When you’re falling for a guy, there’s no feeling in the world that’s quite like it.
Every thought you have of him makes your stomach turn…
You find yourself daydreaming about a romantic relationship with him…
And you can’t help but stare at him every time he’s near you.
But here’s the big question:
How do you know if he feels the same way for you?
After all, his words and actions can be confusing sometimes, and it’s very hard to know what he’s really thinking.
It doesn’t matter if it’s a guy you’ve just met, or someone you’ve dated for a while. It’s still going to be hard to tell what’s really going on in his mind…
So is he also smitten by you? Does he have you in his heart?
If you’ve ever wondered these questions yourself, you’re going to want to pay close attention to this article…
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The Top 27 Signs He Is Smitten By You
As international dating and relationship experts, we’ve helped thousands of women become the most charismatic, attractive, and confident versions of themselves.
And it all starts with understanding how a man’s mind works.
Once you know how to do this, you can connect directly to a man’s heart in a way no other girl has done for him before.
You will be able to tell exactly what he thinks about you, and whether or not he is secretly smitten by you…
And even if he doesn’t have feelings for you right now, you will know exactly how to capture his heart and make him yours.
Today, we want to share with you the top 27 signs a guy is smitten by you.
Watch out for these signs, and you’ll be able to tell exactly how any man feels about you deep inside his heart.
Later in the article, you’ll also get our complete guide on reading a man’s mind through his behaviors and body language!
Sign 1: He Starts Conversations With You
Let’s be real here:
He’s not texting you throughout the day and asking how you are because he wants to be “just friends”…
He’s doing it because he’s absolutely infatuated by you.
Obviously, he’s not going to make these conversations openly romantic…
But don’t look at what he’s saying. Focus on his actions.
If he’s starting conversations with you all the time, he simply enjoys talking to you and feeling close to you. And this is one of the biggest signs a guy is smitten by you.
Sign 2: He Showers You With Compliments
Compliments are one of the most obvious signs of infatuation from a man.
And the more he uses them, the more likely it is that he is obsessed with you.
These compliments are not always big and extravagant. In fact, they’re usually quite simple and subtle.
It could be anything from casual remarks about the way you do your hair, to little things about your personality that he admires.
Whatever they may be, you’re going to hear plenty of compliments from him if he has feelings for you.
Sign 3: You Become A Priority For Him
It seems obvious, but the closer a girl is to a man’s heart, the more important she becomes to him.
So if feel like he’s making you a priority in his life, you can be sure that he has some feelings for you.
The truth is: We all get busy in life. In between jobs, family, friends, and other commitments, it’s easy to run out of time…
But if a man seems to be willing to drop whatever he’s doing just to text you or be with you, he is likely smitten by you.
(To learn the 7 easy steps to knowing exactly what is on a man’s mind, check out our handy guide here!)
Sign 4: He Smiles A Lot When He’s Around You
It goes without saying that when a man is with a girl he likes, he will naturally feel happy.
And sometimes, this joy is so strong that it just shows on his face!
You might notice that his face instantly lights up when he sees you. And the grin never disappears from his face as long as you’re around.
Often, he might not even notice that he’s smiling a lot when he’s with you. But that’s just how you make him feel.
Sign 5: He Offers Help Whenever You Need It
A big part of having feelings for someone is wanting to be there for them whenever they are in need.
If a man who likes you notices that you are going through some troubles or need help with something, he will rush to your side.
Most of the time, you won’t even need to ask for help. He will go out of his way to help you just to keep you happy.
And that’s simply because a smile on your face can bring him all the happiness in the world.
Sign 6: He Wants To Know About Your Interests And Hobbies
As a guy begins to catch feelings for you, he will want to get to know you better.
And a common way for him to do that is by learning about your interests.
He wants to know what you do for fun, and what sort of hobbies keep you happy and motivated.
To him, it’s a great way to connect to you and become more relatable to you. And deep inside, he’s hoping that this will impress you and win you over too.
(Check out our handy guide to learn exactly how to tell what he’s thinking deep inside here!)
Sign 7: He’s Playful When He’s With You
Here’s an interesting fact:
True love will bring out the inner child in a man.
So when a man has feelings for you, he will start acting playfully around you.
