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    What are the signs that my husband is not attracted to me?

    If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to contact us “”Does my husband have any feelings for me?” alternatively “What can I do to find out if my husband is still interested in me?” You’re probably concerned that he’s lost interest in you.

    Perhaps your husband isn’t very affectionate, or you’ve noticed other behaviors that indicate a lack of attraction to your wife.

    Consider these 15 indicators that your hubby isn’t interested in you:

    You rarely talk

    In any relationship, especially a marriage, communication is essential. When you pass each other in the corridor, you may say “Hello,” but when was the last time you sat down and talked?

    If you can’t recall the last time you had his undivided attention during a conversation, this is a cause for concern and could be one of the signals your husband doesn’t find you attractive.

    What you should do is:

    Begin by inquiring about his day. Pay attention to his responses and respond with questions that lead to more discussion. Make direct eye contact with him and express your concern by referring to his experiences.

    He doesn’t state his needs

    Is he still telling you what he needs when it comes to talking? Marriage necessitates two individuals learning to look after each other, but if he isn’t telling you what he needs, there’s a problem.

    Ask! Begin each day by inquiring what he requires of you that day or if there is anything else he need that you can assist him with. Asking our wives what they need is the greatest approach to find out.

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    He ignores your needs

    Now that you’ve heard enough about him, how about you? Are you expressing your wants to him, but he ignores them? Does he answer at all, or do you get the impression that he ignores you?

    Being relegated to the back burner or outright neglected could indicate a lack of involvement or a husband’s loss of interest in his wife.

    To begin, you must first determine your requirements. It will be tough for him to reply unless you have a clear notion of what you want.

    You want to be direct and to the point when expressing your demands. Short, straightforward, and accusatory language is an excellent technique to prevent ambiguity about the core need you’re trying to communicate.

    He is no longer affectionate

    It’s crucial to understand that not everyone craves affection in the same manner. If your need for affection is greater than his, you may mistakenly believe he is an uncaring husband when it is simply a difference in expression.

    The real problem is if there is no affection in the relationship, especially if you have previously seen each other as an intimate couple. If he never hugs you, holds your hand, kisses your cheek, or gently places his hand on your back, it could be an indication that his mind is elsewhere.

    Take a look around. Are you a romantic? When you leave each other for the day, do you gently touch him or give him a hug?

    If you think you’re holding back on the affection, try re-introducing it carefully at first and seeing how he reacts. This is a good method to address the question, “How can I attract my husband?”

    Sex is dead

    After the honeymoon phase, it’s usual for any long-term couple to reduce the amount of sex they have, which means that the duration between sexual encounters will likely grow a little longer the longer you’re together.

    However, a lack of sex is a strong indicator that you and your partner are no longer linked. Another huge clue your husband is not attracted to you is if you find yourself thinking, “My husband ignores me sexually.”

    Determine what your sexual requirement is. Is it more convenient for you to do it once a month or once a week? Do you have any idea how much sex he prefers?

    If the situation changes, try to establish a middle ground. It’s never a bad idea to attempt something fresh in the bedroom to rekindle the romance.

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    He spends his free time with his friends and never invites you

    He used to take you out and show you around, but now he spends all of his friend time alone. It’s fine if he spends time with his buddies without you around, but if he spends a lot of time with them and you’re no longer invited, pay attention.

    When he says he has plans or wants to get out with his friends, invite yourself. He might not be aware that you desire to hang out with them. So, make it clear that you’d like to meet up with his friends as well.

    He looks at his phone more than he looks at you

    We’ve grown accustomed to individuals having a device in front of their faces, but if he’s continuously staring down at that screen, he won’t be able to look at you.

    There’s nothing wrong with screen time, but if there’s a screen between you and him throughout every discussion, date, or hangout, it could be an indication his interest in you is waning. This can surely make the husband feel unwelcome.

    Make it a rule that no phones are allowed at the dinner table, for example. Making time for each other without being distracted by digital devices might force a dialogue that leads to connection.

    He doesn’t compliment you

    Although physical compliments are wonderful, their absence does not automatically imply that he is no longer interested in you. I’m curious whether he compliments you at all. What are you talking about?

    Even encouraging words about “funny” things (good job taking out the garbage!) can be beneficial. The goal is that you want him to notice you and respond to you positively in some way.

