How To Make My Boyfriend Happy

If you just learned about love from movies and television, you’d assume it was all about males making swoony confessions like Lloyd Dobler with his boom box or Andrew Lincoln with those cue cards in Love Actually.

Knowing a person’s face, learning how their eyes shine when they’re joyful, how they prefer to be caressed when they’re sad, happy, or turned on, and how to navigate through disagreement together are all examples of love in real life.

James M. Sama compiled an entertaining list for men on the tiny things that make women happy and how to make them happy. I believe the same is true for men. And whether you’re married or just starting out, if you have a decent man to adore, he deserves to feel the same way.

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Compliment him.

Where did we obtain the idea that only women want to be told they’re pretty, smell nice, are smart, or sexy?

I’ve always assumed that men are more confident in their appearance and sex appeal than women. Guys are supposed to be unconcerned about what they wear or whether or not their new haircut looks good, right?

That’s a load of nonsense! I’ve never encountered a man who didn’t give a damn if the woman he loved found him attractive. So tell him when you see him and get that tickle of oh my my, you’re so hot.

It’s simple: whenever anything positive comes to mind, tell him. Tell him his old beat-up tee shirt makes him look gorgeous. When you hug him, tell him how much you enjoy smelling his neck.

Tell him you appreciate what he does for you and your family.

If your partner works outside the home, express your gratitude for his efforts. Even if he enjoys his job, I’m sure there are days when he fantasizes about quitting, cursing at his employer, or simply hiding in his office all day. He, on the other hand, does not do it. You and your family could be a part of the problem.

Winning money is a huge burden for everyone, but society emphasizes it more more for men. Unfortunately, their monetary potential is frequently linked to their social worth. As bad as it is, it’s made worse when we don’t understand the stress guys are under and the effort they put in.

Your partner is sacrificing for your family if he works at home with the kids. As much as he presumably enjoys being a stay-at-home parent, every parent has moments when they want to throw in the towel (or diaper), rage at the boss (the baby? ), or hide in a corner. They don’t, however! They’re in there all day, elbow-deep in something disgusting and caring for the kids.

It’s simple: tell him you understand how difficult his job is. Tell him how much you appreciate it and how much you admire his dedication. It’s not about the money, whether it’s yours or his; it’s about recognizing something that most people take for granted.


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Make time for things to get hot in the bedroom.

No, he’s not a sex god, but the best sex is transcendent, reciprocal, linked, passionate, and dreamy, so make sex sacred and intense for both of you. Making him feel like your personal sex god, and him reciprocating, will almost certainly make both of your lives better.

Nobody owes their spouse sex, but in a healthy relationship, developing desire is a good thing. If you’re having trouble getting into sex-god or goddess mode at home, consider spending the night in a hotel room. If that’s not an option, a tent in the woods can be just as enjoyable. If that works for you, you can talk about dreams or look at sensual photographs together at home, such as the diverse selection in Dr. Timaree’s NSFW library.

Alternatively, you may shoot some boudoir shots of yourself. Don’t want to expose your entire body or go too racy? Close-ups of a sexy but not-so-obvious body part are a good idea. The top of your undies poking out from your jeans at the hip, your bra strap on your shoulder. There are numerous sources of inspiration available.

It’s simple: feed your passion for him. Choose to fantasize about him, about a time when you were together, or about your favorite feature of his body. Then heap all of your desire on him the next time you have a chance to be alone with him.

Be supportive of his alone time.

To be honest, this was the most difficult for me. I’m not sure why, but I used to resent how much time Ivan spent surfing or riding his mountain bike when we first started dating. We were both working, we didn’t see each other very much, and I felt as if I had been forgotten.

That was an unfair amount of strain to place on my husband. We gradually figured out how to organize our alone time, and I took advantage of his willingness to accommodate my need to exercise, write, or simply read in bed.

Unless he’s so engrossed in his alone time that you’ve vanished off his radar, your independence is a good thing! If you’re concerned about how long he’ll be gone, simply schedule a time for him to return and make arrangements with him for later. Being apart can give you more things to talk about, and if he uses his alone time for exercise or meditation, he’ll likely be happier and healthier as a result.

