How To Make A Guy Want You Over Text

When it comes to dating and relationships, texting is quite important. It’s pretty much our only means of communication, and it may make or ruin a relationship.

A text can either give the wrong impression and turn a guy off, or it can have a significant impact and cause him to think and obsess about you for the rest of the day. It’s not about putting on a mask and pretending to be someone you’re not. You want your true self to shine through in text, but sadly, a lot can get lost in translation, and you might wind up sounding untrue to yourself.

Texting doesn’t come naturally to a lot of people and may cause you to unintentionally push a guy away before things even get started. And today, I’m going to give you some fantastic text examples that will ensure he becomes obsessed with you.

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1. Start with “What’s up?”

These communications are bland and uninteresting, and they don’t pique his interest. And if it doesn’t start a decent conversation, he’ll most likely respond with something as generic like, “You don’t have much?” And the discussion isn’t going anywhere.

Guys aren’t big on chatting just for the sake of talking. They prefer to converse for the purpose of conversing, therefore aimless chatter will be an annoyance to him.

2. You don’t have to tell him about your day-to-day activities.

Many women claim that men do not respond to texts, yet she texts him things that do not elicit a response, such as “I’ve just settled in to watch a film.” What is he meant to say in response? Is that all right? He might not even be aware that you’re waiting for a reaction, so while you’re pondering why he didn’t say anything about you watching a movie, he’s going about his business, believing you’re preoccupied.

If you text now, it’s a little different: “I’m looking for a decent film to see. “What do you think?” He might not only recommend something wonderful in this scenario, but he might even ask if he can join you!

3. Do not text him to express your dissatisfaction.

This is something that men despise. If you need to rant on occasion, that’s OK, but if he’s busy at work, he doesn’t want to be drawn into your drama. Men prefer to experience a limited spectrum of feelings, and they don’t want those emotions to go beyond happiness and contentment.

4. Pay attention to punctuation and emojis.

Too many lols will make you sound insane, so be careful. Also, stop saying lol unless you’re truly laughing. He also doesn’t know if you’re serious when you use the word lol at the end of every statement. As an example, “I wish I could be with you right now, hehe.” What exactly does that imply?

Also, double-check that autocorrect didn’t do you any harm, because we all know how quickly an innocent word can be transformed into something that is nothing like what we were trying to express!

I’d also like to emphasize that it’s not so much what you say as it is what you mean by what you say, and if you’re coming from a needy place, he’ll pick up on it and won’t want to feed into that needy mindset.

The needy mindset is one in which you want him to respond in a specific way in order for you to be satisfied. You exhale a sigh of relief if he texts back. Everything is in order. He has a thing for me. I’m lovable and deserving. If he doesn’t respond, you’ll sink into a pit of misery and worry over it for the rest of your life.

After you text him do not obsessively check your phone over and over to see if he replied yet.

Allow it to be and go about your business! Also, keep yourself occupied so you don’t pounce the moment he responds.

Now, I’m not suggesting that if he takes five minutes to respond to your text, you should double that number by three and text him in 15 minutes, or anything like that. The reason responding soon quickly appears desperate is that it implies you don’t have much else going on in your life, which guys find unappealing. So make the most of your time by doing things you enjoy! You’ll have a lot on your mind and won’t be focused on him if you do this.

Also, guys can tell when you’re making them wait because they sense it. My male friend was telling me about this female he was seeing who he liked, but whose texting habits were grating on his nerves. He noted that if he took a long time to respond to her, she took much longer, and he knew she was on her phone. It was evident to him that she wasn’t responding on purpose, which made talking with her and planning a date extremely difficult. It also put him off a little.

When you’re engrossed in your own life, involved in your own life, and content in your own life, it’s reasonable to give him space because you’re not waiting for him. Waiting two days to respond to his SMS will not pique his curiosity; it will most likely irritate him. What rouses a man’s intense interest is a woman who is fulfilled and busy with her life to the point that he really needs to work his way in … she doesn’t just dump everything she has going on in her life overboard the second a man enters the picture.

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A funny text.

You may send a joke, a hilarious meme, or an article. Just don’t do it too much, or you’ll end up in a humorous banter relationship.

You can use comedy to break the ice at times, but you also want to connect on a deeper level and leave opportunity for flirting and getting to know one another.

A seductive text

Most women are terrified of displaying interest, yet it isn’t a terrible thing to exhibit interest. It’s not a good thing to be desperate.

What are you doing? That’s a dull question; what would you be doing if I were with you? That’s enticing.

You don’t have to be graphic or sexually explicit. It’ll do the trick if it’s something engaging with sexual overtones. It’s a terrific method to imprint yourself on his thoughts for the rest of the day if this is a guy you’ve just started dating. If it’s a guy you’d like to date, he’ll know he has your permission and won’t be turned down if he pursues you.

