How To Treat Your Husband Like A King

And by treating your husband like a king, you will bring out the best in both of you.

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How do I make my husband feel like king?

With a broad grin on his face, Al said to me one day when we were dating, “Every morning when I step out that door, you make me feel like a king.” I smiled and thought to myself, “Oh, how sweet! How thoughtful of him to note.” LOL. That’s what I was going for, you see. I wanted to make my partner feel like he was the king of the universe (or at the very least, the king of our intimate universe).

Hokey? Maybe. But, when it comes to love, why be in a relationship in the first place if you’re not making the person you love feel special, cherished, and treasured?

Too frequently, we get caught up in relationships and simply think about WIIFM — What’s In It For Me? That, in my humble view (and by now, you know there’s nothing humble about my opinions), is myopic and leads to short-term partnerships. I’ve been there and done that. However, making your significant other feel valued and special has great benefits for you as well. Because a guy acts like a king when he feels like one. That implies he won’t hold back when it comes to treating you, his queen, like royalty.

So, how do you make Your Royal Highness feel like Your Royal Highness to your man? I believe in utilizing our personal power tools to effect change. So I’ll share my four unexpectedly effective yet basic secrets with you, but only if you pledge to let me know if any of them work for you in the comments.

  • Don’t forget to compliment him on a regular basis. On the surface, men look to be tough. But they still need to know that they are THE man on the inside! My husband is in good health. And I’m not scared to tell him if the opportunity arises. Through text messages, “Hey, handsome, you were looking great this morning when you walked out the door.” When we spoke on the phone, “Last night, you made the nicest meal! I was simply thinking about that while I sat here.” And when you kiss him on the cheek in person, “You’re usually so sweet to people you don’t know. That’s one of my favorite things about you.” Don’t try to steal my compliments now. You must make certain that your compliments are genuine to YOUR man. It’s also impossible to falsify. He’ll be aware. So be genuine.
  • Tell him how grateful you are for his presence in your life. Men need to feel confident that they’re taking good care of you and your family. He isn’t always aware of it. So you’ll have to literally TELL him. “Honey, you’re fantastic at taking care of everything. Thank you very much!” See how simple it was? You’ll see a big change if you do it every day.
  • Inquire (politely). Tell him what to do, but don’t tell him what to do. He’s a full-fledged A** dude. You’re not his mother. Please don’t instruct your man what to do, ladies! You can (politely) ask him to do things like take out the garbage, put your bookshelf together, run the kids to their practice, and so on. But keep it a secret from him. It’s often only a matter of punctuation and tone that makes the difference. If you’re asking a question, end your sentence with a light question mark. “Would you please take out the garbage, honey?” is not the same as “Would you PLEASE take out the trash!” One appears to be a courteous inquiry, while the other appears to be an impatient demand. Only the way you pronounced it and the punctuation mark you used at the conclusion of your sentence were different. Do you want to treat your man like a king? Pay great attention to the tone of your voice!
  • Reward him when he completes the task you’ve assigned to him. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes You’re going to throw me some heat on this one, aren’t you? But consider this: if you reward your boyfriend for taking out the garbage by kissing him every time he does it, what man wouldn’t look forward to it? Wouldn’t you want to accomplish more of something if you were rewarded every time you did it? All of the unpleasant things we have to do on a daily basis are rarely rewarded, and when they are, we begin to take each other for granted. But that’s a simple remedy if we take a few minutes to offer some sort of incentive for jobs performed. (Notice how I didn’t say finished well.) Just finished. Complaining about how a man done something for you is the quickest method to convince him to STOP doing it for you! But that’s a topic for a different day.)

If you try these four simple methods on your partner, I promise he’ll feel your love and reciprocate with some love benefits for you. You don’t have to listen to me, though. All I know is that MY MAN claims I treat him like a king, and I get the rewards. JS: Every. Single. Day!

How can I improve love with my husband?