It’s simple: smile when he says he’s out to do activities on his own that make him happy. Kiss him on the cheek. He’ll have a sense of being seen, heard, and supported.

Put down your phone.

On this, I’m just as culpable as everyone else. There’s always that one more email, that one more text from a pal, that one more work emergency. However, you must put your phone down and look at the individual in front of you.

When I find myself engaged in this cycle, I try to take a big breath and imagine the worst-case scenario of ignoring whatever is buzzing at me. He understands if it’s a serious emergency, but most things can wait.

When I put down my phone, I frequently notice him and take a good look at his face. I see the man I adore, the man I met so long ago, and I say to myself, “How ridiculous is it that I’m not engaging with him?”

Make a pact with your partner: if you need to use the phone for something essential, tell the other in a few words what it is. “The server is down,” or “The sitter is calling,” are both valid reasons to take a break, but inform him of your plans and when you’ll be back.

It’s simple: be present while you’re with the person you care about. Try not to lose track of time while staring at a computer screen.


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When you get something for yourself, get something for him, too.

I’ll admit that I stole this idea from James Sama, but it’s sound advice that’s also simple to implement!

Getting a cup of coffee? Take one for him! Do you want to make a cup of tea? Make one for him as well.

I learned a long time ago that whenever I ever go to a surf shop, I always bring Ivan a present. I’m generally there for the kids, but I always grab a tee shirt or a cap for my husband, or even just a fresh lip balm or tube of sunscreen.

It isn’t about the amount of money spent; it is about the fact that I am telling him, “I know you like surf stores, so when I was there, I thought of you.”

It’s simple: saying, “It only takes a second,” is all it takes “Is it possible for me to get you one?” The effect continues indefinitely.

Look him in the eyes.

You don’t have to look longingly at each other as you used to at the roller rink with your 9th grade lover. Just take a moment to gaze each other in the eyes and share a look.

You wouldn’t think a soul-gazing connection would be on a guy’s list of wonderful things if you went by stereotypes, but I defy you to try it. With a smile or a fun expression, look him in the eyes and hold his gaze for three seconds. It’s a flirting tactic that works well for singles since it makes the other person feel as if they’re the only one in the room. He may now be your boyfriend or husband, but he deserves to be treated with respect.

Giving your partner a million wonderful little moments with you is one essential to a long-lasting relationship, and he should do the same in return. After all, research suggest that how much compassion exists between the couples appears to be a key factor in a happy marriage.

Even though I attempted to make it sound easy, some of these tasks are not always simple. They sometimes force us to be vulnerable in ways we aren’t accustomed to. I understand; I’ve been there, and occasionally I still am. But I believe it is worthwhile to give it a try.

Also, inquire about his list of small pleasures – I’m sure you’re already doing many of them.

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    Most women don’t know how to really make a man go absolutely crazy about you

    There was only one question at the bottom:

    “How can you make a guy enamored with you to the point where he’ll never consider leaving you?”

    Of course, this is a massive question about which I could write a book. But, in order to keep things simple, I’ll only give you seven bits of advice to assist you.

    Here are seven ways to make a man want you desperately:

    Become self-confident

    You must first have your own life in order before you can make a man utterly wild about you.

    After all, men admire a confident woman, especially when she expresses an interest in them.

    The majority of men are insecure because they do not accomplish enough in their life. As a result, people expect that a relationship will miraculously improve their situation.

    Watch out for this trap

    If you don’t already feel good about yourself, it’s not true that getting into a relationship would solve all of your problems and make things better for you right away.

    Because if your entire well-being is dependent on the shoulders of another person, your entire foundation is at risk.

    If you get into a relationship with a person and he becomes your source of happiness, you’ll become clingy, needy, and reliant on him.

    Those are all extremely unattractive features that will quickly turn most men away.

    Instead, you should endeavor to build a strong foundation within yourself on which you can always rely.