An upbeat text

Men adore a happy, self-assured woman. And guys gravitate toward what makes them feel good. He’ll want to be around you if it feels nice to be around you. He’ll want to text you if it feels wonderful to text you. Send him something upbeat and positive.

Don’t deliver a laundry list of things that went wrong that day when he asks how your day is going. You can admit you’ve had a bad start, but then add a positive spin by saying you’re excited to show the rest of the day who’s boss!

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The visual

Because men are visual creatures, whatever you can say to start him picturing you will go a long way.

‘Something along those lines,’ for example “After my gym class, I’m saturated and need to shower. “We’ll talk afterwards!”

Don’t overdo it, especially if it’s your first date. Just keep it understated “”Inadvertent.” You were merely mentioning that you were having a shower; you had no idea how evocative this would be for him!

And unless this guy is your boyfriend, I would caution against sending any explicit photos because if you’re in the early stages then chances are you don’t know him super well just yet and once something is out there, you can never get it back.

The flirty text

If you haven’t started dating this person yet, you should give him permission to pursue you. Because men are afraid of rejection, it’s critical that you exhibit some interest without going crazy.

Send him a complement, such as, “I just noticed the photo you uploaded, and wow, that looks great!” Add a winky face emoji after that, or say something subtly provocative.

And if you’re already dating, don’t be shy about flirting! Flirting piques his interest and keeps him thinking about you throughout the day. It’s also cheerful, entertaining, and delightful.

The interesting question text

Say something that will make him ponder, like “What would you do tomorrow if you woke up without fear?” or “What would you do tomorrow if you woke up with no fear?”

When it comes to attracting a man’s attention, a good rule of thumb is to be fascinating.

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The compliment

Men, believe it or not, enjoy compliments as much as women do… and they receive them significantly less frequently!

Make him feel better by saying anything. Again, don’t be scared to show your enthusiasm. If a guy is interested in you, displaying attention will not be seen as a negative trait!

The appreciation text

Men are in desperate need of recognition, as we discuss frequently on the site.

A man will not want to be in a relationship with a lady who does not appreciate him. Period.

It’s critical to express gratitude no matter what stage of a relationship you’re in. Here are a few examples:

“I appreciate you taking me to that wonderful restaurant. That was the most delicious supper I’ve had in a long time!”

That’s it, texts to make him completely enamored with you. It’s not just about the texts, but it’s also about you. It’s all about your mentality and mindset. It’s all about your attitude toward yourself and your life. If you are unhappy with yourself and want a man to make you happy, that energy will be transmitted to others, even through text. It will also come across if you are happy, fulfilled, and like your life.

Focus on what’s going on inside yourself rather than what you say. A man texting you back will never make you feel truly valuable. You are the only one who can accomplish it.

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What to text a guy to make him want you?

1. Just thinking of you makes me happy…

2. Cocktails for you and me?

3. I was just thinking about a time when we… (bring up a happy memory that you shared)

4. Do you want to know what I’ll do the first time I see you? Make up your own story…

5. Do you miss me?

6. You have one of the most beautiful smiles…

7. One of my favorite things to do is flirt with you…

8. I wish I could be in your arms right now…

9. I’m having a hunger…

10. Just so you know, when I saw a message from you, I grinned.

11. Next time I see you, I will have a surprise for you

12. I’ve had such a rough day, do you want to cheer me up?

13. I consider myself fortunate to have you as a friend.

14. I’d want to play with you in a game…

15. Let’s spend the day just cuddling in each other’s arms.

16. Put down your phone and hurry over here…

17. Hello, sexy…

18. I’m looking for love.

19. Just knowing you’re there makes me feel better.

20. I’m chilling a bottle of wine…

21. Let’s snuggle up and keep each other warm…

22. When I’m with you, I have a lot of fun.

23. When you’re not with me, I genuinely miss you.

24. Can you tell me what you’re wearing? Lol

25. Make a note of me on your “to-do” list.

26. I just stepped out of the shower and wanted to let you know that you’re on my mind.

How do you make a guy desire you over text?

1. Get the sassy text out of the way first.

This sarcastic text was the first to make him fall in love with text messages. Be distinct, be unique, and express something unexpected about yourself. Men are drawn to women who are intriguing.

Here’s an example of a sarcastic text you may send to a guy:

“Today I awoke early, but I decided to drive to the beach to watch the dawn.”

This demonstrates that you are not like the majority of individuals who prefer to stay in bed. It also shows that you’re determined and a little daring. This is seductive without attempting to be so.

