Dating as a girl is a lot harder than as a guy.
Society puts a lot of pressure on us to wait for the guy to make the first move…
We’ve all been there.
Crushing hard on the perfect guy…
Hoping and waiting for him to make a move on you…
Only to find he ignores you and falls in love with another girl.
As experts in dating and relationship dynamics, we understand.
We’ve coached thousands of women around the world to get with the perfect guy of their dreams, by understanding the psychology behind dating.
Today, we’ll show you how to tell if a guy is waiting for you to text him first.
You’ll understand exactly what is going on inside his mind, and whether you should make the first move, or wait for him to reach out first.
Later in the article, you will also learn some special texts to activate “emotional responses” inside the male mind, to make any guy feel a burning desire for you and only you.
Here are the 5 signs he is waiting for you to text him first!
In This Article:
1. He Acts Differently In Real Life
The best way to tell if he is waiting for you to text first is to see how he acts in real life.
Put yourself in his shoes for a second:
A guy who is interested in you will definitely act a little uneasy when he’s around you.
This is because he is emotionally invested in you.
Here’s what we mean:
He is more careful about what he says and how he acts in front of you, because he cares what you think about him.
For some guys, they will behave a bit shy in front of you.
But for others, they will try to play it cool and put on an act – Guys are usually quite bad at this, so it will be easy for you to see through it.
In any case, if he’s acting a bit differently when he’s with you, you know that he’s at least a bit interested…
…And if he’s not texting you first, he’s probably waiting for you to do it.
Remember: Just because he’s interested doesn’t mean he definitely likes you. That’s why you have to be careful of what you text him.
2. He Follows You Closely On Social Media
There are many reasons why a guy might wait for you to text first…
Often, he really wants to text you, but he just doesn’t know what to say.
In this situation, he will usually follow you closely on your social media profile.
If he likes and comments on your posts often, or looks at your stories, it shows you he is thinking about you…
Here’s another tip about social media algorithms:
If he appears near the top of your list of online friends, he has secretly been visiting your profile a lot.
This is a good sign that he is waiting for you to text him first.
3. He Spends A Lot Of Time Online
Here’s a fact about the male mind:
Guys get bored easily.
If a guy is spending a lot of time online, he is probably feeling bored and looking for something to brighten up his day, but he’s not finding it…
He is probably talking to other girls, but he’s just not feeling it…
This is a perfect opportunity for you to text him first.
In fact, if you follow the guidelines at the end of this article, he will be very happy to receive a text from you.
4. He Hangs Out With Many Other People (Including Girls)
Another important part of reading a guy’s mind is to look at his lifestyle.
If he has an active social life, he is more likely to wait for you to text him first.
These guys usually have a busy lifestyle, so they are used to people reaching out to him first.
They will probably spend less time online, and only go online to reply to friends.
He will also have many girls messaging him too, so it is important to make your text “stand out” using text chemistry techniques.
5. He Makes Himself Available To You
Finally, this is the strongest sign a guy is waiting for your text.
If a guy makes himself available to you, it shows that you are important in his mind.
But what exactly does this mean?
Take a look at all the chats and interactions you’ve had with him before, in real life or online…
Does he put you in his center of attention?
Does he reply quickly?
Is he always happy and ready to help you out when you need help?
If he makes himself available to you, he is definitely interested in you.
This is true no matter what type of guy he is – All you have to do is text him first.
BONUS: Send Him These Special Texts To Make Him Obsessed With You
By now, you should be able to tell if a guy is waiting for you to text first…
But you have to be very careful what you text him.
That’s because one wrong move, and you can turn him off completely.
Here’s the key:
You have to make your texts sound casual, but also emotionally engaging.
On one hand, you have to be smooth and subtle to avoid any awkwardness…
But on the other hand, you have to steal his attention, and make him catch feelings for you.
If you’re not sure how to do this, don’t worry. We’re here to help.
There are special texts you can use to target “emotional triggers” inside his male mind.
These texts will evoke powerful emotional responses deep inside him.
He will feel a profound and uncontrollable desire for you and only you.
They will also “lock-in” these feelings inside his heart, making him love you like the last girl he will ever love.
The best part?
These are all based on male psychology, hardwired in every man’s brain.
That’s why they work on any guy, no matter how old you are or what you look like.
This is the sad truth:
99% of women will never learn these secrets.
That’s why they go through life watching the perfect guys walk on by, paying no attention to them, and falling in love with other girls instead…
But you deserve better.
You deserve to feel safe and loved, in the big arms of the man you’ve dreamed of since you were a little girl.
We’ve helped thousands of girls do it, and now it’s your turn.
So start using these texts immediately, and watch how quickly guys fall crazy in love with you: