“He Blocked Me: What Should I Do?” Dating Experts Respond…

As women, we’ve all experienced this at some point:

You excitedly check your phone to see if the guy you like has texted you… Only to see that he has blocked you.

You most likely have no understanding how or why it happened, much less what to do about it.

And you’re simply left confused and neglected.

Trust us – We know how bad that feels.

Today, you’ll discover everything you need to know about the possible reasons why he blocked you, as well as what you can do about it!

First things first: Don’t panic. You’re not the only one who feels this way!

Just because he’s blocked you doesn’t mean the game is over.

There are always methods to get him back if you don’t want it to be the end. And the simplest method is only a few clicks away.

More on this later.

For now, let’s take a look at the variety of reasons why he would block you, and get a better understanding of what he is really thinking right now…

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Is Blocking Someone Immature?

Here’s the truth:

There’s no more childish way to deal with a situation than blocking someone.

Think about it – That’s why high schoolers do!

Without a question, one of the most frustrating aspects of modern dating is the abundance of options.

And this can lead to blocking, ignoring and ghosting, instead of open and honest communication.

In the past, people used to stop seeing one other, but it wouldn’t be unexpected.

Nowadays, people can “delete” peers and partners from their lives with just one click by blocking them on social media.

It’s cold and uncaring. But as women, we need to know how to deal with it the right way.

As mentioned above, there are a variety of possible reasons why guys block you. And some of these might take you by surprise…

Here’s the good news:

There are many ways to dealing with it, and picking the best one is crucial! And if you want to do that, you need to first understand the psychology of blocking someone. So let’s get started right away.

The 5 Main Reasons Why A Guy Would Block You

When a guy blocks you, it usually has only one meaning: He’s ready to move on.

However, not every block has the same meaning. There are several main reasons why a guy would block you. For example, he might need some time and space, or he secretly wants you to chase him.

If you want to get him to unblock you and win his heart back, the first step is to figure out why he blocked you in the first place.

You’d be surprised at how many hidden meanings exist behind this move, which ranges from “never wanting to see you again” to “playing hard to get and secretly trying to get you to chase him.”

Yes, it’s confusing! But trust us: You CAN decode a guy’s behavior.

So if you’re wondering to yourself: “Did he block me because he cares?” or “He blocked my number, is it over?”…

…Then pay close attention, because you’re about to learn the real reasons why he blocked you.

1. He Needs Some Space For Himself

There’s many men who will decide to block someone simply because they feel emotionally suffocated.

This happened to one of our students recently. Here’s what happened:

Jennifer started going out with this amazing guy, and they seemed to be getting along very well.

But after dating for a while, he suddenly blocked her.

She was completely shocked since they had such a strong connection and she could see that they had a lot of promise.

She got very upset, and decided to eliminate him from her life and live as if she had never met him because she hadn’t heard anything about him since.

All of a sudden, everything changed.

He unblocked her on social media and texted her the other day, after a few months of silence.

She couldn’t believe it. It just didn’t make sense!

She had almost completely given up hope that he would ever contact her again. But to her surprise, he did!

He told her for the first time that he just wanted some time and space to work things out and that he was sorry for disappearing off the face of the world.

Believe it or not, this is very common with guys.

Unlike us, men tend to keep their feelings locked up inside.

As women, it feels good for us to express our emotions and find comfort in talking about them with our friends…

But for many men, they prefer to process their emotions alone.

The worst part? Unlike Jennifer’s boyfriend, most men will not tell you about this even after they have worked out their own feelings.

They would rather give up on you and move on, instead of exposing his emotionally vulnerable side to you and letting you know why he ghosted you.

That’s why it’s important for us to learn how to trigger a powerful emotional bond in him, filling his body with desire for you, and giving him no choice but to unblock you and BEG you for forgiveness…

More on this later!

2. He Wants To Remove You From His Life

This one will probably hurt the most. But it happens, and you need to learn how to deal with it properly.

If a guy decides he wants to permanently remove you from his life, but doesn’t want to go through the trouble of talking to you, he might simply block you and never contact you again.

Here’s another case study from one of our students:

Carolina had been in a six-month relationship with a guy, when he abruptly blocked her phone number without explaining why or saying anything.

She felt devastated, and it only got worse as time passed.

After a few weeks, she tried to figure out what the heck had happened, and saw a picture of him on Instagram with another woman.

She went to her best friend, crying her eyes out. She admitted that she suspected he was probably seeing someone else behind her back, but she couldn’t say for sure…

Now, this might not apply in your case. It’s a common reason why a guy blocks you, but it’s not always correct.