Texting a man like this is helpful because it relieves him of the need to always take the initiative and be creative. This convinces him that you might be able to make a difference in his life. It makes you more intriguing and interesting.

Make sure you’re not lying when you advertise. Don’t pretend to be doing something you aren’t, such as skydiving. Lies catch up with us, and they’re never a nice way to start a relationship.

2. Now it’s time for the adorable text.

Send him a sweet quick text about something you’re doing when he’s not around to share it with him. Send him a lovely and amusing message to let him know you’re thinking about him even when you’re not together.

Men enjoy being the center of attention. And, while he may never admit it, he adores the fact that you think about him when you’re apart.

Too many women discourage men while, in reality, most guys require greater support.

Here’s an example of a sweet text message:

This is unquestionably a winner. This type of text reassures him that he’s made an impression and that you’re still thinking about him. This type of content appeals to a man’s heart and ego without being overtly complimentary. Whatever you hear, males enjoy a little self-indulgence. Even if they don’t show it, they want to know they’re the best.

Men also enjoy cuteness. Period. It’s one of those things that gives them the feeling of being strong and capable of taking on the world.

Just be careful not to over-flatter him. Consider drip feeding rather than sloppy overfeeding.

If you brag too much about how great he is, he might think you’re weird and have high expectations.

3. Now it’s time for the amusing and unusual wording.

To put it another way, laughter makes the heart grow fonder. You can win him over if you can make him laugh.

If you’re wondering how to make a guy laugh over text, let me tell you that pretty much anything goes; as long as it’s hilarious to you, you’ll be OK.

Here are a few examples of “fun facts” texts you could send:

  • If you’re looking for a “I just heard that sneezing with your eyes open is impossible.”
  • If you’re looking for a “Did you know that chewing gum while peeling onions can help you stay calm? Do you want to give it a shot?”
  • If you’re looking for a “This is a strange situation. What is referred to as a French kiss in the English-speaking world is referred to as an English kiss in France.”
  • Humor may be really effective in establishing a relationship with a man. The route to anyone’s heart, including yours, is through their sense of humor.

    4. Now move on to the plain text.

    In the digital age, this is a hot classic. The straightforward text shows him that you’re a no-nonsense lady who isn’t afraid to say what she wants rather than waiting for the man to make all the decisions.

    Here’s an example of a text that’s direct to the point:

    The majority of men despise wasting time. They admire and value a woman’s directness and self-assurance. By periodically taking the lead, you’re demonstrating to him that you’re a capable woman who can give your fair share to the relationship.

    Yes, you like it when he takes the lead, and he enjoys it as well. He also appreciates a woman who is interested in him and doesn’t want him to prove himself at every opportunity.

    In fact, if a woman does not reciprocate after weeks of phoning and messaging, a male is likely to lose interest. Men believe that a woman who does not reach out is either uninterested, lacking in confidence, or playing games.

    Now that you know what kind of texts to send a man to get his heart racing for you, here are a few more sophisticated texting strategies to consider.

    5. Make your messages more presumptive.

    You might be wondering what this means, especially because most of us have been taught not to make assumptions about others.

    If you want to meet up with the guy rather than wait for him to ask you out, you can send him a text message in a way that suggests you already know that he would, of course, want to join you.

    Consider the following example of an assumptive text:

    “I recently learned about Netflix’s finest new series. Tonight, let’s watch it together!”

    This is attractive and alluring to a guy because you’re assuming his answer is a yes and you’re approaching him with pure confidence.

    This will make him happy, and you may use this type of flirty text for anything you want to do together.

    What flirty texts do guys like?

    1. Hello there, stranger. Don’t be a stranger.

    2. Good day, you! I hope your day is going well!

    3. How would you react if I invited you over right now?

    4. I’m the one who initiates messaging, therefore I’m expecting you to initiate kissing as well.

    5. I’m here to ask you out. Do you want to go out for coffee on Saturday?

    6. No one understands me like you.

    7. Now that I’ve officially texted you, don’t make me wait. I’ll be anxiously staring at my phone, waiting for it to ding.

    Come on over. Now. Except for me, no one else is present.

    9. Right now, I wish you were sitting next to me.

    10. You can’t text me first, but every five minutes you may post your Facebook status? I see what you’re saying.

    11. Hello there! Please, don’t worry about me so much!

    12. Last night, I had a dream about you.

    13. I’m terrible at initiating conversations. Do you want to give it a shot?

    14. How about some Netflix and chill?

    15. What are your plans for the weekend? Because I don’t have any.

    16. I recently finished a book that I know you’d enjoy. You should come over and collect it.

    17. How about we snuggle up tonight and watch a movie?

    18. Come on over; I’ve got all of your favorite things. Pizza, beer, and, of course, ME were all on the menu.

    19. I was just scrolling over your Instagram and I have to say, you look great.

    20. Your mouth has been on my mind all day.

    21. May I just call in ill tomorrow and spend the entire day with you?

    22. I’d like to invite you over this weekend, but I’m not sure I’ll be able to keep my hands off myself.

    23. Do you have any plans for lunch today? I was hoping to drop by and share a meal with you!

    24. I consider each message you send me to be a small gift.

    25. I’m not sure why, but today’s ideas are particularly X-rated. I believe you are to blame.

    26. I think it’s extremely sexy that you’ve been so patient with me while I’ve tried to take things gently. Believe me when I say that I’m well worth the wait!