    Begin by complimenting him on his lawn, even if it’s just telling him how nice it looks. Compliments are an excellent approach to break the ice and get to know someone. If you start to detect symptoms that your husband isn’t interested in you, giving him a complement could be a solution.

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    “Quality” time together feels forced

    Making time for yourself is, of course, a problem, but even when you do have time together, it may not be the quality time you require.

    Maybe he still goes on date nights, or you still go to brunch on Sundays, but does that time together feel nice to you? Or does he seem to be eager for it to be over?

    If spending time with you feels like a job for him, you may be right to believe you’re seeing signals my husband isn’t interested in me.

    If you’ve fallen into a rut, switch things up and try something fresh. If that doesn’t work, concentrate on the environment.

    Taking a lengthy stroll together, for example, can provide an opportunity to connect. Even if the talk is dragging, taking a peaceful walk with your partner can help you relax and feel more connected.

    He doesn’t share is interest or hobbies with you

    You may believe you know all of his hobbies if you’ve been together for a long time, but do you? Is he open with you about his thoughts, opinions, or ideas? Is there anything he wishes to attempt or learn about that he never mentions?

    Has he stated how his favorite team is performing, for example, if he is a sports fan? It’s a sign he’s distancing himself if he no longer shares his interests or hobbies.

    You can always ask him, but it would be even better if you could come up with something you two could do together.

    You may suggest a horror movie marathon night if he enjoys them. You may ask him if he plays fantasy football and if he can teach you how to do it. Demonstrate your interest in him by sharing your own. You might notice that you’re getting to know each other for the first time.

    He is no longer dependable

    Is it true that he doesn’t show up when he says he will? Can you rely on him to be there for you when you need him? Is it possible that he forgot to take you up?

    Sure, we all forget things from time to time, and we’ve all dropped the ball, but if he never follows through and you can’t count on him, it’s an indication he’s losing his appeal.

    Solicit his assistance with a project or chore, and work together to complete it. Make it obvious how important it is to you and what you want from him. Giving him a precise “ask” and expressing why it’s important to you can help him focus on your marriage again.

    He calls you names

    Verbal abuse is when you call your partner names like ugly, dumb, or worse. Is he speaking to you or about you in a different way now? Is he respectful of you and treats you with dignity?

    Your husband should always treat you with respect, even when you are going through a difficult moment.

    It’s critical to seek help if you notice your husband doesn’t respect you and is verbally, emotionally, sexually, or physically abusive. Therapy is always a good option, and you may also reach out to professional advocates who can listen to your problems and share their knowledge and resources with you.

    There is no romance anymore

    Although romance may diminish during the course of a marriage as people get more at ease with one another, he should still make an effort to make you feel cherished.

    If your husband never buys you flowers for your birthday or makes modest gestures to show you he cares, you may feel undesired by him.

    Have a chat with him to understand his point of view. Perhaps he isn’t aware that he isn’t putting out any effort. Tell your hubby how much you appreciate his modest acts of affection. You might even try to set an example for him by showing him romance.

    He doesn’t check in with you throughout the day.

    This might be every phone call or text message on mundane matters like who is picking up dinner or whether the power bill has been paid.

    If there is still a spark between you, your husband should check in on you on a frequent basis to see how your day is going or to let you know he is thinking of you.

    Maybe the two of you have just become too accustomed to each other’s company. Take the initial step and send him a message throughout the day to let him know you’re thinking of him, and see what he says.

    He seems annoyed by everything you do.

    Maybe you suggest doing something together and he rolls his eyes or tells you it’s a stupid idea, or maybe he’s just annoyed by your presence. If this is the case, it could indicate a loss of interest in the wife.

    Have a talk with him about how he appears to be irritated by you, and how this bothers you. To figure out what’s generating his attitude, try to get to the root of the matter.

    What does it mean when your husband doesn’t want you sexually?

    My husband and I have been married for 30 years and our relationship is mostly cheerful, amicable, and supportive. After our children were born, his interest in sexual intercourse waned till it came to a halt five years ago.

    Over the last five years, I’ve asked him to join me in therapy on several times. He contemplated it several times but always said no, claiming he had no desire for a physical relationship. I’ve pushed him to talk to a friend or his doctor about our predicament, but if he has, he hasn’t told me what happened. I’ve accepted the reality that he has little interest in sex, and even less interest in talking about it, after repeated attempts at bargaining and suggestions that he go to treatment. If I don’t bring it up, our lives are lot more calm.