  • Perform actions that make you proud.
  • Make a plan and stick to it.
  • Participate in the activities and interests that you enjoy.
  • You’ll feel great about yourself if you do these things, and then having a terrific guy in your life will make you feel even better. But being in a relationship with a man can never help you feel better if you aren’t already happy.

    So make sure you have excellent friends, do activities that make you happy, and continue to improve yourself so that you may become the high-value, self-assured woman you can be.

    You’ll notice that if you’re actively working on your foundation, you’ll attract more attention from wonderful guys who will become enamored with you.

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    Make him feel manly

    A woman who makes him feel good about himself is something that will drive a man insane.

    And, as obvious as it may seem, a man can only feel good in a relationship if he feels like “the man.”

    If you can make him feel this way, he will find you to be much more appealing.

    You might be thinking right now:

    “Okay but Tim, how can I make him feel manly?”

    The most effective methods are as follows:

  • Seek his assistance.
  • Allow him to take care of things for you.
  • So, if you’ve been to the grocery and are carrying a large bag, ask him (if he hasn’t already) if he can carry it for you.

    And whether or not you can carry the bag yourself is unimportant; what matters is that you give him the impression that you require his assistance.

    He wants you to see him as a real man

    He will not receive this sense if you do everything yourself and never seek for help.

    Don’t get me wrong: it’s fantastic if you’re a self-sufficient lady who can handle everything.

    Allowing him to assist you on occasion (even if you don’t really need it) is a simple and effective technique to make him want you more.

    Be unpredictable

    Predictable is another word for BORING in the world of relationships and dating.

    And I’m sure neither of you is searching for a dull relationship, am I right?

    It is therefore necessary to disrupt your daily routine from time to time in order to drive him crazy about you.

    What commonly happens is that a guy and a woman’s relationship is really thrilling at first, and they do different things.

    However, there comes a point when they both put less effort for one other and they think to themselves:

    That’s every man’s fear

    Men are terrified that once they are in a relationship, a woman will put in less effort for them.

    That’s why, especially in the early stages of dating, it’s crucial to be surprising.

    This will pique his interest because he’s never quite sure where he stands.

    So, instead of taking him to the town for a drink every time, surprise him by taking him to the petting zoo.

    Simply make sure he doesn’t know where he stands all of the time; it’ll drive him insane.

    Let him make an effort for you

    It’s nearly hard for a guy to be attracted to you if he doesn’t have to put up any effort for you.

    So, if you respond to all of his messages in less than five seconds and always answer “yes” to all of his demands, he will quickly become bored.

    Because when a man thinks you are too easy, he will quickly lose interest

    By the way, I don’t mean you should always act like an ice queen and play ‘hard to get.’

    I’m referring to a woman who says:

    Yes, I like you, but I’m not that easy to get along with. You must give it your all for me if you want to win me over.

    If you can convey this vibe to him, you will drive him crazy with desire

    If he asks you to come over on a Tuesday evening at 10 p.m., for example, you could say:

    Sorry, but I’m not the kind of woman that shows up at that hour. However, because I like you, we can meet for coffee in town on Saturday afternoon.

    Because it’s things like this that cause a man to get enamored with a lady.

    Plus, there’s something else in the scenario above that can drive a man crazy for you:

    Tell him you like him

    It’s good to allow a man make an effort for you, as we covered in the prior suggestion.

    However, you should let him know that you like him every now and then. Because if a guy is unsure whether or not he has a chance, he will most likely abandon you (to protect himself).

    As a result, you should tell him now and then that you like him, and he will think:

    And when a guy has this impression of you (and he likes you), it doesn’t take much to drive him insane.

    Sometimes be unavailable to him

    Okay. I despise it when women do this to me, but I have to confess that it works rather well.

    You should set out moments when you are available to him and times when you are not.

    And, like with all mammals, if he receives a random reward (in this case, your attention), he will seek it out again and again.

    Once it’s obvious that a guy has got your attention whenever he wants, the relationship soon becomes boring for him

    This may appear weird, yet the same principle is at work in all forms of gaming.