He might start joking around and teasing you when you are together. He might even create inside jokes with you.
Don’t be too surprised if he does this. It’s just his way of expressing all those bubbly feelings of love he’s feeling inside his chest!
Sign 8: He’s “Flirty”
Look. It’s not always easy to know if a guy is flirting with you.
But take a step back and compare the way he acts around other people with the way he talks to you in private…
If he is smitten by you, you will definitely detect some “flirty” vibes that are not there when he is chatting with his regular friends.
He might not even notice that he’s acting this way. But if you find that he’s more flirty when he’s with you, you can be sure that he has feelings for you.
Sign 9: He Gets Jealous Easily
If a guy has deep feelings for you, there’s nothing that will make him happier than talking to you.
But if you withdraw your attention from him, he will start feeling gloomy…
And if you go talk to other guys, he will easily get jealous.
You see, even the most confident man will feel this way. Some just hide it better than others…
(Be sure to check out our handy guide on how to find out exactly what a guy is thinking in 7 easy steps here!)
Sign 10: He Introduces His Friends to You
A guy who has feelings for you will be eager for you to become a bigger part of his life.
And one of the most common signs of this is when he introduces his friends to you.
From his point of view, his friends are an important part of his life. And by introducing you to them, he is trying to pull you closer into his social circle.
This isn’t something that he does on purpose. In fact, most of the time men aren’t even aware that they are doing this themselves. But it’s a big clue that he likes you.
Sign 11: He Wants To Be Physically Close To You
One of the most obvious ways a guy can express his feelings for a girl is through physicality.
You might notice that he tends to walk close to you, or lean in slightly when he’s talking to you.
He might even make casual physical contact with you, giving you playful high fives, gentle touches on the shoulder, or even tight hugs that he doesn’t seem to want to let go of.
All these are signs that he wants to get a lot closer to you on an emotional and personal level.
Sign 12: He Loses His Train Of Thought
When a guy is talking to his love, his mind will be swirling with all sorts of thoughts…
And sometimes, this gets so intense that he loses his train of thought.
As a result, you might find that he starts stumbling over his words, or experiences difficulty finding the right words to say.
It’s a cute sign that he is infatuated by you!
Sign 13: He Won’t Mention Other Girls
When he talks to you, does he ever bring up other girls in his life?
If he doesn’t, or seems reluctant to do so, it probably means his mind is way too occupied with you to think about other women.
There’s an easy way to test this yourself: Ask him a casual question about his ex-girlfriends, and see how he responds.
If he gives you a nervous answer, or starts tripping over his own words, you can be quite certain that he has feelings for you.
(Want to find out exactly how a man feels about you? Check out our handy guide to reading a man’s mind through his behaviors and body language here!)
Sign 14: He Doesn’t Like It When You Talk About Other Guys
Even the most relaxed, confident guys will feel a bit uncomfortable when you start talking about other guys, while deep down he’s smitten by you.
Keeping these feelings hidden from you is hard enough. Now he has to deal with the sense of jealousy that comes hearing you talk about other guys!
It makes him feel invisible and neglected. But it’s also a clever way to test if he’s into you.
Sign 15: He Wants To Impress You
Do you notice that he keeps fixing his hair when he’s around you?
That every time you hang out, he’s wearing his best clothes?
And he seems to keep telling you all these impressive stories about himself?
These could all be his attempts to impress you and win you over.
It’s a natural way for guys to grab your attention and express their obsession with you when they can’t tell you directly…
Sign 16: Compare The Time He Spends With You And Other Girls
When a guy is smitten, his heart and mind will be completely occupied by you, and nobody else.
As a result, he will feel a desire to devote all of his time to you.
Even when he is talking to other girls, you may notice that he doesn’t have the same energy and excitement as when he’s talking to you.
That’s when you know you’re special in his heart!
(Be sure to check out our complete guide to decoding a man’s inner feelings in 7 easy steps here!)
Sign 17: Watch Out For Nervous Energy
Every man’s worst nightmare is screwing up or embarrassing himself in front of the girl he likes…
So if a man has strong feelings for you, it’s quite normal for him to act nervously sometimes.
This is especially true if you put him on the spot in some way, perhaps asking him about crushes and relationships.
And trust us: Most guys are not great at hiding their nervous energy in these situations!
