How To Tell If A Guy Is Interested In You Or Just Being Friendly

Be honest – Has this ever happened to you?

You think you’ve finally met the perfect guy.

He’s bright, tall, and absolutely handsome…

And you’ve never felt more comfortable with a guy than you do right now.

Here’s the problem:

You’re just not sure if he feels the same way about you, or if he’s just super friendly to all the girls. 

You know that he always makes you laugh and smile, and you never want your time together to end. 

In fact, you feel butterflies in your stomach just thinking about him…

But you really need to know how to tell if a guy is interested in you or just being friendly.

It’s frustrating!

Don’t worry – We’re here to help.

As experts in relationships and dating, we’ve helped thousands of women around the world find, attract and keep the man of their dreams.

And today, we’ll help you figure out if he’s really interested in you, or just being friendly.

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How To Tell If A Guy Is Flirting Or Just Being Friendly

There is nothing more frustrating than trying to figure out if a guy is smitten by you or if he is just a nice guy who is friendly with everybody.

We’ve all been there! 

You’re probably overthinking every conversation.

And you’re probably exhausted from his words running through your mind over and over again.

But here’s the good news:

There are a few simple signs that will reveal his true emotions and intentions.

The key is to pay attention to these clues in what he’s really saying, as well as his behaviors and body language.

Read on to find out exactly what to look for!

What Does He Talk About?

Instead of wondering why he is so nice to me, start thinking about what he is really saying when you two are in a conversation.

For example, most guys who give women compliments are interested in more than just being friends.

For 90% of men out there, complimenting women is a clear sign of affection. It’s their way of expressing interest in you… without actually telling you they are interested!

We all know that men like to play it cool and hide their emotions. That’s why they like to take things slow and carefully before allowing a woman to know their true intentions. 

It’s a crazy game! 

Another sign that he’s truly interested in you is if he is being flirty with you.

Once again, guys don’t like to show their emotions too early on, so he will probably flirt with you in a playful, casual manner.

For example, he might tease you about something embarrassing you did, or crack a lot of jokes with you.

Looking for these basic signs will help you determine whether or not a guy likes you. But often, you need to dig a little deeper.

If you want to know if he is flirting for fun vs. flirting with intent, then you’ll need to ask yourself a few more questions to get to the bottom of this.

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How Does He Treat Other People?

Think about these two scenarios:

If you’re sitting in a room at a table with a few of your girlfriends or coworkers, and he walks up and greets everybody with a smile, then he’s probably just being friendly. 

But if he walks up and says hello to everybody, and then turns to you to ask you how you are, or tell you how great you look today…

Then yes, he’s definitely interested you! 

It’s not always that easy to figure out if he is flirting with you or just being friendly.

That’s why it’s a good idea to pay attention to his behaviors in social settings.

Here’s another example:

Pay attention to his eyes and see if he is focused on you or if he is scanning the room.

When a guy is genuinely interested in you, he only cares about what you are saying and doesn’t even notice who else is in the room. 

If you really want to know if he is flirting or just friendly, then you have to be willing to put in some effort to get to know him a little better…

Does He Act Differently When He’s Alone With You?

Let’s face it… Guys aren’t always honest about their emotions.

In fact, sometimes they can be very vague about them.

This makes it pretty difficult to know when a man is sincere or if he’s just a player. 

Most men don’t like to show their emotions or what they consider ‘signs of weakness’ in front of their friends…

So being around a guy when he is alone with you will give you a much better idea of whether he is truly interested in you.

This is especially true for figuring out if a male coworker likes you or is just being friendly. This is because workplace romance is generally frowned upon.

Some girls think that if a guy acts differently towards them in public, they don’t want to be seen with them…

However, that is not always the case! 

Guys are weird when it comes to showing how they really feel, and if there is any chance of rejection, they’ll make damn sure it doesn’t happen in front of anybody else.

So here’s what you do:

When you’re together with a bunch of friends, make sure to take things easy and act casual with him. This will take pressure off him to act a certain way.

But once you’re alone with him, feel free to be a bit more personal and flirty with him.

Doing so will allow him to open up to you. You will then be able to compare how he acts in public with how he acts when he’s alone with you.

This will make it easier to see if he’s really interested in you, especially if you look for certain clues in his body language.

Read on to find out more…

Look At His Body Language

If there is one thing men can’t hide, it’s their body language… it speaks volumes! 

You already know that eye contact is huge when a guy or girl is flirting…

But when ‘eyebrow raises’ come into play, you really need to pay attention. 

Here’s what we mean:

Most guys won’t raise their eyebrows in general conversations or with girls they are not interested in.

But when they do, it usually means he simply cannot hide his joy and pleasure talking to you.

At the same time, his eyes will also widen and his facial expressions will be stronger and more pronounced.

There are plenty of other unusual signs a guy likes you.

For instance, if a guy keeps fidgeting with his hands while he’s having a one-on-one conversation with you, it’s a clear sign that he’s nervous and hiding some feelings from you.

You might also notice his feet are pointed towards you constantly, even in social settings and bigger groups.

Make sure you pay attention to all the little gestures and how he goes out of his way to see you or speak to you…

These are all good signs that he is definitely interested in you!

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Does He Talk About His Love Life?

When a guy starts talking about his love life, he is opening the doors to his personal life to you…

But is this actually good news?

Here’s the truth:

Flirting by itself is not a certain sign that a guy is interested.

Often, you will find married men who are huge flirts in the workplace or even socially but would never take it any further. 

They just enjoy the way flirting makes them feel… it’s their way of knowing they still got what it takes to make a woman blush.

Besides, a bit of playful flirting can be a ton of fun!

But this does not always mean he is interested in you in a romantic way.

On the other hand, if a guy talks about his love life, there is a very big chance that he sees you as “more than friends”.

For example, if he opens up to you about his past relationships and why they didn’t necessarily work, then he trusts you and wants to talk about it, so you know he is available and ready.

What most girls don’t realize is this is also true if he is talking about his CURRENT love life.

This doesn’t mean he is ready to leave his current girlfriend and commit to you. But the fact that he is willing to open up to you on a personal level shows that he does have some feelings for you…

And when you’re ready to take things to the next level, keep reading…

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Once you feel a man is interested in you, you must make a choice about what to do next.

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