The very last thing you want to do is to overreact and ruin any chance of winning him back.

Instead, you need to stay calm and take the right steps to make him think about you non-stop obsess over you and want you back in his life.

Want to know how Carolina’s story ended?

Two weeks after she started using some of our clever techniques to push his “emotional triggers”, he showed up at her home in tears, shaking with emotion and regret, and promising to love her for the rest of his life.

Keep reading. We’re going to show you exactly how to do this later in this article.

3. It Hurts Him To See You On Social Media

If this guy we’re talking about is your ex, he might have blocked you because having you on social media hurts him far too much.

Here’s what we mean:

Maybe you’ve already found someone new, and he simply cannot stand seeing pictures of you with another man every day on his phone…

Or maybe he sees that you’re perfectly happy without him, while he’s still miserable and secretly hasn’t moved on yet.

Put yourself in his shoes: What would be your natural reaction to this?

The easiest thing for him to do would just be to block you so he won’t be constantly reminded of you on a daily basis.

It would be easier for him if he had no idea what’s going on in your life or whether you’re happy without him.

This is exactly what happens in the mind of a man who is hurting emotionally.

He simply can’t handle the idea that you have moved on, and can’t bear seeing how happy you are without him.

The thing is, while he believes that blocking you on social media will fix the problem, it won’t!

Your mutual friends will inevitably talk about you at some point, even though he is frantically trying to avoid you in his life.

In any case, he will hear about your new life one way or another.

Here’s the good news:

If you DO want him back, this makes it very easy for you to pull him back, and make him beg you for another chance at your heart.

Read on to find out more…

4. He Wants To Hurt You

Be honest with us…

Are you thinking to yourself: “He blocked me, and it hurts…”?

Believe it or not, some guys will deliberately block you because they know it would cause you pain.

It hurts when he blocks you. But it hurts even more when you realize what he’s trying to do to you.

Ask yourself this question:

Do you believe he is out for vengeance for any reason?

If you’ve cheated on him or acted dishonestly in any way, you’ll understand why he blocked you

It’s not always this obvious. After all, deep down in their hearts, guys are sensitive creatures.

Consider everything that has happened recently (particularly in the last week) and try to make connections.

If you can’t get through to him, try asking his buddies or mutual friends if they know anything about his weird behavior and why he blocked you.

You need to figure out why he would want to hurt you, especially if you honestly feel like you haven’t done anything to deserve it.

And if you can’t find it, even after speaking with all of his pals, you can be sure it’s something he imagined or misread.

As a result, he blocked you on the spur of the moment since he didn’t want to talk to you about it or try to figure out what had happened.

This is a terrible situation, as it can completely destroy your relationship with him because of one simple misunderstanding.

A little bit of communication goes a long way. Later in this article, we’ll show you how to rebuild a powerful emotional connection with him, so that this never happens again.

5. He Doesn’t Want To Feel Guilty

Men, as previously stated, have always had difficulty dealing with their emotions, so they frequently use shortcuts such as blocking.

When they’re unsure how they actually feel about you and want to break up with you but don’t want to do so in person, they select the cowardly option of barring you from their social media accounts.

Because they don’t want to break your heart, they enforce the no contact rule a little too quickly. On the contrary, they are doing just that without even realising it.

So, if a man blocks you because he doesn’t want to hurt you, it’s because he lacks the nerve to do it in person.

He knows he wouldn’t be able to stand seeing you upset and hurt. He’s scared he’ll have second thoughts about the situation or say something hurtful.

And at the end of the day, he just doesn’t want to deal with the feelings of guilt and shame. So he runs away by blocking you.

Blocking you is less unpleasant to him than having a difficult conversation. But, more importantly, it’s definitely less painful for him.

It means he won’t be able to see how you’re feeling about the situation. But he doesn’t realize that this doesn’t mean you aren’t in pain.

Explaining this to a guy is extremely difficult. So the only thing we can do is try to bear it in mind, understand it, and take the right next steps…

The Main Point: There’s Always A Reason Why He Blocked You

Many women come to us saying “He blocked me on everything” or “He blocked me for no reason.”

But you shouldn’t be fooled.

The truth is: Every thing a guy does has a purpose and a reason behind it.

There is a reason why he blocked you. And you have every right to be angry and upset about it.

While it’s important to understand the common reasons why a guy might block you, you shouldn’t spend too much time worrying or stressing out about it.

If you haven’t worked out why he blocked you yet, re-read the list above. It’s better to be honest with yourself than to lie to yourself.