    Celibacy is not my choice, and I greatly miss that aspect of our relationship, as well as the intimacy. So I’m at a fork in the road: should I quit my celibacy marriage despite the fact that we’re great friends, parents, and partners? Are you looking for a supplementary relationship? Or do I have to give up my sexuality?

    I’m sorry you’re having such a rough time in your relationship. Despite the fact that you are not alone in this—sexual troubles are prevalent in marriages—you must be feeling quite lonely. You may also feel rejected, furious, and powerless, especially if you don’t understand why this is happening. But you don’t have to accept an unsustainable sacrifice. So, let’s have a look at what you’re capable of.

    First, because sex is such a delicate subject for most people, focusing on the larger relationship between you and your husband will help—at least at first. You claim to have a “happy” and “supporting” marriage, but imagine for a moment that the deadlock was over anything else important in your relationship—tensions over money, health, boundaries, addiction, or children, for example. The subject is less relevant than the fact that you’re stating you’re in a lot of pain and that your husband won’t talk to you about it. That is a huge issue, sex or no sex.

    With this larger issue in mind, you can move your focus from trying to modify his behavior (whether or not he will have sex) to attempting to strengthen your marriage. Despite the excellent qualities of your marriage that you describe in your letter, my suspicion is that you’re both suffering in separate ways. Of course, you’re feeling terribly ignored. Meanwhile, your husband is probably dealing with something so unpleasant or humiliating that he can’t bear dealing with it.

    An undiscovered medical condition, a side effect of a drug, a hormonal imbalance, stress, sadness, low self-esteem, trauma, or even problems in your marriage that he hasn’t brought up could all be impacting his sex drive. A specific shift, such as an emotional issue related to pregnancy or parenthood, might also reduce desire. (If your sex life was fantastic before you had kids, for example, he might have had problems seeing you as both a mother and a passionate partner.) There are additional factors that contribute to sexless relationships that have nothing to do with sexual desire (having a porn addiction, secretly preferring a partner of another gender, having an affair but not wanting to leave the marriage).

    Whatever the reason, your spouse is most likely carrying a tremendous load—and he, like you, is probably feeling alone in his suffering. It’s less likely that your spouse has no interest in sex (at least in theory), and more likely that he doesn’t want to open what may feel like a Pandora’s box to him.

    So, returning to the larger topic, which you can discuss with him. When contacting him, try approaching him with curiosity rather than blame. Instead of stating, “I need us to have sex again,” which implies that he is the issue, you may add, “I don’t want us to have so much sex conflict, and I certainly don’t want to feel like I’m nagging you.” I simply wanted to let you know that I miss being physically near to you. On the one hand, we’re such wonderful friends, but I have the impression that we don’t know much about each other. “Can we talk about what’s bothering us?”

    “Nothing’s going on,” he may respond, but rather than letting that be the end of the conversation (as I’m sure you’ve both done before), you may remark, “Something is going on between us if we can’t talk about the ways we’re not connecting.” Right now, I don’t need you to have sex with me, but I do need you to be my partner and communicate with me.” Let him know you’d like to talk because you care about him and want your marriage to work. Finally, let him know that if he doesn’t feel comfortable talking to you right now, you’re willing to assist him in finding a place where he does. This establishes that you two are a team, as opposed to what appears to be a pattern of futile “negotiating” or “suggesting.” You’re being vulnerable and empathetic here, but you’re also being direct: This is about how we relate to one another and deal with problems as a couple. I don’t think we’ll last if we can’t work through difficult issues together, whether it’s sex or anything else.

    Hopefully, he’ll be willing to let you or a therapist into some of his emotional world. If that’s the case, you’ll need to be patient and show him that you appreciate his efforts. Instead of stating, “It’s been three months—isn’t the counseling working?” make sure he understands how important it is to you that he takes your marriage troubles seriously.

    However, if he refuses to take them seriously, you may want to consider ending the relationship. If you do decide to leave, it will not be because your husband has sexually excluded you. It will be because he emotionally isolated you. You’ll have done everything you can to rescue the marriage, but you won’t be able to do so on your own.

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    Is it normal for a married man to play with himself?

    Masturbation is quite acceptable for married men and women. This does not, however, imply that their partner does not satisfy them or that they are sexually dissatisfied. Masturbation is sometimes just something that people enjoy doing, even if their sex lives are fantastic.

    How do you know if my husband is still attracted to me?