    27. Do you miss me yet?

    28. It’s been a long and exhausting day. Do you need to let off some steam tonight?

    29. When I’m with you, I’m on cloud nine.

    30. Takeout. Tonight. You and I.

    31. I’ve been looking forward to seeing you all day.

    32. I enjoy it when my roommate is away since I don’t have to dress.

    33. I’m guessing it’ll be a night of burgers and beer… Are you up for it?

    34. I couldn’t stop thinking about you all day; it kept me from working.

    35. I recently heard a song on the radio that exactly captures our relationship.

    36. I was planning on texting you in a day or two, but I can’t wait that long to chat to you.

    37. Let’s skip the small talk and go to flirting right now.

    38. I can’t recall the last time we talked. That needs to change.

    39. Be truthful. Have you been waiting for a text from me for a long time?

    40. You never send a text message first. I’m not sure if you despise me or are just being coy.

    41. How did it take you so long to message me? I’m such a joy to be around.

    42. How is your week shaping up? Is there any room for me?

    43. You’ll adore the outfit I’m wearing tonight.

    44. Stop posting pictures of yourself that make you appear so good. Over here, you’re killing me!

    45. See, this isn’t working for me; you’re too far away. I’d be in your arms right now if I could.

    46. Hello there. I was simply curious as to how long it will take you to understand that I like you and that you like me back.

    47. I’m completely enamored with you. Just a heads up.

    48. I had a dream that we were sexting, and when I awoke, I resolved to make it a reality.

    49. You’re looking fantastic today. What evidence do I have? Because you maintain a good appearance on a daily basis.

    50. You are the only thing I see when I close my eyes.

    51. Did your face light up when you saw my name flash up on your phone a few moments ago?

    52. You’re the missing piece of me that I didn’t even realize I was missing.

    53. You are truly great. That is something you should never doubt.

    I’m 54, a little tipsy, a touch horny, and completely alone.

    55. I’m really hungry right now, yet I don’t want to eat.

    56. I keep remembering how good you looked the last time we met.

    57. What makes you so adorable?

    58. The only time I make a ridiculous smile at my phone is when you send me a text message.

    59. You have no idea how much I am looking forward to seeing you right now!

    60. Let’s embark on a journey together. This weekend, why not attempt a new hike?

    61. I’m running out of text messages to send you, and I’m running out of jokes as well. My phone’s battery may run out, but my heart will never run out of room for you.

    Congratulations on number 62. You’ve progressed to the next level. The next time I see you, I’m not going to hold back. Make yourself ready!

    63. You’re quite attractive. I believe I am attracted to you.

    64. If you’ve been thinking about making a change, today is the day to do it.

    65. Getting any work done today is tough because I can’t stop thinking about you.

    66. You were very attractive last night.

    67. I’m sorry to hear you’re having a bad day. Is there anything I can do to help?

    68. You give me a sense of importance, which I adore!

    69. I’m sure you’re aware of how I feel about you. So, what are your plans for dealing with it?

    I totally adore you at the age of 70.