  • Be flexible with your expectations. Accept yourself and your partner for who you are right now. It’s normal to wish for the “honeymoon period” to linger indefinitely. However, this is not the case. As your lives become more difficult, you and your partner will change, and the relationship will evolve as well. For example, you might be transferred to a new installation after starting a family, or you might have your first extended separation due to deployment. You might notice that you’ve lost some of the spontaneity you used to have, or that your emotional needs have evolved as your profession demands more of your attention. You won’t be upset when the honeymoon phase passes and life as a couple begins if you recognize that relationships grow.
  • You should go on dates together. Spend time alone with your partner to rekindle the passion and intimacy in your relationship. It will assist you in remembering why you came together in the first place. It’s crucial to “create” the time to be alone together, as you’re unlikely to “find” it, especially given the unique demands of a military lifestyle. Schedule a date like you did when you were single or before you started your family once a week or once a month. Agree not to talk about the kids, in-laws, or finances. Dress up for dinner, a movie, or a “quality” evening at home with the phone switched off. Plan the activities you’ll undertake together by taking turns. If you want your love and rapport to last, romance must be a regular aspect of your relationship, not just on special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries.
  • Make friends. It is never too late to become true buddies, and it is never too late to adore your spouse. Couples must genuinely enjoy one other in order to be both lovers and friends in order to be happy in the long run. Friendship emerges as a result of shared beliefs and empathy. Spend more time having a good time. Get involved in a “shared enterprise” that both of you enjoy, such as gardening, house improvement, or church work. Take up a new pastime with your child, such as dancing, jogging, or coaching his or her baseball team.
  • Make rituals for yourself. They serve as the glue that holds a connection together. While you build rituals with your partner, they become familiar shared joys that you can look forward to when you’re facing obstacles at work or in other areas of your lives. A goodbye kiss before work, breakfast in bed with the crossword problem on weekends, or an annual Christmas shopping excursion together are all examples of rituals. Create your own day-to-day and holiday rituals. Then put them into practice. They will improve your lives by offering stability; anytime you are together, you will experience acts of beauty, joy, and kindness.

Partnerships necessitate upkeep. “Maintenance” may sound like something for your car, but anything you value and want to last need care and attention. And you want your relationship to be strong and easy for many years to come. The most important aspect of preserving your relationship may be awareness – seeing how each of you feels and recognizing the things that need to change in order for things to run well. From the relationship management guidebook, here are a few helpful hints:

  • Take a look at your relationship’s pulse. Consider making the changes you want and need, just as you would take stock of your career on a regular basis. What brings you closer together as a couple? Is it a matter of physical attraction? Relaxing as a couple? After the kids have gone to bed, how about a cup of coffee?
  • Talk about how you’re feeling about your time together. Is it sufficient? Do you wish your partner made it a higher priority? Are you communicating about your concerns in a clear, honest, and frequent manner? Or are you fuming in silence about an incident that occurred weeks, months, or even years ago? Place all of your problems on the table and start making the sacrifices that will bring you closer together.
  • Make it a practice to speak regularly. A simple phone call from work to “touch base” might help remind you of the importance of your connection and provide you with a sense of continuity for both of you. Some people utilize a phone conversation during the day to settle family business, allowing them to enjoy each other’s company more when they get home. Be inventive if you’re deployed. Use e-mail or compose words of love and support in advance, as phone calls can be pricey or just not an option. Ensure the notes are sealed in separate envelopes and will be opened on the dates mentioned. This modest gesture can go a long way toward reassuring your partner that he or she is valued and loved.
  • Prepare ahead of time to avoid bottlenecks. It’s a good idea to “pre-discuss” issues that you know may cause conflict between you. You might argue on who stays home from work when a child is sick or how you want to celebrate the holidays, for example. Making a game plan ahead of time will assist you in dealing with such situations when they arise. Remember that collaboration and compromise are essential. “What are the two of us going to do to fix this problem?” you might wonder.
  • Be adaptable. You and your partner will never agree on everything, no matter how thoroughly you communicate about your differences. And that’s perfectly normal. In fact, your differences are likely one of the things that drew you together in the first place. Recognize that not all disagreements need to be settled. Sometimes it’s just a matter of agreeing to disagree – and being prepared to listen to your spouse’s side of the story.
  • Allow each other some breathing room. If you allow your partner time and space without you, your relationship will be stronger and more intriguing. Keep in mind that no single person can possibly match all of your requirements. Outside friendships and interests must be maintained and nurtured by both you and your spouse.

It can also be interesting and rejuvenating to take classes, acquire new hobbies, and go on short travels alone. Your spouse will return revitalized, with fresh ideas to discuss and new perspectives to share.

How do you treat a man with respect?