    If you’re anything like me, your partner could be holding a huge sign that reads, “I’m totally into you,” and you’d still be unsure where your relationship stood. Believe it or not, just because my husband put a ring on it doesn’t mean I know he likes it, to paraphrase Beyoncé’s great wisdom. It’s natural to question if there are any concrete signals your husband is still attracted to you. Marriage doesn’t instantly eliminate fears or guarantee your shared flame won’t fizzle, which is why it’s natural to wonder if there are any concrete signs your spouse is still attracted to you.

    It’s always wonderful to have a little reinforcement that your significant other still finds you fascinating and enticing, no matter how long you’ve been together. And, since crystal balls and telepathy are only found in science fiction (or are they? ), whatever insight you can obtain into what is going on in your lover’s thoughts is priceless. I learnt the hard way that staring at your partner intently isn’t the best approach to see if they’re still interested in you. So, if you’re inquisitive, have a look at these signals that your lover is still interested in you.

    /8The matters of love and intimacy

    There’s no denying that physical closeness is important in a partnership, and having a fulfilling love life is one of the most important aspects of a great marriage. A study looked into this further and attempted to determine the exact number of times a happy couple has sex in a year. Can you guess how often a married couple has to get intimate in order to maintain a happy relationship? Here’s a hint: it might be significantly less than you think!

    /8The study

    According to a study published in the Archives of Sexual Behaviour, a married couple should get intimate 51 times a year, or once a week, in order to live a fulfilling and happy existence.

    /8Is our generation having less sex?

    Surprisingly, according to studies conducted between 2000 and 2004, the number of times married couples have sex has decreased with time. Couples now have 9 times less sex than they did over two decades ago, according to research from the National Center for Health Statistics.

    /8What other studies suggest

    According to the findings of a study conducted by the University of Chicago titled ‘The Social Organisation of Sexuality: Sexual Practices in the United States,’ one-third of couples get intimate two to three times each week, and nearly half of couples admit to having sex only a few times per month.

    /8What happens when a couple has sex more than once a week?

    According to the conclusions of a study published in the Journal of Social Psychological and Personality Science, couples who have sex once a week are happier, whereas those who do it four or more times a week report no significant improvement in happiness.

    /8The conclusion

    According to the findings, increasing the frequency of sexual intercourse does not always imply that a couple will be happier in their relationship. In addition, the researchers of this study surveyed approximately 30,000 persons over a 40-year span.

    /8What matters

    One of the study’s authors emphasized the importance of having a strong emotional bond with your partner in addition to a healthy sex life. “Our findings imply that keeping an intimate relationship with your partner is crucial, but you don’t need to have sex every day as long as you’re maintaining that connection,” Amy Muise, the lead researcher, said.

    /8What experts say

    Experts, on the other hand, believe that every relationship is unique, and that there is no set number of times a couple should get intimate in order to be happy in their marriage. In reality, discussing your sexual desires and ensuring that both partners make attempts to satisfy each other is the key to having a more meaningful sex life.

    The lack of intimacy related to a sexless marriage can be painful and frustrating. (Photo source: iStock)

    A sexless marriage can be defined in a variety of ways. According to some specialists, it happens when spouses haven’t been intimate in 6 to 12 months. Others define it as having sex with your spouse no more than ten times a year. Whatever the definition, “sexless” marriage is clearly a problem when one or both partners are unhappy with the frequency of sexual encounters.

    The dynamics of a sexless marriage will be explored in this essay, as well as how a sexless marriage might affect you.

    What are the signs my husband is cheating?

    Your spouse may be stressed at work or have issues with other relationships, which might cause a shift in attitude. The following are possible indicators of infidelity, but they could also indicate other problems.

  • Your partner shows indicators of having low self-esteem.
  • You realize your spouse is perplexed about himself or herself.
  • Your partner appears to seek out risk and excitement in life.
  • Your spouse is more negative than he or she was previously.
  • Your spouse becomes harsher with you.
  • It appears like your partner is picking fights more frequently.
  • If you bring up the subject of adultery or extramarital encounters, your husband becomes irritated.
  • You are unsatisfied with the response when you ask for reassurance about cheating.
  • What happens sexless marriage?

    Physical intimacy is what distinguishes a platonic friendship from a romance. Some couples develop a pattern or habit of neglecting the physical aspects of their marriage.