    71. May I just call in ill tomorrow and spend the entire day with you?

    72. Every single one of my friends has told me that they wish they had a guy like you.

    73. I can’t get you and your smile out of my head.

    74. Just so you know, we’re hanging around tonight.

    75. I just took some erotic photos, but they’re too offensive for Instagram. Want to have a look?

    76. I just noticed the new photo you posted. I see you’re looking better than ever.

    77. I’ve wanted to try rock climbing for a long time! Do you want to be my instructor now that I’ve met an expert?

    78. I’m contemplating uninstalling Tinder because I’ve already met the man I want to be with.

    79. Do you believe in love at first sight, or do you think I should come back?

    80. At my residence, there’s a Mewtwo. You’d best hurry up and catch it.

    81. If you want to come over to my house tonight, I’ll make the trip worthwhile.

    82. I’m not sure what I’d do without you.

    83. Right now, I’m wondering if you even exist. I mean, is it possible for someone like you to be genuine?

    84. In case you were wondering, I’m still single.

    85. Do you realize you’re one of the most fascinating individuals I’ve ever met?

    86. Which emoji comes to mind when you think of me?

    87. Have I mentioned that I’d like to kiss you today? For the simple reason that I want to kiss you.

    88. I enjoy your company. What are your plans for dealing with it?

    89. I could do nothing with you for the rest of my life.

    90. We should definitely stop messaging and meet together in person instead.

    91. I can’t stop smiling because it hurts my cheeks! What are you doing to me?!

    92. Can’t get the other day/night out of my head.

    93. I just saw something incredibly attractive that reminded me of you.

    94. I’d give anything right now to be with you.

    95. Do you think it’s sexier when girls initiate contact, or should I wait for you to initiate contact?

    96. Hey, there, sexy.

    97. I’m not one for waiting three days, so I’m contacting you right now.

    98. I grin like an idiot when I see your name flash up on my phone screen.

    99. Right now, I’m dying to spend some time with you.

    100. Do you want to have a good time?

    101. I know you’ve had a bad day, but don’t worry; things will get better.

    102. I’m currently watching a rom-com in which the main character looks precisely like you. Except it’s not nearly as adorable.

    103. I always search for you first when I come into a place full of people.

    104. Can you guess which emoji I just added to your phone next to your name?

    105. Have you ever been told that you have the most beautiful eyes?

    106. Just so you know, I’m usually much better behaved.

    107. I appreciate the fact that you continue to push me. You’re helping me grow as a person.

    108. I can’t take my mind off of how lovely you are.

    109. It didn’t take me long to realize how unique and great you are.

    110. I despise almost everyone, but you are an exception.

    111. I’m not going to lie, you’re always on my mind.

    I’ve got Netflix on, but no one to watch it with. Do you think you could assist me?

    113. I don’t have anything particularly intriguing to say to you, but I was eager to speak with you.

    114. Before I met you, what did I think about all the time?

    115. You’re really fantastic.

    116. You’ll think I’m lying, but you’re basically my dream guy.

    117. I’m not a big fan of scary movies, but I know I’ll be safe with you in there.

    118. Don’t you think our first kiss will be epic?

    This weekend, 119. It’s just you, myself, and a bottle of wine, right?

    120. You know what’d be better than a text response? A dinner invitation has been extended.

    121. I hope you’re feeling a little bit better today!

    122. It’s bitterly cold today. Would you like to come over and warm me up?

    123. I hope my desire to text first appeals to you.

    124. Are you going to have wine or beer tonight?

    125. I can’t believe I’ve found a brilliant, humorous, and amazingly attractive guy.

    126. I could text you all night if I wanted to.

    127. Our most recent date was a lot of fun. I can’t recall the last time I laughed that hard.

    128. I understand that no one is perfect, but you’re quite near.

    129. I think we should go on another date soon.

    130. Because of you, I have undoubtedly improved as a person. So, thank you very much.

    What texts do guys like to receive?

    When it comes to messaging guys, making a list of don’ts is always easier than making a list of dos. Don’t use the same text twice. Don’t be overly attached. Don’t call him shortly after you’ve had a date. Don’t overdo it with the emojis… So, when it comes to texting, what do guys prefer? Here are a few suggestions.

    The top five SMS that guys enjoy receiving are:

    1. The “The Ball Is In Your Court” Text

    “It was a good time last night. If you want to do it again, give me a call!”

    If there’s one thing that guys adore, it’s being able to eliminate the guesswork from dating. Every guy’s ideal is to let a guy know you’re interested and then let him pick when and how to take the next step without any pressure. There’s something to be said for putting the responsibility on his shoulders—let him fret over the next text to send.

    2. The Text “Advise Me”

    “Do you have any recommendations for new headphones?”

    Men enjoy sharing their knowledge, to the point where mansplaining is a problem that all women face on a regular basis. However, if you’re looking for help and need an excuse to talk to a guy, this is a proven technique to get him chatting. To have his ego stroked, he’ll feel important, smart, and joyful. You could just read Amazon reviews and figure it out on your own, but why not kill two birds with one stone? Just make sure you pick his brain about something he’ll be familiar with. He doesn’t know or care what you need from Sephora on your next visit.

    3. Use a text that is succinct and to-the-point

    “I work until 6 p.m. So, let’s talk.”

    “He’s terrible at texting,” I’ve heard from almost every friend I have about someone they’ve dated at some point. Guys, on the whole, aren’t as conversational as women, so texting can be tedious. While I usually don’t advocate lowering the bar when it comes to dating males, this is an exception. Consider the text message as a vehicle to make plans to see each other while you’re casually dating or just getting to know each other. Make plans to meet if there is something you want to talk about. Set up a date with him if you just want to talk to him, or do the old-fashioned method and phone him.