But if you can’t seem to find the real reason why he blocked you, don’t overreact by demanding him to come back and explain what occurred.

Accepting and understanding the situation is the first step to dealing with it properly.

So, no matter how difficult it may appear, be honest with yourself and accept the situation as you understand it fully. You’re now ready to move on to the next steps…

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5 Ways To Make Him Unblock You And Contact You

At this stage, you have two choices for a situation like this:

Letting him go, or making him come back.

There are certain things you can do to subtly persuade him to unblock you and come back to you if you’re not ready to let him go and you’re also not ready to reach out to him directly.

Try out some of the following techniques. He will most likely realize that blocking you was a mistake and will immediately regret his actions.

“He Blocked Me On Everything” – Here’s What You Can Do

1. Make New Friends

It’s critical that you get out and meet new people instead of doing nothing and overthinking why he blocked you.

You don’t have to try too hard here. Simply start hanging out with new people, and new friendships will open up to you.

One way or another, he will notice that you’ve moved on and are continuing to live your best life. Perhaps he will hear it from friends, or he will simply notice that you haven’t reached out to him.

As a result, he will realize that he’s slowly but steadily losing you, and start to worry that you’ll meet someone else who might be better than him!

2. Spend Time Enjoying Your Hobbies And Interests

Instead of stressing and focusing on the pain that you’re feeling, spend your time doing the activities you enjoy, and make a habit of doing them on a regular basis.

This can be whatever brings you happiness, from music, art and skiing, to jogging, dancing, and cooking…

Nurture your passions, since they are the essence of who you are, what makes you special, and what makes you happy.

All of this will make you radiate positive energy, and if he bumps into you again, his heart will be captured by you.

He will notice that you’re happy and fulfilled without him, which will prompt him to unblock you since he’ll be yearning to be a part of your life again!

3. Spend Time With Friends Who Genuinely Care About You

Ever heard of the law of attraction?

You attract into your life what you think and believe.

So, rather than dwelling on your negative thoughts or wondering why he blocked you, surround yourself with friends and family members that care about you.

Believe in good things, live with love, and be surrounded by good people who love you. And the rest will be taken care of by the law of attraction.

Before long, he will unblock you and reach out if he’s the one for you. And if he isn’t, you will effortlessly attract a much better man into your life.

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He Hasn’t Blocked You On Everything? Here’s What To Do

Maybe you’re thinking to yourself: “He blocked me on messenger but not Facebook.” And this sort of behavior can leave you really confused.

If he blocks you on certain services, but not on Facebook or Instagram, it’s a clear sign that he secretly wants to keep an eye on you and stay updated with your life…

And you can take advantage of this to make him unblock you, and crave your attention once again!

1. Show Off Yourself Having A Good Time And Living Life To The Fullest

Nothing is more powerful than witnessing someone having the time of their lives, and feeling jealous about it.

When it comes to guys blocking you, this is especially true.

When he blocks you, he expects you to be perplexed and disappointed. He wants to see you desperately try to win him back again.

But when you don’t, he will start to wonder what’s actually going on and whether you even care about him in the first place.

If you keep uploading photographs of yourself having fun and living life to the fullest, that’s precisely how he’ll feel.

If he continues to see you laughing with your friends, participating in new activities, and doing a variety of other exciting things, he will realize that your life is still amazing even without him in it.

As a result, he will desperately want to be a part of your life again.

He won’t be able to understand that you don’t care that he blocked you, and he’ll want to contact you to check whether you’re still interested in him.

2. Be Mysterious

While it’s crucial to let him know that you’re having a good time, don’t go overboard.

You need to generate mystery from time to time by not posting anything. Instead of showing him your every move, let him wonder what you’re doing and what’s going on in your life.

When he notices that you haven’t been active online in a while, his imagination will run wild with all the wonderful things that are going on in your life, and you won’t have time to even post a picture about it.

In other words, he will think that you’re so busy in life that you forget about everything else, even social networking.

That’s the message you’re trying to get to him. And that’s the message that’ll inspire him to reach out and contact you again!

Other Things to Think About…

Here are some other questions to ponder in order to better understand why he blocked you, and whether he will ever unblock you:

Did He Start To Withdraw From You Emotionally?

When it comes to the “needing space” problem, men are a little strange, and you never know what they truly think or need.

If he requested you to give him some space and you didn’t, you’ll understand why he blocked you.

Perhaps he wanted some alone time to reflect on your relationship, or whatever you want to call it, and because you didn’t offer it to him, he decided to block you.