Sign 18: He Comes Up With Excuses To Be With You
Whenever a guy is head-over-heels in love with a girl, he will come up with all sorts of excuses just to be with her.
Sometimes, he might ask you to hang out just because he was “passing by the area”.
Other times, he will come up with more elaborate excuses, such as asking you out for coffee so he can ask you about a hobby you have.
So if a guy is love-struck by you, be prepared to hear these excuses all the time!
Sign 19: He Misses You Like Crazy
If he truly loves you, there’s nothing in the world that he wants more than to be together with you.
And every second you spend apart from each other is pure torture for him.
He will miss you like crazy. And you will be able to tell from the constant texts and phone calls he sends your way!
In many cases, he will be very eager to set up the next meeting with you. And until then, he will be thinking about you non-stop, waiting restlessly to see you again.
Sign 20: He Stares At You
When a man is smitten by you, he simply can’t help but stare at you in a dreamy way and become lost in his thoughts…
And he will usually look away immediately when you turn towards him!
It’s a cute thing that guys do to their crushes. But this happens with boyfriends and husbands who are deeply in love too!
(For more ways of telling how a man truly feels about you, check out our handy guide here!)
Sign 21: He Remembers Everything About You
When you have a man’s heart, you will also have his attention.
And as a result, you will be surprised at all the little details he remembers about you and your time together.
From the casual conversations you had to the movie you watched last month, he will recall it all.
He doesn’t have to do this on purpose. It’s just how his mind works when he’s hopelessly in love with you!
Sign 22: He Imagines A Future With You
Over time, you might notice that he starts using the word “We” a lot more than “You” and “I”.
That’s because in his mind, he dreams about a future with you.
These could be clear plans in a relationship, but they could also be casual remarks and predictions about the future.
Regardless, it is a reflection of how he thinks about you and your place in his life.
Sign 23: His Eyes Drift…
When you’re talking to a guy who really likes you, you might notice that his eyes can’t seem to stay still.
One moment, he will gaze deeply into your eyes. The next moment, he might look away shyly.
His eyes could also drift to your lips, your body, and your hair. All these are strong signs that he has a very powerful desire for you.
(To learn more about decoding his body language and behaviors, check out our handy guide here!)
Sign 24: He Rarely Says “No”
A man will have a hard time saying “no” to a girl he loves.
Whether it’s when you’re asking him for a favor, or suggesting a place to hang out, he will never want to disappoint you.
Even when it is inconvenient, he would rather go out of his way to be with you and make you happy than to turn you down.
Sign 25: He Is Protective Of You
It’s easy to think that men turn “soft” when they are in love.
But while it’s true that they tend to be more kind and sensitive when they are smitten by you, they will not hesitate to stand up and protect you if they learn that you’ve been hurt by someone.
In these situations, you will immediately see his strong, protective side. He will leap to your defense and take action to stop you from getting hurt, because you are so important to him.
Sign 26: He Is Impressed By Everything You Say
To a man who is in love with you, everything that comes out of your mouth will be gold.
He will be impressed by every story you tell, and shower you with support and encouragement. And he will laugh at every joke that you tell.
When every word that you say moves him, you can be sure that he worships you like his personal queen!
Sign 27: You Feel It
As women, our sense of intuition is very powerful, especially when it comes to emotions and relationships.
Unfortunately, our doubts and insecurities can get in the way of this.
But sometimes, you have to trust what your gut is telling you. Our intuition is one of our best tools.
So if you feel a man is smitten by you, and you get that gut feeling that he loves you, then don’t ignore it. Because you’re probably right.
The Complete Guide To Reading A Man’s Mind (In 7 Easy Steps)
Let’s face it:
Guys can be a lot of fun. But they can also be a huge source of stress and worry too.
After all, we all know that his words and actions don’t always line up with his intentions…
And it’s annoying having to keep guessing what his true feelings are.
As dating and relationship experts, this is one of the most common concerns among women who come to us for help.
In reality, the solution is actually quite simple.
Men are not that complicated. There are certain behavioral and physical cues that will tell you everything you need to know about their inner thoughts and feelings.
And once you know what to look out for, it’s very easy to figure out exactly what is on his mind.
We’ve coached thousands of women around the world to do exactly this.
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