    This is due to the fact that when you gamble, you will win and lose a number of times.

    This increases the gambler’s desire for the “prize,” and before long, he is addicted to it.

  • As a result, disregard him on sometimes.
  • Instead of hanging out with him, hang out with your buddies.
  • Allow him to wait for you to respond to his SMS.
  • These small but subtle gestures indicate that you have significant things on your mind and that he isn’t your first priority, all of which are desirable attributes in a woman.

    Simply by not being unavailable to him on occasion and enjoying your own life, you will discover:

  • He’ll find you a far better deal.
  • He will go above and above for you.
  • He’ll go all out to get you.
  • And before you say anything, consider this:

    “Yes, but I’m not interested in playing a game with him,” or “What if he meets someone else while I’m unavailable?”

    I absolutely see your point of view, however when you’re flirting with a guy, everything becomes a game.

    A man wants to make an effort for you (even if he thinks he doesn’t), and by not always being available to him, you do this quite efficiently.

    Make a guy go crazy in bed

    And if you can make a man go insane in bed, he’ll like you even more than he did before.

    Okay, this may appear to be quite rational, but driving a man insane in bed is not that simple.

    I was even asked the following question this week:

    To make a man go insane in bed, you must first understand what men desire in bed and during sex. Here are some things that men enjoy:

  • Say his name out loud.
  • Make his fantasy of dominating you a reality.
  • Have an open mind when it comes to trying new things.
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  • What to write to your boyfriend to make him cry?

    Tonight I was watching King of Hearts, a romantic comedy, and I couldn’t help but smile because this character reminded me of you. I started to wonder if you were the one doing the acting or if it was someone else. In any case, every human being has a unique gift that God has bestowed upon them. Before I forget, I’d like to remind you that our children will be returning from vacation this weekend. Please make their favorite as usual because we agreed to it when we signed the contract. I’ll prepare your own special lunch for you once I come with them. One of the reasons I adore you, my beloved hubby, is because you are straightforward and considerate.

    I’m not sure how, but I can sense whatever you’re going through and/or whatever situation you’re in. It just happens on its own. Then I’d like to be with you to make sure you’re okay and to make everything right so you can be happy again. a few paragraphs to make him cry

    Without you, my life will be incomplete. When I slept and awoke with you at my side, I knew I was in heaven. My feelings for you are strong since I have never felt this way about anyone else. My sentiments for you will last forever, so I will always love you.

    You’ve gone above and beyond to make me yours, and I’ll go to any length to make you happy. You’re incredible, and there’s no reason why I shouldn’t fall in love with you. I find my happiness in you, and I will love you to the end of time.

    You make me feel at ease and secure around you. You are the only one who understands and loves my defects. To the moon and back, I adore you. You make every minute of my life special, and I call you my sunshine without hesitation.

    When we’re together, the globe seems to spin at a much higher rate than usual. You are the everyday element in my life, and your happiness gives my life meaning. Nothing can stand in the way of our love since you’re all I need in life.

    The things you do, the way you address me, prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are the guy of my dreams. I miss you even when you are right in front of me. Life is valuable, but you are more valuable to me, and I cherish you.

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  • If you’re looking for a “*Ahem* Here are the top ten things I admire about you:”
  • If you’re looking for a “Please let me know if you’d want me to bring you a snack or give you a hug.
  • If you’re looking for a “I understand you have a lot on your plate and that it’s difficult for you.
  • If you’re looking for a “Just a friendly reminder that you’re stunning on the inside and out.
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  • Call him by charming names a lot: Promotion.
  • Keep him on the edge of his seat:
  • Surprisingly touch him:
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  • Give him lots of compliments:
  • Take him on a trip down memory lane:
  • Give him plenty of room:
  • Maintain a pleasant odor at all times:
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  • Asking your partner to buy a gift for a wedding or birthday – This puts his ability and thoughtfulness to the test.
  • Be an hour late for something – This will put his patience to the test.
  • Take your boyfriend to a costume party to test his sense of humour.
  • Date him for who he is, not for his potential.