    4. The Location Text

    “Do you want to meet at Smitty’s for Happy Hour tomorrow at 6 p.m.?”

    It’s a long-running joke among males that women can’t decide where to dine, and let’s be honest, it’s not entirely wrong. Being firm in your intentions demonstrates to him that you know what you want and will not waste time hemming and hawing. Sure, we like to be accommodating, but he’ll feel less pressure in general if you save him the dance of attempting to read your mind. Everyone desires a spouse who can make them feel at ease.

    The Sexy Text is number five “”Assist me in choosing a bikini…”

    This is a no-brainer that may be used in a flirty dating setting, a playful new partnership, or to spice up a long-term engagement. It’s entirely up to you how raunchy you want to be, but even the tiniest hint of provocative banter may usually pique a guy’s interest.

    When it comes to texting habits, every guy is different, but these are solid places to start. Just remember not to get too worked up if they aren’t the most chatty via text message—use your face-to-face time together to see whether there is a genuine connection.

    What makes a man crazy about you?

    Most women don’t know how to really make a man go absolutely crazy about you

    There’s just one question:

    “How can you make a guy enamored with you to the point where he’ll never consider leaving you?”

    Of course, this is a massive question about which I could write a book. But to keep things simple, I will only give you seven pieces of advice to help you with this.

    Here are seven ways to make a man want you desperately:

    Become self-confident

    You must first have your own life in order before you can make a man utterly wild about you.

    After all, men admire a confident woman, especially when she expresses an interest in them.

    The majority of men are insecure because they do not accomplish enough in their life. As a result, people expect that a relationship will miraculously improve their situation.

    Watch out for this trap

    If you don’t already feel good about yourself, it’s not true that getting into a relationship would solve all of your problems and make things better for you right away.

    Because if your entire well-being is dependent on the shoulders of another person, your entire foundation is at risk.

    If you get into a relationship with a person and he becomes your source of happiness, you’ll become clingy, needy, and reliant on him.

    Those are all extremely unattractive features that will quickly turn most men away.

    Instead, you should endeavor to build a strong foundation within yourself on which you can always rely.

  • Perform actions that make you proud.
  • Make a plan and stick to it.
  • Participate in the activities and interests that you enjoy.
  • You’ll feel great about yourself if you do these things, and then having a terrific guy in your life will make you feel even better. But being in a relationship with a man can never help you feel better if you aren’t already happy.

    So make sure you have excellent friends, do activities that make you happy, and continue to improve yourself so that you may become the high-value, self-assured woman you can be.

    You’ll notice that if you’re actively working on your foundation, you’ll attract more attention from wonderful guys who will become enamored with you.

    Make him feel manly

    A woman who makes him feel good about himself is something that will drive a man insane.

    And as logical as the following may sound, a man can only feel good in a relationship when he feels like “the man”.

    If you can make him feel this way, he will find you to be much more appealing.

    The most effective methods are as follows:

  • Seek his assistance.
  • Allow him to take care of things for you.
  • So, if you’ve been to the grocery and are carrying a large bag, ask him (if he hasn’t already) if he can carry it for you.

    And whether or not you can carry the bag yourself is unimportant; what matters is that you give him the impression that you require his assistance.

    He wants you to see him as a real man

    He will not receive this sense if you do everything yourself and never seek for help.

    Don’t get me wrong: it’s fantastic if you’re a self-sufficient lady who can handle everything.

    Allowing him to assist you on occasion (even if you don’t really need it) is a simple and effective technique to make him want you more.

    Be unpredictable

    Predictable is another word for BORING in the world of relationships and dating.

    And I’m sure neither of you is searching for a dull relationship, am I right?

    It is therefore necessary to disrupt your daily routine from time to time in order to drive him crazy about you.

    What commonly happens is that a guy and a woman’s relationship is really thrilling at first, and they do different things.

    However, there comes a point when they both put less effort for one other and they think to themselves:

    That’s every man’s fear

    Men are terrified that once they are in a relationship, a woman will put in less effort for them.

    That’s why, especially in the early stages of dating, it’s crucial to be surprising.

    This will pique his interest because he’s never quite sure where he stands.

    So, instead of taking him to the town for a drink every time, surprise him by taking him to the petting zoo.

    Simply make sure he doesn’t know where he stands all of the time; it’ll drive him insane.

    Let him make an effort for you

    It’s nearly hard for a guy to be attracted to you if he doesn’t have to put up any effort for you.

    So, if you respond to all of his messages in less than five seconds and always answer “yes” to all of his demands, he will quickly become bored.

    Because when a man thinks you are too easy, he will quickly lose interest

    By the way, I don’t mean you should always act like an ice queen and play ‘hard to get.’