    While there is a “natural” decline in the first few years of marriage, especially when children are involved, complete loss of this physical side of marriage often indicates a marital problem that must be addressed.

    Married couples might become more-or-less housemates without the physical intimacy that distinguishes a love relationship from a platonic one. It is not need to be concerned if both partners are comfortable with this form of relationship. However, the lack of physical intimacy and sex frequently frustrates or hurts one or both spouses.

    A sexless marriage is one in which the partners engage in little or no sexual activity.

    Why do married men cheat?

    There are a variety of reasons for marital infidelity, both with and without individual or marital risk factors. However, there are a few common threads that run through many of the causes. The role of unfulfilled needs is one of them.

    One partner may be unable of meeting their other’s demands, yet those requirements are frequently unspoken. Marital spouses do not have the ability to read one other’s minds. Another issue is the failure to handle issues head-on.

    Another important aspect of communication and commitment in marriage is avoiding difficulties (conflict avoidance) rather than confronting them.

    Cheating can be caused by a variety of factors, including:

  • Unhappiness/Dissatisfaction: Emotional or sexual dissatisfaction with the marriage is prevalent. Marriage is a labor of love, and couples who do not nurture one other may grow apart. For both men and women, a sexless marriage is frequently cited as a reason.
  • Feeling devalued or neglected: Feeling unloved might lead to infidelity. When both partners work, women are typically responsible for the majority of the housework and childcare. The affair validates the person’s feeling of worth in this scenario. Feeling ignored, on the other hand, may be due to unreasonable expectations of a relationship rather than actual neglect.
  • Lack of commitment: Setting aside everything else, a 2018 study discovered that persons who are less committed to their relationship are more likely to cheat.
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  • Boredom: Cheaters are more inclined to cheat if they are yearning for the thrill of the chase and the excitement of newfound love. Rather than looking for a replacement for their partner, some people believe that their fling is a method to spice up their relationship. Cheating is usually justified as a result of falling out of love. This could be due to a misunderstanding of how love develops in marriage.
  • Body image/aging: As seen by reports of middle-aged men having affairs with women their daughters’ age, infidelity can be a method for a man (or woman) to demonstrate that they still “have it.” Coupled with these sentiments, a spouse could blame their partner for their own transgressions, believing that their partner has “let himself/herself go.”
  • Revenge: If one partner has had an affair or has hurt the other in some manner, the aggrieved partner may feel compelled to seek vengeance, which may lead to an affair.
  • How do you tell if he’s not attracted to you anymore?

    1. He has trouble getting erections on a consistent basis.

    This is one of the most clear signs that something is wrong in your relationship.

    There’s no reason he shouldn’t be able to achieve an erection on a regular basis if he’s healthy and in a good mood.

    2. He is increasingly choosing masturbation over sex with you.

    There’s nothing wrong with some good old-fashioned self-love, but there’s an issue when you know he’s rejecting your approaches in favor of masturbating.

    3. He hasn’t touched you in a long time.

    This does not always imply that you are having sex. Simple gestures such as kissing, hugging, or simply holding your hand indicate that a guy is still interested in you.

    He’s losing (or may have fully lost) his attraction to you if he recoils when you try to hold or touch him.

    4. He speaks to you in a way that a man would speak to his sister, roommate, or male buddy.

    You should be concerned if he starts treating you like a roommate rather than a wife or girlfriend. This is usually a sign that he no longer sees you as a sexual being.

    5. His demeanor has shifted from chilly to distant to confrontational.

    This is frequently an indication that he’s checked out of the relationship, and it suggests he’s no longer interested in you in that sense.

    6. He almost always rejects you and makes excuses for not having sex with you.

    If he’s not even mildly interested in your sexual advances, he’s probably lost interest.

    He’ll still be open to sexual encounters part of the time even if his libido is low. He’ll merely be less inclined to initiate or accept your offer than he would be otherwise.

    7. Your body has undergone significant modifications, which he has noted.

    Men are visual animals, despite what no one likes to hear. If you’ve gained a lot of weight and your boyfriend or husband has told you he’s noticed, there’s a risk he won’t find you as beautiful as he did when you first started dating.

    8. It appears that everything you do irritates him.

    When someone is truly interested in you on a physical level, they will overlook all of your unpleasant habits.

    All those minor eccentricities become extremely bothersome when someone is no longer attracted to you, and they may even cause your formerly laid-back significant other to become snippy with you.

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