    Everyone wants to be liked and accepted for who they are, but many women make the mistake of dating a man for his potential, or the man he could be in five years (with your help, of course).

    Men, on the other hand, aren’t projects. When you expect a man to change, he perceives that you aren’t recognizing him for who he is. It may make some guys feel ashamed, as if they aren’t good enough. If a man feels this way in the start of a relationship, he’ll most likely become worried and end the connection.

    When I’ve asked happily married guys what about their wives made them think, “Yes, she’s the one,” they frequently say, “She never attempted to change me.”

    Know what you’re searching for in a man and look for someone that fits the bill.

    Create emotional safety for him.

    Emotional safety refers to a place where people can freely express their views, feelings, and wishes without fear of being judged.

    When males claim a woman is easy to talk to, they’re referring to the fact that they can say things to her that they wouldn’t say to anybody else since they won’t be criticized.

    Listen to your man without passing judgment the next time he’s having a difficult day, moaning about a colleague, or telling you something personal. Understand when to solve a problem, when to provide assistance, and when to just listen. People don’t always want their problems solved; they simply want someone to listen to them out and feel safe with you.

    Keep things light and playful.

    People will remember you based on your shared experiences. The more pleasant and enjoyable experiences you share, the more those sensations get associated with you.

    Relationship timelines varies between men and women. Women are more likely to rush into partnerships, anxious to define their status and skip over many of the pleasurable aspects of dating, whereas males are more likely to take their time deciding whether or not they want to pursue the relationship further.

    Because you’re still dating a guy, even if he really, really likes you, it’s crucial to keep the beginning of a relationship light and playful.

    Be vulnerable.

    Dropping your guard and revealing your vulnerability is the quickest method to develop emotional intimacy with someone. When you show someone an unedited version of yourself, you’re essentially handing them the key to your entire life, and that’s a significant responsibility.

    Consider how you’d feel if you’d earned someone’s trust in that way. Isn’t it incredible?

    When you expose your vulnerability to others, you create an emotional safe space for a male to do the same.

    How can I attract my boyfriend?

    Nobody likes a knucklehead! And knowledge is something that may be gained through increased awareness and reading. A man is attracted to a well-read woman who can have a conversation and keep it going. A man can’t resist a woman’s attractiveness paired with her intelligence.

    Do you recall how flirty you two used to be? Return to the relationship with that information. To show him that you care, be the one to initiate closeness. It’s more about retaining your man than it is about enticing him.

    You don’t have to be dressed up all of the time. All you have to do is remember that everyone in a partnership needs to be clean and healthy. Being clean and fit demonstrates that you care about yourself, and it will make you feel more confident. And that self-assurance will undoubtedly entice your man.

    Allow him to hang out with his pals. You could come seem as extremely dominating if you never allow him his time. So advise him to have a good time and spend the day with his pals. Are you wondering how this will assist you? Well, you man will undoubtedly reflect on how attentive and understanding you are.

    Men may not be big on praises, but they do appreciate them now and then. Give him a genuine compliment to show him how much you value him. Praise him for his insecurities as well as the aspects of his identity that are most important to him. Just remember that whatever complement you give him must originate from the heart.

    Your man may not always be aware of what’s going on in your thoughts, regardless of how long you’ve been with. So, show him how much you care by expressing your affection. When you need something, talk to him, especially when it comes to things to do in bed.

    All that matters is your effort. Taking an interest in something they enjoy is a terrific approach to show them how much you care about them. It will not only increase his attraction to you, but it will also help you two form a closer bond.

    It’s easy for the stresses of everyday living to wreak havoc on your romantic life. You may become so preoccupied that you are oblivious to the fact that your relationship has deteriorated. Your relationship has gotten uninteresting, which is one of the most prevalent causes.

    Solution: Be unpredictably creative! When your partner notices that you are attempting to be more spontaneous, he will become even more enthused. He knows you and he will have a fantastic time together the next time he thinks about you.