  • Make your marriage a priority. Make an effort to spend time with him. Have fun with it. As a human being, enjoy his company. Pay attention to what he has to say. Regular date evenings, in my opinion, are essential because they allow you to focus on one other and your relationship. Try one of the at-home date ideas in The Healthy Marriage Solution workbook if babysitting and time away are a problem.
  • Collaborate on a project with him rather than taking over. Joe enjoys both gardening and canning. He’d be grateful if I took time out of my busy schedule to assist him while he’s at work. It would demonstrate to him that I value him enough to lend a helping hand. However, if I take over, it has the opposite effect, signaling to him that I do not believe he is capable of handling the task.
  • Allow him to take a breather. Joe helps out around the house a lot and works a lot of hours (76.5 hours last week!). He does the majority of the cooking as well as the cleanup. He’d do everything I asked of him. I encouraged him to nap in the afternoon on Sunday. I knew he needed it, and he felt so much better afterward. Any husband would appreciate a break – the freedom to do anything he wants for an hour or two. It demonstrates to him that you value his interests and commitments as well.
  • Inquire about his suggestions. Men enjoy repairing and resolving issues. I value and respect his perspective, expertise, and experience, so I’m asking for his input.
  • Recommend him to others. When it comes to Joe, this could very well be my most heinous offense. It’s so simple for me to think and say negative things about him, whether in humor or genuinely. It’s one of those words that just comes naturally to me. Even if I catch it before it comes out of my mouth, the concept still passes through my mind. I’m making an effort. It’s critical that I strengthen him.
  • Make a love note to him. Tell him about the aspects of his personality that you admire and admire. This huge heart affixed to the bathroom mirror is adorable. One of these days when Joe doesn’t have to go for work at 5 a.m., I’m going to do it for him.
  • Thank you, sir. “Thank you, Dear,” isn’t enough. Thank him for particular actions, such as putting out the garbage, mowing the grass, or cooking a delicious meal. Thank him frequently.
  • Don’t forget to compliment him. You chose him out of all the guys in your zip code (and beyond), so he must have some redeeming traits. Tell him about them.
  • Set the tone for the evening. This was certain to be on the list, right? Make time in your marriage for intimacy, and your husband will feel loved and appreciated.
  • Keep your big mouth shut, if you don’t want to offend anyone. Keep your mouth shut when you’re inclined to criticize or use a harsh term or tone. When quiet is the only option, it is the most respectful option.

Marriage isn’t easy; no one ever claims it to be. It is, however, easier when both spouses are accepted and cherished as individuals and actively love each other. Make today the first step.

How do you make a man feel loved?

If you just learned about love from movies and television, you’d assume it was all about males making swoony confessions like Lloyd Dobler with his boom box or Andrew Lincoln with those cue cards in Love Actually.

Knowing a person’s face, learning how their eyes shine when they’re joyful, how they prefer to be caressed when they’re sad, happy, or turned on, and how to navigate through disagreement together are all examples of love in real life.

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James M. Sama compiled an entertaining list for men on the tiny things that make women happy and how to make them happy. I believe the same is true for men. And whether you’re married or just starting out, if you have a decent man to adore, he deserves to feel the same way.

Compliment him.

Where did we obtain the idea that only women want to be told they’re pretty, smell nice, are smart, or sexy?

I’ve always assumed that men are more confident in their appearance and sex appeal than women. Guys are supposed to be unconcerned about what they wear or whether or not their new haircut looks good, right?

That’s a load of nonsense! I’ve never encountered a man who didn’t give a damn if the woman he loved found him attractive. So tell him when you see him and get that tickle of oh my my, you’re so hot.

It’s simple: whenever anything positive comes to mind, tell him. Tell him his old beat-up tee shirt makes him look gorgeous. When you hug him, tell him how much you enjoy smelling his neck.

Tell him you appreciate what he does for you and your family.

If your partner works outside the home, express your gratitude for his efforts. Even if he enjoys his job, I’m sure there are days when he fantasizes about quitting, cursing at his employer, or simply hiding in his office all day. He, on the other hand, does not do it. You and your family could be a part of the problem.

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Winning money is a huge burden for everyone, but society emphasizes it more more for men. Unfortunately, their monetary potential is frequently linked to their social worth. As bad as it is, it’s made worse when we don’t understand the stress guys are under and the effort they put in.

Your partner is sacrificing for your family if he works at home with the kids. As much as he presumably enjoys being a stay-at-home parent, every parent has moments when they want to throw in the towel (or diaper), rage at the boss (the baby? ), or hide in a corner. They don’t, however! They’re in there all day, elbow-deep in something disgusting and caring for the kids.

It’s simple: tell him you understand how difficult his job is. Tell him how much you appreciate it and how much you admire his dedication. It’s not about the money, whether it’s yours or his; it’s about recognizing something that most people take for granted.

Make time for things to get hot in the bedroom.

No, he’s not a sex god, but the best sex is transcendent, reciprocal, linked, passionate, and dreamy, so make sex sacred and intense for both of you. Making him feel like your personal sex god, and him reciprocating, will almost certainly make both of your lives better.

Nobody owes their spouse sex, but in a healthy relationship, developing desire is a good thing. If you’re having trouble getting into sex-god or goddess mode at home, consider spending the night in a hotel room. If that’s not an option, a tent in the woods can be just as enjoyable. If that works for you, you can talk about dreams or look at sensual photographs together at home, such as the diverse selection in Dr. Timaree’s NSFW library.

