How To Make Him Obsessed With Me

This is the backdrop to your entire effort to get your partner fascinated with you, your golden rule of all relationship rules: make the guy feel truly loved. I know you’ve heard that guys are only interested in sex, and while that is true, love is still the most crucial factor.

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Compliment him … just not all the time.

Most guys aren’t used to receiving compliments, so when they do, they take it in stride.

The only difficulty is that if you hear compliments all the time, they lose their meaning.

What is a man’s secret obsession?

Bauer claims that every adult man has a hidden obsession—a tremendous biological desire comparable to hunger, thirst, and arousal. To characterize this desire, he invented the phrase hero instinct. In a word, the hero impulse is men’s innate desire to feel irreplaceable.

How do I know if I’m on his mind?

1. Throughout the day, he texts you adorable little inside jokes. To begin with, having a couple of inside jokes? It’s so cute. Perhaps he sees something that reminds him of your pet name or sends you a Vine that perfectly describes how you feel when you’re hungry. He’s just trying to make you smile all the time. Inside jokes for couples, on the other hand, are exclusively amusing for the pair who possesses them. They appear to be as lame as heck from the outside. It’s similar to using a hoverboard. The rest of the world thinks you’re a moron, but you’re like, “What the hell. On this hoverboard, I’m having a blast.”

2. On his way home, he usually surprises you with something. Whether he stops at a petrol station to get you the Twix you mentioned or sends you flowers “just because,” it suggests he saw something that reminded him of you. It doesn’t have to be a large financial gesture; it can just be remembering things that are important to you.

3. He follows up on your interactions. He texts you to find out how your work meeting went or what Stacey just “had to tell you over drinks.” Either the guy is secretly obsessed with gossip or he genuinely cares about your life and wants to know what’s going on.

Tease him early in the morning.

As you get ready for work, walk about as long as you can in your underpants and “accidentally” rub your body up against his.

Incorporate a few tiny moments of enticing bending over. He’ll be at a loss for what to do with himself.

What are the 4 words not to say to a man?

But you must understand that, while most men recognize the need of communication, we nevertheless dread those four words. Most guys have had numerous positive conversations that have enhanced their relationships. I’d say that 95% of the “talks we need” are innocuous and genuinely beneficial. It’s up to the remaining 5% to sabotage each of those four words. Every man has had this experience: they’re sitting on the couch, watching Batman Begins for the twentieth time, when their significant other walks in stride, arms folded and brow knitted firmly. “We need to chat,” she says. And with that, his life is transformed. It shifts in a split second. In her iconic memoir about bereavement, Joan Didion writes about life changing in an instant. This year is the Year of Magical Thinking. Bro is mad chillin’ one minute. Tears, accusations, and ultimatums follow the following minute. It’s as though you’ve been attacked by a tornado of weeping monkeys. It’s gone in an instant. Was it a miscommunication or a long-winded explanation? Perhaps she was having a mental breakdown and needed to get things off her chest. Sunbeams pierce the gloomy clouds of her mood, revealing a skeleton who was once a guy relaxing on his couch.

What is the 12 word text hero instinct?

The hero instinct, coined by relationship expert James Bauer in his book His Secret Obsession, is the inspiration for the 12-word text.


Use these easy techniques to “lock-in” a man’s commitment to you, and to make him love you FOREVER!

All males, you see, have a basic desire to defend the woman they care about and earn her respect in return.

I had a desire that no man I met could satisfy. As a result, I couldn’t even catch a man, much less hang on to him like my buddies.

The truth is that most men are completely unaware of their desire. When the relationship isn’t activated, though, they are well aware that something is lacking. It has the potential to induce them to stray, break up, and seek happiness elsewhere.

This is when the 12-word text enters the picture. You can send your man a simple SMS to elicit that instinct.

I’ll show you how to utilize it in your own relationships in the rest of this post, so you may achieve the amount of commitment you deserve.

What words attract a man?

According to studies, using specific terms in a dating profile can increase the amount of communication received from possible partners.


Use these easy techniques to “lock-in” a man’s commitment to you, and to make him love you FOREVER!

According to a new study, men like ‘ambitious’ women and women want ‘intellectual’ men, but ‘funny’ is a turn-off in the new vocabulary of love.

The studies found that the words ‘ambitious,’ ‘perceptive,”sweet,’ ‘hard working,’ and ‘thoughtful’ are the ones most likely to attract male attention on dating services.

What texts do guys like to receive?

If there’s one thing that guys adore, it’s being able to eliminate the guesswork from dating. Every guy’s ideal is to let a guy know you’re interested and then let him pick when and how to take the next step without any pressure. There’s something to be said for putting the responsibility on his shoulders—let him fret over the next text to send.

2. The Text “Advise Me”

Men enjoy sharing their knowledge, to the point where mansplaining is a problem that all women face on a regular basis. However, if you’re looking for help and need an excuse to talk to a guy, this is a proven technique to get him chatting. To have his ego stroked, he’ll feel important, smart, and joyful. You could just read Amazon reviews and figure it out on your own, but why not kill two birds with one stone? Just make sure you pick his brain about something he’ll be familiar with. He doesn’t know or care what you need from Sephora on your next visit.

3. Text that is succinct and to-the-point

How To Capture His Heart And Make Him Fall For You

Here’s what we’ve realized after so many years of experience as dating coaches:

It’s really easy to make men fall for you once you know the “cheat code”.

See, most women don’t really know how men think, and why they act the way they do…

In fact, they go through their whole life never meeting the perfect guy who treats them right.

Don’t let this be you!

We’ve taught thousands of girls around the world the special “cheat code” to a man’s heart.

Once you learn the truth about how the male mind works, you can make any man fall in love with you.

Here’s how it works:

There are special tricks you can use to target the “emotional triggers” inside his mind.

If you use them the right way, he will start to feel a deep desire for you, and forget about any other woman in his life…

The best part? These techniques are based on psychology, so they work on any man, no matter how old you are or what you look like.

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As women, we understand how you feel.

But no matter what other people say, always remember:

You are an AMAZING woman…

And you deserve an amazing man who loves you, respects you and treats you special.

So start using these special techniques today, and see how quickly men fall in love with you immediately!


Use these easy techniques to “lock-in” a man’s commitment to you, and to make him love you FOREVER!

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