How To Make Him Treat You Like A Priority

Ten Ways to Teach Your Man to Love You Perfectly

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How do you make him feel like a priority?

My spouse and I have been married for about a decade. That’s nearly a third of my entire life! We still have our moments, despite the fact that we’re still madly in love. In fact, when I was in college, I was so preoccupied with my own studies, career, and our daughter that I didn’t even realize my marriage was going apart! My husband, who was also preoccupied with work, did notice, and he assumed I had lost interest in him.

He had good cause to believe that. I was so preoccupied with studying and juggling everything else that I didn’t give him the attention, love, and care he deserved. That eventually led to clashes and disputes, until I realized why he was so angry. I promised myself that I would make him feel important again, because he is, and we’re doing better than we have in the past.

When you’ve been married for a long period, other things can often take precedence over your husband. With kids, work, friends, household tasks and responsibilities, as well as your own hobbies and interests, your relationship may slip by the wayside as you devote your time to other activities. It happens, which is fine, but if you’re not careful, you and your husband can start to drift apart.

You’ll have days, if not weeks, when you’re too busy to go out or even spend meaningful time with each other at home. That’s natural, but a long period of emotional separation and time away can be detrimental to a relationship.

If you want your relationship to endure, you must make your loved one feel significant on a daily basis. They should also make you feel significant. Although it can be simple to make someone feel loved and important, if you don’t put in any effort, it can also be forgotten — a terrible lesson I had to learn.

Ask him about his day.

Inquiring about someone’s day after spending so much time with them can seem insignificant. Don’t we already know what they do for a living and all that? That may be true, but asking him about his day indicates that you care and are thinking about him.

My husband and I make it a point to inquire about each other’s days. Not only do we inquire, but we also listen and show interest, which is crucial! It’s necessary for you to pay attention! It’s also simple to remember to do because it’s something you can do every day at dinner.

Talk about him.

Why not let him talk about himself? It’s been shown that a person’s favorite topic to discuss is oneself, so why not let him? Allow him to discuss his day, interests, friends, and favorite things. Then keep asking him questions about them to keep him talking! He’ll adore it and believe that his wife is truly concerned.

Show genuine interest in his passions.

When you and your husband share common interests, you have something to speak about and activities to do together. My husband and I, for example, enjoy thrift shopping, attending concerts, and browsing art galleries. He does, however, have hobbies and interests that I do not, and vice versa. He enjoys playing darts, watching documentaries, and has a strong affinity for everything from the 1950s (including the lifestyle). In addition, I enjoy being outside, producing art, and playing board games.

My spouse prefers a pint at the pub and a game of pool to hiking, but he still joins me for a walk in the woods now and then, and I’ll join him for a drink. More importantly, I’ll ask him questions about his interests and pay attention to his answers. (Remember how I mentioned that individuals enjoy talking about themselves?)

You should show some interest in his passions and activities, even if you don’t necessarily agree with them. When you want to chat about them and the things they like, nothing makes them feel more important. And who knows what might happen? Perhaps you’ll discover a new pastime or passion in the process. I’m sure I have.

Don’t criticize or complain.


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It’s likely that no matter who someone is, they will do things that we don’t like. Little idiosyncrasies and habits are something that all couples have to live with over time, but there will be something that you can’t stand at some point. What matters is how you manage it, regardless of what it is.

The first step is to try to comprehend him and his perspective. If there is something you need to talk about, go ahead and do so, but instead of criticizing and whining, be understanding and forgiving.

Let him vent.

He, like everyone else, will have a bad day now and then. Listening to someone vent their concerns might be frustrating, but if you want him to feel valued, you should take the time to listen. Furthermore, avoid invalidating his feelings or even attempting to address his concerns. The truth is, all he wants is for someone to pay attention to him.

Show your appreciation.

Did you realize that people enjoy being appreciated? Yes, of course. They desire to be appreciated, needed, wanted, and loved. Taking note of your husband’s positive traits and expressing genuine gratitude is one approach to show him that you care about all of these things.

Is he a capable chef? In the winter, does he always shovel the snow off your car? Perhaps he enjoys surprising you with flowers? Don’t let the small things pass you by undetected!

You can express your gratitude in a variety of ways. It can be expressed with a hug, a handwritten message, or a simple kind gesture, but a simple thank you will always suffice.

Show gratitude.


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Whenever you find yourself becoming frustrated with your husband, make a note of all the things you appreciate about him. This list can include anything you desire and will serve as a reminder of all the reasons you adore him. Then, from time to time, tell him about the things for which you are thankful.

Is he the one who prepares your meal most nights? Be thankful! Is he a good communicator? Be thankful. Is he able to make you feel special? Be thankful! And don’t just write it down; tell him how much you appreciate him. Even if you think he already knows, he could need to hear the words or see the demonstration, and it will mean the world to him.

Be affectionate.

In a fresh relationship, affection appears to come naturally. New couples can’t seem to get enough of each other’s touch, whether it’s holding hands or something more. Unfortunately, as a relationship progresses, couples frequently stop being as loving as they were when they first started dating.

One of the quickest ways to ruin a relationship, in my experience, is to neglect each other physically. Being affectionate with one another will help both of you feel more at ease and connected, however not being affectionate with one another will make you feel distant and chilly for no apparent reason.

There are many various methods to express affection, and it isn’t always about sex. It can be as basic as a morning kiss, going down the street holding hands, or even sitting next to each other on the couch. Not to mention the hugging, spooning in bed, massage, and joking around that goes on.

Remember to display your affection on a frequent basis to keep your love and desire alive and to make each other feel valued!

Respect each others opinions.