Alternatively, you may shoot some boudoir shots of yourself. Don’t want to expose your entire body or go too racy? Close-ups of a sexy but not-so-obvious body part are a good idea. The top of your undies poking out from your jeans at the hip, your bra strap on your shoulder. There are numerous sources of inspiration available.

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It’s simple: feed your passion for him. Choose to fantasize about him, about a time when you were together, or about your favorite feature of his body. Then heap all of your desire on him the next time you have a chance to be alone with him.

Be supportive of his alone time.

To be honest, this was the most difficult for me. I’m not sure why, but I used to resent how much time Ivan spent surfing or riding his mountain bike when we first started dating. We were both working, we didn’t see each other very much, and I felt as if I had been forgotten.

That was an unfair amount of strain to place on my husband. We gradually figured out how to organize our alone time, and I took advantage of his willingness to accommodate my need to exercise, write, or simply read in bed.

Unless he’s so engrossed in his alone time that you’ve vanished off his radar, your independence is a good thing! If you’re concerned about how long he’ll be gone, simply schedule a time for him to return and make arrangements with him for later. Being apart can give you more things to talk about, and if he uses his alone time for exercise or meditation, he’ll likely be happier and healthier as a result.

It’s simple: smile when he says he’s out to do activities on his own that make him happy. Kiss him on the cheek. He’ll have a sense of being seen, heard, and supported.

Put down your phone.

On this, I’m just as culpable as everyone else. There’s always that one more email, that one more text from a pal, that one more work emergency. However, you must put your phone down and look at the individual in front of you.

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When I find myself engaged in this cycle, I try to take a big breath and imagine the worst-case scenario of ignoring whatever is buzzing at me. He understands if it’s a serious emergency, but most things can wait.

When I put down my phone, I frequently notice him and take a good look at his face. I see the man I adore, the man I met so long ago, and I say to myself, “How ridiculous is it that I’m not engaging with him?”

Make a pact with your partner: if you need to use the phone for something essential, tell the other in a few words what it is. “The server is down,” or “The sitter is calling,” are both valid reasons to take a break, but inform him of your plans and when you’ll be back.

It’s simple: be present while you’re with the person you care about. Try not to lose track of time while staring at a computer screen.

When you get something for yourself, get something for him, too.

I’ll admit that I stole this idea from James Sama, but it’s sound advice that’s also simple to implement!

Getting a cup of coffee? Take one for him! Do you want to make a cup of tea? Make one for him as well.

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I learned a long time ago that whenever I ever go to a surf shop, I always bring Ivan a present. I’m generally there for the kids, but I always grab a tee shirt or a cap for my husband, or even just a fresh lip balm or tube of sunscreen.

It isn’t about the amount of money spent; it is about the fact that I am telling him, “I know you like surf stores, so when I was there, I thought of you.”

It’s simple: saying, “It only takes a second,” is all it takes “Is it possible for me to get you one?” The effect continues indefinitely.

Look him in the eyes.

You don’t have to look longingly at each other as you used to at the roller rink with your 9th grade lover. Just take a moment to gaze each other in the eyes and share a look.

You wouldn’t think a soul-gazing connection would be on a guy’s list of wonderful things if you went by stereotypes, but I defy you to try it. With a smile or a fun expression, look him in the eyes and hold his gaze for three seconds. It’s a flirting tactic that works well for singles since it makes the other person feel as if they’re the only one in the room. He may now be your boyfriend or husband, but he deserves to be treated with respect.

Giving your partner a million wonderful little moments with you is one essential to a long-lasting relationship, and he should do the same in return. After all, research suggest that how much compassion exists between the couples appears to be a key factor in a happy marriage.

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Even though I attempted to make it sound easy, some of these tasks are not always simple. They sometimes force us to be vulnerable in ways we aren’t accustomed to. I understand; I’ve been there, and occasionally I still am. But I believe it is worthwhile to give it a try.

Also, inquire about his list of small pleasures – I’m sure you’re already doing many of them.

What is the sweetest thing to say to your husband?

The loveliest things to say to your hubby are listed here. Hey, Baby, it’s only your smile that brightens my day. I’m not sure I could have come up with someone as lovely as you if I had the ability to create my own man. Your hug is my home, and your smile is happiness.

How can I make my husband feel a man again?

Acting like a lady is one technique to make your husband feel like a guy. In the hustle and bustle of daily life, it’s all too simple to reach for the jeans and sweatpants. When you make an effort to play up your femininity, though, it reminds you both that you are very much a woman and he is very much a male. So, even if you’re just hanging out with the guys, seek for items that compliment your figure and remind him that you’re not one of them.

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