What To Do When A Guy Stops Talking To You Suddenly


What’s the #1 most stressful thing about guys?

Chances are, you’ve already experienced this:

You’re having a great time with a guy, and it seems like he likes you too…

But all of a sudden, he stops talking to you out of nowhere.

It leaves you feeling terrible, with wild thoughts running through your head:

Why did he stop talking to me?

Did he just forget about me?

What really happened?

Today, we’re going to show you EXACTLY why do guys stop talking to you, and what to do about it.

Here’s the thing:

Guys can act really weird sometimes!

Trust us – As dating coaches, we’ve seen this happen time and time again.

The good news is: There is a simple way to “hack” into his mind and make him talk to you again.

In this article, we will show you exactly what to do when a man goes quiet suddenly.

You will find out why he suddenly stopped talking to you, and how to make him talk to you again without sounding awkward.

Later in this article, you will also learn some special words and phrases that will make him fall in love with you.

Before You Continue…

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Why Did He Stop Talking To Me? (What It Really Means…)

We get it – Figuring out what a guy REALLY thinks can be hard.

But remember this:

Male psychology is very different from women.

To understand why he suddenly became distant and cold to you, ask yourself the following questions:

1. What Is Your Relationship With Him?

If you want to read a guy’s mind, the first step is to analyze your relationship.

Here’s what we mean:

When a guy stops texting you out of nowhere, it could be due to a number of different reasons…

But the real reason will depend on his relationship with you.

For example, if you just met him recently and have been flirting casually, he might stop talking to you because he is losing interest in you.

But if your guy friend stopped talking to you, this usually means he has feelings for you that he’s hiding from you.

Here’s the thing:

Guys are generally bad at expressing their feelings.

When a male friend likes you, he might start ignoring you because he’s frustrated from hiding his feelings from you.

In some cases, he will also ignore you to try to make you miss him.

These situations can get awkward, so keep reading to find out how to easily make him stop ignoring you.

2. Did He React To A “Trigger”?

There are many “emotional triggers” inside the male mind.

These triggers are often attached to strong emotional reactions, especially if he has been thinking of you…

Ask yourself this:

When exactly did he stop talking to you? Did something happen?

Your goal is to pinpoint what triggered him to start ignoring you.

For example, if a guy sees you hanging out with another man, this might trigger his jealousy response, making him ignore you.

The great news is, you can also target these areas of his mind to trigger positive emotions, such as love and devotion, and make him think of you all the time.

(NOTE: Check out this guide to learn EXACTLY how to do this.)

3. What Else Is Going On In His Life?

awkward guy

Another thing to think about is whether he is acting cold towards you due to reasons unrelated to you.

Put yourself in his shoes – Is he going through something in his personal life?

Sometimes, you might find that he is simply too busy for you.

Another possibility is that he is going through some hard times, and is keeping his emotions inside.

In any case, follow the three easy steps in the next section to get him to open up to you and start talking to you again…

“He Stopped Talking To Me” – Here’s What To Do Next

One of the most common questions we get from our readers is this:

“He just stopped talking to me suddenly… Should I text him?”

Here’s the thing:

When a guy stops talking to you out of the blue, you should NEVER reach out to him first.

Instead, what you should do is make him open up and come to YOU.

If you’re not sure how to do this, don’t worry – We’re here to help!

Just follow these 5 simple steps, and he will come running back to you, begging for your forgiveness.

Step 1: Give Him The Silent Treatment

When a guy stops talking to you out of the blue, the first thing you need to do is ignore him completely for a few days.

Here’s an important fact about male psychology:

Men respond to silence and distance.

When you cut off communication with a guy, you create an “emotional vacuum”.

Think about it:

If you hang out with him and make yourself available to him, he slowly becomes comfortable with you…

But when you suddenly withdraw and disappear from his life, you will shock him with a sense of loss.

The thing is, deep inside his mind, he expects you to chase after him…

But if you do the exact opposite and ignore him, it will turn a switch inside his mind.

This makes him think about you non-stop!

(Check out our free eBook for more ways to hit these “emotional switches” inside a guy’s mind!)

Step 2: Use The “Peacock” Technique

Usually, it’s not enough to make a guy think about you all the time…

You have to make him miss you.

But how do you do this while ignoring him?

It’s simple. Just use the “peacock” technique.

Like a peacock, you’re going to show him how beautiful and amazing of a woman you are, but from far away…

This taps into a powerful emotional response in any man’s mind.

Here’s how you do it:

For the next few days, simply go out, do something fun and treat yourself like a princess.