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The majority of the couples I know have a lot of similar values and viewpoints. Even Nevertheless, there are some issues on which two people cannot agree. It could be anything as simple as deciding which restaurant is the greatest, or something more significant like deciding who to vote for. However, it is unlikely to be a full deal breaker.

The greatest thing to do when you don’t agree with something is to agree to disagree. Fighting about it is unlikely to sway the other person’s mind; instead, it will enrage both of you. You can, however, talk about it as long as you respect the other person’s viewpoint, have an open mind, be truthful, and remember that you are both entitled to your own thoughts and beliefs. You make him feel important by demonstrating that you value his views.

Accept his family.

There are a lot of jokes about parent-in-laws in TV sitcoms and in everyday life, and that’s because people can relate! Your husband’s parents might irritate you, and your parents might irritate him at times. Nonetheless, as his wife, you should try your best to accept his parents as well as he accepts yours.

It’s critical that you do your best to get along with them, accept them, and treat them with respect. I’m not saying you have to like them, but if you want your husband to feel important, you must tolerate them. Keep your mouth shut the next time your in-laws get on your nerves.

Celebrate his successes.

Celebrating that victory with him, no matter how big or small, will make him feel significant. Have you received a promotion at work? Celebrate! Have you passed a test? Celebrate! Have you ever won a game? Celebrate!

A big ol’ cake to celebrate a success implies “you are significant to me.” Unless he prefers beer, of course.

Give generously.


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How wonderful does it feel to get anything, whether it’s a gift or someone’s time? It gives you a sense of importance! Give liberally if you want to make your husband feel important.

I’m not suggesting you purchase him a new sports vehicle for his birthday (although that would be fantastic), but you should strive to do nice things for him on a regular basis.

Open up about yourself.

Finally, open up to your partner; open your heart and thoughts, and reveal everything about yourself with him. A marriage is unlike any other relationship, and one of the things that distinguishes it is the openness that you and your partner share.

There are numerous methods to make that special man in your life feel valued, but you must remember to take action. Remember, they should make you feel valued as well!

How do you know you’re not his priority?

If you feel like you’re giving too much without receiving anything in return, you’re probably not your partner’s top priority. It’s usually preferable to talk to your partner up front if you’re feeling neglected or de-prioritized in your relationship.

How do you become priority in a relationship?

Checking in on the baby—How are we doing?—is a more vital but frequently overlooked emphasis. It’s easy to avoid these talks because they’re out of the ordinary or you’re terrified of the outcome. But these are the crucial discussions to have, because they address the elephant in the room. Even if it’s difficult, go ahead and do it. If necessary, schedule check-ins once a week.


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#2. Don’t defend yourself. Avoid the simple response of defending—”No, I didn’t,”—and then stacking evidence to prove your case when your partner makes a complaint. Essentially, you’re attempting to persuade the other that you’re correct and he’s incorrect. You then begin to dispute over whose reality is correct and who is the greater victim.

This should not be done. Yes, it’s easier said than done, but the mindset you should adopt here is: “Even though I believe I’m doing everything I can, I see that you’re still unhappy.” Because I care about you, I want to know what you require and will work to meet your needs.” Being a sensitive, reasonable adult does not imply giving in or kowtowing to the other person.

#3. Do not engage in a counter-offensive. In an increasing debate, counter-attacking is frequently the following step: “You complain about this, but I don’t say anything about that…” This is a battle for power. Yes, your criticisms may be justified, but put them aside for the time being. This doesn’t imply you have to bite your tongue indefinitely; rather, it means you’re just dealing with one issue at a time. Focus on your partner’s problems for now, and bring up your own later when you’re both calm.

#4. Make time for your partner. Okay, enough with the naysayers. Consider the bright side. You must fight inertia and arrange date nights, touch-downs, and weekend vacations because it is so easy to drift apart on autopilot. To break up the monotony, create wonderful memories, and have something to look forward to, you and your partner must create positive shared experiences.

#5. Be kind, sensitive, and respectful to one another. Everything else is built on top of this. You probably do this on the job (I hope), but it’s easy not to do so in a relationship because you’re more at ease with one other and know how to get on each other’s nerves—all of which is understandable. However, if the partnership (or the baby) is suffering in any manner, this should be your default mode, the one you return to in order to change the connection’s emotional environment. Again, it’s not about giving in; it’s about treating everyone the way you want to be treated.

What does silence do to a man?

The silent treatment is ‘tremendously’ detrimental to a relationship, according to the results of his in-depth investigation. It lowers both partners’ relationship happiness, impairs feelings of intimacy, and limits the ability to communicate in a healthy and meaningful way.

What to do when he doesnt make you a priority?


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Supporting and respecting his other priorities is the best approach to get him to give you his undivided attention (and spend more quality time with you). The nicest thing a person can do for their partner is to give him space to do the things he enjoys – and he’ll notice.

Everyone has a different style of unwinding in their spare time, and everyone requires it.

The most crucial component is that a man will want to be with his girlfriend if he feels respected and supported by her. The more he thinks she’s “different” and someone he shouldn’t let go of, the more he’ll think she’s someone he shouldn’t let go of. The more he cares for her, the more he will automatically want to give her everything he has.

What is a man’s emotional needs?

Willard Harley believes in his book, His Needs, Her Needs, that when marriages collapse, it’s because spouses don’t feel the same way they did when they first met. According to Harley, the way to accomplish this is to meet each other’s emotional needs.

Men, on the other hand, have distinct emotional demands than women. As Harley points out, these requirements are frequently incompatible, resulting in misunderstandings and a lack of appreciation for the spouse’s efforts. He also cautions that while each of these requirements cannot be applied to every man, they can be used as a general guideline. Women and men may have similar demands at times, but their priorities in terms of placement may differ.

There are five emotional demands that men have that make them feel fulfilled in a marriage:

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