    The ability to laugh at oneself is a key part of intellectual compatibility. It will provide you with a common ground on which to connect, as well as making it simpler for him to crack jokes around you. After all, humour can make even the most unpleasant situations seem less so. Plus, after years of being together, it’s fantastic to be able to share jokes.

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  • How can I make my relationship strong with my boyfriend?

    It’s simple to get into a relationship, but it’s far more difficult to maintain it healthy.

    Love alone isn’t always enough to keep a relationship healthy. Many people have told me about their bad relationships, yet they still love their spouses and have chosen to stay in them. Even if you feel imprisoned, you are extremely likely to experience feelings of love for someone. According to Readers Digest, 57% of people in unhappy relationships still think their partner beautiful.

    However, you can’t build a successful relationship with your partner only on the basis of those three words and eight letters (I LOVE YOU). It’s also vital to remember that “Love” is only one component of a larger whole, as it need additional elements to be stable and healthy.

    Now, if you’re in a relationship and aren’t sure what it takes to establish a good one, try these vital factors to make it stronger, happier, and endure longer.

    Show daily affection.

    Being loved isn’t always enough; you have to show it. Physical affection, such as holding hands, hugging, or kissing, relieves stress, enhances mood, and increases relationship satisfaction. Every day, feelings like love must be rekindled. It will be lost forever if you take it for granted and don’t take the time to express it every day. So, be a better girlfriend and begin showering your partner with affection as much as possible.


    “Appreciation” is one of the elements to a happy relationship. Remember how you used to try to impress him when you first started dating? To have a fulfilling relationship, continue to actively appreciate your mate. If you’re stuck for ideas, try complimenting your guy by saying something like, “You look amazing today,” or “Thank you for being there for me.”

    Have fun together.

    Relationships become stronger with time, especially if fun and excitement are present at all times. One of the most crucial aspects of a great relationship is having fun together. It’s a strategy to strengthen your bond and communication. Participating in fun activities that you both enjoy might bring you closer together.

    Be selfless and make sacrifices.

    You must understand the repercussions of entering the kingdom of love, especially the sacrifices you must make to keep the relationship alive. Some people avoid making sacrifices in order to be safe. But keep in mind that there is no gain without pain. As a result, you must make sacrifices and endure suffering in order to improve your connection. In the name of love, you’ll give up some of your alone time, privacy, the urge to be correct, and autonomous ambitions, to mention a few concessions.

    Fight for your relationship.

    How you handle disagreements could jeopardize your relationship. Rather of fighting with your boyfriend, you should fight for your relationship. Keep in mind that he is not your adversary. The genuine foes are negative attitudes, behaviors, or characteristics that both of you must overcome. So keep your cool, listen to the other side, be open to compromise, and come to a solution to any problem.

    Set goals as a couple.

    You and your partner should work together to attain your relationship goals. Plan together, set objectives together, and aim towards those aims jointly to have a happy and healthy relationship. And when you succeed, make a big party out of it.

    Accept each other’s flaws.

    You’ll form a stronger bond with your lover if you accept his flaws sooner rather than later. Acceptance will also aid your relationship’s progress and allow you to enjoy more things along the route.

    Show respect.

    While you may not always agree with your partner’s decision, respect is that you choose to accept and believe in their judgment. Respect also entails the ability to be yourself and be accepted for who you are. Respectful activities such as listening, appreciating, and speaking nicely are just a few examples of what you should do to maintain a healthy connection.

    Give space.

    You seek connection in a relationship, but you also want distance. The idea is to find that sweet spot where you can feel the warmth of commitment while also giving each other space so that no one feels trapped.

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    No matter how terrible things are in your relationship, hope will enable you and your lover imagine a brighter future. Faith will aid both of you in strengthening that hope, because fidelity is not just hoping for a good future but also doing everything possible to make that future a reality.

    Your connection will not be held together by chains. There are numerous threads that bind people together in order to keep them connected for the rest of their lives. However, a relationship will only be stronger if these threads are strong as well. Remember that healthy relationships do not appear out of nowhere; you must work hard for them with all of your mind, heart, and soul.

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