You know what’s hard about being a woman?
Trying to figure out how a man really thinks about you!
This is especially true if it’s a shy and guarded man.
He gives you clues that he likes you, and he seems to be falling for you…
But you get mixed signals too, and his behavior is unpredictable.
Meanwhile, your head is filled with thoughts and you just can’t stop wondering how he actually feels about you.
Now here’s the good news:
There’s an easy way to look at a guy’s behavior, and tell exactly how he feels about you deep inside.
This applies to any man, no matter how emotionally closed up or guarded he is.
As dating and relationship experts, we’ve helped thousands of women around the world do this.
And today, we’re going to help you too!
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The 10 Strongest Signs A Guarded Man Is Falling In Love With You
When it comes to shy and guarded men, it’s not easy to tell what’s really going on inside his heart.
He will tend to keep his feelings to himself, and shy away from tough questions…
And he definitely won’t tell you if he likes you!
But just like any other man, there will be clues in his behavior that you can pick up on.
In this article, our team will give you the 10 strongest signs a guarded man is falling in love with you.
Read through this list carefully, and see if you notice any of them in him. The more of these signs he displays, the more likely it is that he is falling for you!
Later in this article, you will also learn the fastest way to get a man to open up his heart to you, and fall deeply in love with you!
1. He Cares About Your Feelings
When a man starts to fall in love with a woman, one of the first things he does is start to care about her feelings.
This is true for all men, even the ones who are emotionally guarded.
That’s because it is in the nature of a man to care for those who he holds close to his heart.
Now, a guarded man will sometimes pretend that he doesn’t care about your feelings.
He might try to act casual and play it cool with you, especially in front of other people.
But make no mistake: He is only holding back his feelings because he is so emotionally guarded.
No matter how hard he tries to keep it in, there will be moments where he shows his caring side to you.
For example, he might text you in the middle of the day just to ask how you are. Or he might reach out and talk to you when you seem to be feeling down.
These might seem like small gestures, but don’t underestimate them.
All these little actions show that this guarded man is starting to care about your feelings…
And they are signs that he is starting to fall in love with you.
2. He Shares His Vulnerabilities With You
We all know that guys like to play it cool and hide their emotions and vulnerabilities from others…
And that’s especially true for a guarded man.
But when he falls in love, something changes.
Slowly but surely, he will start to open up his heart to you.
And this is one of the strongest signs that he is starting to fall in love with you.
A man who shares his fears and vulnerabilities with you is a man who has started to truly trust you.
He feels comfortable with you enough to show you the side of him that he keeps hidden from the outside world.
It takes a lot of courage for a guarded man to do this. But if he does, you’ll know for sure that he has feelings for you.
For example, he might open up to you about his social anxiety, or insecurity he feels when it comes to relationships.
Or maybe he will admit that he worries about his career, and doesn’t know what to do with his life.
As women, it’s relatively easy for us to share these thoughts with our friends.
But for a guarded man, it is very hard to open up like this, especially to a girl.
So don’t dismiss these little signs! They all suggest that he is slowly falling for you.
3. He Is Emotionally Connected With You
One of the best things you can do for yourself as a woman is to listen to your heart.
We all have our moments of doubt and uncertainty…
But the truth is: A woman’s intuition is a very powerful thing.
And when you learn to trust your heart, you will be able to see how a man feels about you.
You see, when a guarded man falls in love with a woman, he starts to form an emotional connection with you.
What does this mean?
An emotional connection allows him to feel what you feel. Your emotions become in sync with each other, and he will be able to understand and share your feelings.
When you’re happy, he will also feel joy seeing you having a good time. And when you’re feeling down, he will also be able to share your sadness.
So ask yourself: Do you feel that he has an emotional connection with you?
Is he in tune with your emotions? Does he share your feelings?
Because if he does, then there’s a very good chance that he’s falling in love with you.
4. He’s There For You When Things Get Tough
As we’ve mentioned above, one of the signs a guy is falling for you is when he starts caring about your feelings…
But when he offers his care and support to you at times when you really need him, it’s a whole different story.
You see, it’s easy for a guy to tell you that he cares and charm you with words…
But when times are tough, these guys will usually run away.
It’s during these times that his love for you is truly tested.
So if a guarded man sticks by your side even when things are difficult, you’ll know for sure that he definitely has feelings for you.
He will not run away from your problems. Instead, he will treat them like his own problems, and try to support you in any way he can.
And he does this because he truly cares about you on a deep level.
The thing about a guarded man is he will never tell you that he loves you directly.
But when the time is right, he will always show you his feelings through his actions, and be by your side when you need the love and support.
5. You See It In His Eyes
There’s an old saying that goes: “The eyes are the windows to the soul”…
But in reality, they are windows to the heart too.
You see, you can tell a lot from looking into someone’s eyes.
You will be able to see whether they are happy, confident, unsure, or dishonest…
And yes, you will get clues about how he feels about you too.
The truth is, guarded men have a lot of trouble expressing their affection for someone.
They can hold a lot of these feelings inside of them, but they don’t have a way of letting them out.
That’s why one of the best ways to tell if a guarded man is falling in love with you is to watch his eyes.
If you look close, you’ll start to see some clues that tell you how he feels about you.
For example, you might notice that he stares at you a lot when you’re around him…
But when you hold eye contact with him, he will usually be the first to look away.
He might even get lost in your gaze for a while as he becomes mesmerized by your eyes…
All these are strong clues that he is falling for you, and is keeping his feelings hidden from you because he’s emotionally guarded.
