you and missing you if they keep liking and commenting on your new posts. Your ex is, in effect, watching your every move. If you’re doing the same, it’s worth it to try a second inning with them because your ex is almost certain to return.

Give him space.

It’s critical for both of you to take some time away from each other and focus on yourself. By redirecting your long-term relationship energy, you will not only feel better about yourself, but you will also reconnect with friends, pick up old interests, and reclaim the vitality you had at the start of the relationship.


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Even if you spend the most of your time in the same house, you can carve out time to focus on your own thing in a different room or by going outside for a while. This will also offer you both the opportunity to miss each other and understand how essential the other is.

How do you know your ex is not coming back?

While not communicating with you is one method to show that your ex isn’t interested in continuing to communicate with you, blocking you on WhatsApp, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, and any other social media platforms is a clear indication that they don’t want to communicate with you. They are uninterested in what is going on in your life and are unwilling to communicate what is going on in theirs.

They speak ill about you

One of the worst things a person can do after a breakup is to do this. And it’s not worth waiting for them to return if they do this. People with negative personalities are prone to slandering you in order to blame you for the break-up entirely.

How do you know if your ex regrets leaving you?

You’ll notice he’s a little quieter than usual. It’s reasonable that following a breakup, you’ll find yourself conversing less and less with your mutual friends, but you’ll also discover that he converses less and less with your mutual friends.

This does not suggest that his social life will come to a halt; rather, he will put up a show of enjoying himself. Guys are usually skilled at masking their emotions and putting on a show in public, but if you look closely, you can tell that their grins and laughs aren’t genuine.

Read about a pair who has established a habit of making each other laugh. When you question him why he doesn’t seem to be having fun, he’ll make excuses, blaming it on lack of sleep or other problems. His shame and regret are most likely preventing him from genuinely enjoying himself. These are signals that he is remorseful about losing you.

How do u fix a broken relationship?


Use these easy techniques to “lock-in” a man’s commitment to you, and to make him love you FOREVER!

A simple “Hi” or fast invitation is sufficient to start a discussion. It may be sufficient to simply say that you sent them a message, but depending on how they’ve blocked you, you may also need to say who you are. This is all you need to say; don’t say anything else (or send more than one total message) until he or she responds, otherwise you’ll come across as obnoxious.

Why men come back months later?

According to dating guru Gregg Michaelsen, freshly single guys are discovering that being a player isn’t always simple.

“You made him feel like he was the best guy in the world, and he assumed that every other lady felt the same way. He was completely wrong. He’s suddenly having trouble simply getting sex.”

Go ahead and have casual sex with your ex if you’re comfortable with it — you’re a modern lady who can do anything she wants!

However, if you want to restart a meaningful relationship, sex must be removed from the equation.

You must remember that one of the most prevalent reasons why guys return months later is for sex.


Use these easy techniques to “lock-in” a man’s commitment to you, and to make him love you FOREVER!

He has harmed you and the relationship, and if he wants to get you in the bedroom, he must be willing to do things differently.

Make sure you don’t have sex for at least a month after you’ve seen each other again. A month, to be exact. If I tried to let you off the hook with this one, I wouldn’t be a decent dating coach.

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