    I’m referring to a woman who says:

    Yes, I like you, but I’m not that easy to get along with. You must give it your all for me if you want to win me over.

    If you can convey this vibe to him, you will drive him crazy with desire

    If he asks you to come over on a Tuesday evening at 10 p.m., for example, you could say:

    Sorry, but I’m not the kind of woman that shows up at that hour. However, because I like you, we can meet for coffee in town on Saturday afternoon.

    Because it’s things like this that cause a man to get enamored with a lady.

    Plus, there’s something else in the scenario above that can drive a man crazy for you:

    Tell him you like him

    It’s good to allow a man make an effort for you, as we covered in the prior suggestion.

    However, you should let him know that you like him every now and then. Because if a guy is unsure whether or not he has a chance, he will most likely abandon you (to protect himself).

    As a result, you should tell him now and then that you like him, and he will think:

    And when a guy has this impression of you (and he likes you), it doesn’t take much to drive him insane.

    Sometimes be unavailable to him

    Okay. I despise it when women do this to me, but I have to confess that it works rather well.

    You should set out moments when you are available to him and times when you are not.

    And, like with all mammals, if he receives a random reward (in this case, your attention), he will seek it out again and again.

    Once it’s obvious that a guy has got your attention whenever he wants, the relationship soon becomes boring for him

    This may appear weird, yet the same principle is at work in all forms of gaming.

    This is due to the fact that when you gamble, you will win and lose a number of times.

    This increases the gambler’s desire for the “prize,” and before long, he is addicted to it.

  • As a result, disregard him on sometimes.
  • Instead of hanging out with him, hang out with your buddies.
  • Allow him to wait for you to respond to his SMS.
  • These small but subtle gestures indicate that you have significant things on your mind and that he isn’t your first priority, all of which are desirable attributes in a woman.

    Simply by not being unavailable to him on occasion and enjoying your own life, you will discover:

  • He’ll find you a far better deal.
  • He will go above and above for you.
  • He’ll go all out to get you.
  • And before you say anything, consider this:

    “Yes, but I’m not interested in playing a game with him,” or “What if he meets someone else while I’m unavailable?”

    I absolutely see your point of view, however when you’re flirting with a guy, everything becomes a game.

    A man wants to make an effort for you (even if he thinks he doesn’t), and by not always being available to him, you do this quite efficiently.

    What are things guys like to hear?

    Although males aren’t always the best at choosing the perfect words, women aren’t completely blameless. Here are just a few of the things we wish our girlfriends would say to us more frequently.

    1. “I have faith in you.” Yes, many of us are cocky and arrogant and believe in ourselves completely, but it’s occasionally great to hear it from someone else, especially someone close to us. Also, no matter how arrogant we may appear at times, we men can become down on ourselves, so we need you to give us a pick-me-up now and then to restore our confidence and make us feel supported.

    2. “You have such a good-looking face.” You ladies aren’t the only ones who care about how you look. Most of us make an effort to appear our best for you as well. It’s wonderful when you complement us on our attractiveness, much like ladies appreciate being complimented on their appearance.

    3. “I think you’re fantastic just the way you are.” To be fair, expressing something like this generally necessitates a little hyperbole. Regardless, it’s always a pleasure to hear. Even if no man is flawless, it’s still good to hear that you love us despite our shortcomings.

    4. “You have a sexy look about you.” Let’s be clear: there’s a distinction to be made between looking good and appearing sexy. Being described as handsome is like to being told, “You clean up pretty well, fantastic job.” It’s like hearing, “I’m getting a little turned on just looking at you,” when you believe we look sexy. Do you see the distinction? It’s wonderful to be reminded that you still get the urge to jump our bones by telling us that we look hot.

    5. “You’re not like the other guys,” she says. Thank you so much for the lovely compliment. Sure, a lot of us are a dime a dozen, but it’s wonderful to know that we stand out from the crowd to you. Guys, like women, want to believe that we’re unique in some way, so please remind us of this every once and again.

    6. “It’s wonderful to be in your arms.” This is obviously something to say while cuddling, and it’s always pleasant to hear. For starters, it gives us the impression that we have large, powerful arms that can grip you tightly. Yes, it’s rather caveman-like, but that’s just how we’re wired. Also, as you may know, cuddling isn’t always our favorite activity, so knowing you’re getting something out of it is at least comforting.

    7. “You never fail to make me grin.” This is hopefully correct, and if it is, it’s always good to know. Remember that males, too, are insecure at times, fearful that you’ll find someone better. Hearing things like these makes us feel more confident in our partnership. That said, you shouldn’t say this if you don’t mean it; otherwise, you’re sending mixed signals.