6. He Becomes Lost For Words
Put yourself in his shoes for a second:
A guarded man who is in love with you will have a lot of feelings bottled up inside.
Over time, these feelings grow stronger and stronger, because he keeps them guarded and locked up in his heart.
And this can be very overwhelming sometimes, especially when he’s around you.
It can cause his mind to go blank, and make him lost for words in front of you.
This usually happens when you’re having a one-on-one conversation and nobody else is around.
Maybe he is obsessing over you and wondering about a relationship with you…
He could be fighting his feelings for you as he stares into your eyes…
Or perhaps he is thinking about confessing his love for you!
In any case, this is a telltale sign that a guarded man is falling in love with you.
7. He’s Always Happy To Hang Out
Nowadays, it’s easy to stay in touch with each other through texting and social media…
But at the end of the day, nothing beats being with someone in person.
And for a guarded man, there’s nothing better than hanging out with the girl that he loves.
Think about it:
When you’re in love, you will naturally want to feel connected with your crush.
But as an introvert, he can’t communicate freely over text messages or phone calls.
So the only way he can feel close to you is simply to be with you in person.
You may notice that he is always happy to hang out whenever you ask him. And he may also reach out often to make plans with you.
Usually, he will play it off as something casual. But deep down inside, he is craving to be close to you.
8. He Treats You Differently Compared To Other People
Let’s be honest: Trying to decode a guy’s behavior can be quite difficult…
Especially if he’s a man who is shy and guarded about his emotions.
So here’s a clever way to figure out how he really feels about you:
Take a look at how he acts around you, and compare it with how he treats others.
You see, when a guarded man falls in love with a woman, he will start to treat her differently than he does other people.
He simply cannot help it, because deep inside his heart, you have a different role in his life.
With his friends, he might be casual and relaxed.
But because he secretly cares about what you think about him, he might be more careful and thoughtful in front of you.
And because he holds you closer to his heart, he will naturally be more caring and attentive towards you.
Remember: His actions will always reflect his heart.
This is something that he cannot control, no matter how shy or guarded he might be.
So pay attention to how he treats you and others. You will probably start to notice a lot of differences!
9. He Acts Differently With You When His Friends Are Around
Do you remember how it felt when you had a crush on a boy at school as a little girl?
You were obsessed with him, and fantasized all day long about being with him…
But at the same time, you spent a lot of effort keeping it a secret from your classmates.
Well, that’s basically how a guarded man feels when he’s in love with you!
He might have powerful feelings towards you, and want you more than anybody else in the world…
But he’s also terrified of his friends finding out.
He’s not sure how they’d react, or whether they would go ahead and tell you that he has a crush on you!
As a result, you might notice that he acts differently with you when his friends are around.
With you, he will be overjoyed to be with the girl that he loves.
But if his friends are they too, he will tend to be more quiet and reserved, as if he’s keeping a secret from them.
That’s because he is worried about giving them any clues about how he truly feels about you. It’s just another one of the characteristics of a guarded man.
10. You Have His Attention
When a man is in love, his attention will always be pointed at the woman he loves.
It sounds obvious, but you’d be surprised at how many women neglect this fact.
When you’re in the room, his focus will be drawn towards you like a magnet, and he will zone out from everybody else.
That’s because you are on his mind, no matter what he says. And he will naturally be drawn to you in a way that he cannot explain.
This is simply human nature, and it doesn’t matter how guarded or shy he is.
In the same way that a kid who loves ice cream will have his attention stolen by the ice cream truck, his focus will be completely fixed on you.
He might not say much. But you will find that he is very happy to listen to you, and is intrigued by everything you have to say.
And of course, he will care about your opinion of him above anyone else’s.
So if his attention is glued on you, it’s a sure sign that he is holding back feelings for you. All you have to do is bring these feelings out of him…
BONUS: How To Make Him Open Up And BEG To Be Your Boyfriend
Here’s the truth about guarded men:
It takes a very long time for them to open up about their feelings.
And if you’re planning on waiting, you better be prepared for a long wait full of frustration and disappointment…
But what if there was a better way?
What if there was a way to fill him with an uncontrollable desire for you, so that he has no choice but to come to you and BEG for a chance at your heart?
It might sound crazy right now. But it’s perfectly possible, as long as you do the right things.
In fact, as dating and relationship experts, we’ve already coached thousands of women to do this.
And now, it’s your turn!
To help you get started, we’ve prepared a handy guide on how to make any man BEG to be your boyfriend, no matter how unsure or guarded he is. And today, it’s yours for free:
FREE GUIDE: Make Him BEG To Be With You!
Use these clever techniques to make any man completely obsessed, and BEG for a chance with you!
It all comes down to using a few simple tricks to push some “emotional triggers” inside a man’s mind.
And when you do so, it unlocks a desperate craving for you, and ONLY you, inside his heart.
He will be overwhelmed by this desire to hold you, love you, and care for you, that he has no choice but to pour his feelings out to you.
And he will feel an uncontrollable urge to do anything he can just to put a smile on your face, and make you feel like the most special girl in the world.
The best part? It’s all based on male psychology, hardwired into every man’s brain.
That’s why these little techniques work so well, no matter how old you are or what you look like.
To find out more, grab your free copy of our guide below. Once you start using the tips inside, you’ll be surprised at how quickly his behavior changes!
FREE GUIDE: Make Him BEG To Be With You!
Use these clever techniques to make any man completely obsessed, and BEG for a chance with you!