Make sure you include as many friends as possible, but not him.

Next, start sharing everything on social media – Make plenty of stories and posts, showing everybody what a great time you’re having.

Eventually, he will hear about you through friends and social media…

This strikes a nerve in every man’s brain:

He ghosts you in the first place because he wants you to think of him…

Instead, you do the exact opposite, and he sees you’re having an amazing time.

Over time, he will feel a huge amount of regret, and start missing you like crazy.

Step 3: Get Him To Text You Back With This Trick

After a few days of freezing him out of your life and using the “peacock” technique, you can slowly allow him back into your life.

In most cases, he will automatically reach out to you, so all you have to do is wait…

But for some guys, they will stay silent because they don’t want to express their feelings, even though he misses you and is thinking of you all the time.

Your goal is to encourage him to open up and start talking to you again.

To do this, you need to create “windows” of opportunity for him to jump through.

Here’s what we mean:

Send him a short and casual text, asking him how he’s been…

“Hey stranger ????! How’s it goin?”

Make sure you make it sound chill and playful, even though it might feel awkward after he’s ghosted you out of a sudden.

This does a few things:

First, it gives him a chance to reconnect with you. If you followed the previous steps, he will leap at this chance immediately.

Also, by making the text short and only asking “how are you”, it forces him to chase after you and carry the conversation forward…

Finally, the casual tone of the text will show him you’re a woman of high value, and you are fine with or without him.

This makes him appreciate you as an important person in his life, never to let you go again…

(If you want more ways to keep any man completely devoted to you, grab a free copy of our eBook here!)

Step 4: Show Him Your Caring Side

The biggest mistake you can make when a guy suddenly stops talking to you is panicking, stressing over what went wrong, and pleading for his attention.

Sadly, this ruins his feelings for you even more and pushes him further away.

Instead, you want to rekindle a warm emotional bond between you and him.

So here’s what you do:

If he is still being cold and distant towards you, reach out to him in a caring, sensitive way.

And instead of trying to get his attention back, turn the focus on HIM by asking him if everything’s okay.

You can do so with a simple text like:

“Hey, it’s been a while since we hung out. Are you okay?”

You could also suggest meeting up in person:

“Hey, I haven’t heard from you in a while. Is everything okay? Let’s grab a coffee sometime and chat”

Here’s why these texts are great:

One of the things that guys love in a girl is when they show their sensitive side.

It’s also a great way to get him to open up to you and express his true feelings.

And because you’re only reaching out in a nice and caring way, he is a lot more likely to reply to you.

Step 5: Call Him Out For Ignoring You

Sometimes, guys are just stubborn and won’t reply to you.

Maybe he’s just lost interest in you. Or perhaps he’s distracted by another woman.

In any case, you can always call him out for ignoring you.

Note that you should only do this after giving him some time and space, and tried the steps above.

If he still won’t open up to you, it’s time to address the issue directly.

When you do this, the key is not to put any guilt or shame on him. You should not put any pressure on him to talk to you again either.

Instead, your goal is simply to express to him how you feel when he ignores you.

So with an open heart, tell him how sad and neglected he makes you feel when he stops talking to you.

If you do this honestly and in a heartfelt way, he will realize how badly he’s treated you, and try his very best to make things right again.

And if all else fails, it’s time to take things to the next level…

How To Capture His Heart And Make Him Fall For You

Here’s what we’ve realized after so many years of experience as dating coaches:

It’s really easy to make men fall for you once you know the “cheat code”.

See, most women don’t really know how men think, and why they act the way they do…

In fact, they go through their whole life never meeting the perfect guy who treats them right.

Don’t let this be you!

We’ve taught thousands of girls around the world the special “cheat code” to a man’s heart.

Once you learn the truth about how the male mind works, you can make any man fall in love with you.

Here’s how it works:

There are special tricks you can use to target the “emotional triggers” inside his mind.

If you use them the right way, he will start to feel a deep desire for you, and forget about any other woman in his life…

The best part? These techniques are based on psychology, so they work on any man, no matter how old you are or what you look like.

To learn about these simple techniques, check out this free eBook NOW:


Use these easy techniques to “lock-in” a man’s commitment to you, and to make him love you FOREVER!

As women, we understand how you feel.

But no matter what other people say, always remember:

You are an AMAZING woman…

And you deserve an amazing man who loves you, respects you and treats you special.

So start using these special techniques today, and see how quickly men fall in love with you immediately!


Use these easy techniques to “lock-in” a man’s commitment to you, and to make him love you FOREVER!

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