    8. “Have a good time with your pals.” It’s not that we don’t care about you; we just need to hang out with our buddies from time to time so we can do things we wouldn’t do in front of you. It’s also quite thoughtful of you to encourage us to hang out with the guys rather than making us feel guilty. If this is your attitude when your partner goes out with his pals and leaves you at home, I applaud you.

    9. “I have faith in you.” As it should be, this is a massive one. No one wants to be in a relationship with someone who does not have their best interests at heart. In fact, if you don’t trust someone, you should probably avoid them altogether. We appreciate hearing that you trust us and our relationship as a whole.

    10. “Are you able to assist me?” We don’t mind if you ask this during the fourth quarter of a playoff game. You may believe that enlisting our assistance with a mundane task is a bad idea, but being needed can feel good at times. Unless your partner is a complete jerk, he’ll appreciate the fact that you sought for his help.

    11. “Let’s get it done.” Obviously, this may be a reference to your desire to have sex, and we’d be fine with that. “Let’s do it,” on the other hand, might be employed in a different context. In either case, it demonstrates that you agree with what we’re saying. It might be a date suggestion or a vacation suggestion. In either case, we appreciate it when you pick up while we’re putting down.

    12. “I made a mistake.” This is, after all, a two-way street. Men and women alike have a tendency to be stubborn and unable to accept when they have made a mistake. When this happens, simply admit that you were mistaken so that we can both move on, OK? We’ll do our best to follow suit.

    13. “What I’m looking for is…” We’re not mind readers, don’t get us wrong. We also don’t always enjoy playing games where we have to decode what you say. Come out and say it if you want anything. We want you to be open and honest with us about what you’re thinking.

    14. “Last night, you were incredible.” Hearing this first thing in the morning is the ideal way to start the day for a man. It’s not even necessary to be sincere. You don’t even have to remember what happened last night. Don’t get us wrong: it would be fantastic if you really meant it. Regardless, it’s something any man would enjoy hearing a lady say the morning after hooking up.

    15. “Give me the money.” Sorry, but this is a little out of date, especially since most couples nowadays split the bill when they go out to eat. It never hurts for a woman to pick up the check if you’re still in the early stages of a relationship and trying to make a good impression on the other person. If you’re dating a nice guy who believes in feminism (and if you don’t, you shouldn’t be dating him anyhow), he’ll be fine with it.

    How can I win a man’s heart?

    When males do things around the house, they have two goals in mind: one is to solve a problem, and the other is to impress you. Has your husband ever told you or shown you what he’s doing when he fixes something? He’s hoping you’ll say yes. He want to be the hero of your story. One of the best methods to win your husband over is to observe what he does and tell him how amazing he is or how grateful you are for what he has done.

    Date him for who he is, not for his potential.

    Everyone wants to be liked and accepted for who they are, but many women make the mistake of dating a man for his potential, or the man he could be in five years (with your help, of course).

    Men, on the other hand, aren’t projects. When you expect a man to change, he perceives that you aren’t recognizing him for who he is. It may make some guys feel ashamed, as if they aren’t good enough. If a man feels this way in the start of a relationship, he’ll most likely become worried and end the connection.

    When I’ve asked happily married guys what about their wives made them think, “Yes, she’s the one,” they frequently say, “She never attempted to change me.”

    Know what you’re searching for in a man and look for someone that fits the bill.

    Create emotional safety for him.

    Emotional safety refers to a place where people can freely express their views, feelings, and wishes without fear of being judged.

    When males claim a woman is easy to talk to, they’re referring to the fact that they can say things to her that they wouldn’t say to anybody else since they won’t be criticized.

    Listen to your man without passing judgment the next time he’s having a difficult day, moaning about a colleague, or telling you something personal. Understand when to solve a problem, when to provide assistance, and when to just listen. People don’t always want their problems solved; they simply want someone to listen to them out and feel safe with you.

    Keep things light and playful.

    People will remember you based on your shared experiences. The more pleasant and enjoyable experiences you share, the more those sensations get associated with you.

    Relationship timelines varies between men and women. Women tend to jump into relationships, eager to define their status and skipping over many of the fun aspects of dating, while men often take a little longer to decide if they want to pursue the relationship further.

    Because you’re still dating a guy, even if he really, really likes you, it’s crucial to keep the beginning of a relationship light and playful.

    Be vulnerable.

    Dropping your guard and revealing your vulnerability is the quickest method to develop emotional intimacy with someone. When you show someone an unfiltered version of yourself, you’re essentially giving them the key to exploring every intimate detail about you, and that’s a huge responsibility.

    Consider how you’d feel if you’d earned someone’s trust in that way. Isn’t it incredible?

    When you expose your vulnerability to others, you create an emotional safe space for a male to do the same.

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