If that’s the case, you can’t be angry with him since he requested you to give him some space and you declined.

As a result, he may label you as clingy and self-centered. However, you shouldn’t be concerned because this does not imply that he has permanently barred you.

It’s just that he needed some alone time, and when he’s through, he’ll probably unblock you sooner than you think.

Did You Get Into A Fight?

If you were having an argument with each other and said a lot of hurtful things to each other, this could be the reason he blocked you.

It’s difficult to think clearly when you’re angry, hurt, or disappointed. All you can think about is how to get rid of it.

As a result, some people utilise this blocking approach to eliminate bad influences from their lives. However, this is ineffective in the long run.

Despite the fact that he blocked you, he will never forget what happened since it will haunt him.

As a result, once he’s recharged and had time to think things over, there’s a strong possibility he’ll unblock you.

Has This Happened Before?

If this isn’t the first time he’s blocked you, you’re well aware that it’s his preferred method of problem-solving.

Many people will literally block their partner if something awful happens because they don’t know how to deal with it.

Even if it isn’t a major deal, people do it because it is their way of dealing with unfavourable situations in life.

They believe that by removing the other person, they will also be deleting all of the negative. After a while, they usually come to their senses and unblock the person.

But, if he’s never done it before, you know that’s not his style of problem-solving; it’s something else entirely.

The cause is most likely one of the aforementioned or one of the following questions. All you have to do is look intently and open your eyes!

Did Someone Force Him To Block You?

I’ve seen situations where friends and relatives encourage someone to do things like block, delete numbers, and avoid seeing the individual, among other things.

It’s critical to recognise that giving advise is one thing, but telling them what to do and managing their love lives is quite another.

Maybe this has happened to you as well.

You can find out if this is true by asking your mutual acquaintances, but you don’t want to go too deep on this one.

Arguing with his family about him blocking you might soon escalate, and you don’t need any more drama in your life.

Did You Act Needy After A Breakup?

Breakups are always difficult, and they often force us to do things we would usually never consider.

We turn into stalkers and creepers. We keep our phone close to us at all times in the hopes that they may contact or text us.

When they don’t, we decide to take the lead in the hopes that they will reciprocate. We become very obtrusive without even realising it.

By being too intrusive, we mean texting, calling, begging, stalking, and other behaviors that may have caused him to block you.

It might sound harsh, but he was probably frustrated by all of your calls and texts, which is why he blocked you.

If this happened to you, all is not lost. But you will have to act quickly to win him back. The longer you wait, the smaller the chances of him coming back to you again.

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What Should I Do If He Blocks Me? The 2 Most Powerful Techniques

Now that we’ve gone over all of the various reasons for his blocking, let’s look at what you can do about it.

First of all, do NOT stalk, message or call him.

You will not be able to forget him or ask him to unblock you if you do this. You’re simply going to make things worse.

When someone blocks you, there are just two things you should do to achieve the greatest potential result:

Play The No Contact Game With Him

For most situations, you should go “No Contact” on him, rather than wasting time sitting next to your phone, and obsessing non-stop over the question, “Why did he block me?”.

After all, he froze you out of his life. So why shouldn’t you do the same?

So for the next few days, there should be absolutely no texting, messaging, or social media stalking.

Why? Because if you really want to get back together, you want HIM to reach out to you!

Think about it this way:

He blocked you because he doesn’t want to talk to you right now. And frantically trying to contact him will only make matters worse.

You don’t want him to believe you’re desperate or needy, or that you don’t have a life of your own without him. This will just turn him off even more and drive him further away.

Instead, you want him to think you’re doing just fine without him, and that him blocking you is his loss, not yours.

You want him to realize that you’re a confident, high-value woman who doesn’t require the attention of people who aren’t deserving of you.

When he realizes all of this, he will find out that blocking you was a mistake and will want you back.

As a result, he will unblock you after some time, and it is up to you to decide what to do when he does.

If You Must Contact Him, Wait At Least 2 Months

If you’re dead set on getting him back and don’t want to wait forever for him to unblock you and contact you, here’s what you do:

Reach out to him casually, but wait at least 2 months before doing so.

The emphasis is on giving him some time first, since you must make him miss you before you do so.

The key to making someone miss you is to give them some space and time. And 2 months is the ideal time.

When you contact him, there’s a risk he won’t respond or explain why he blocked you in the first place.

Being the first to contact him is always a risky move. So make sure to do it casually, in a light-hearted manner.

Reach out to him through a platform where he hasn’t blocked you. If you’re unsure, email and SMS are always safe bets.

Start off with a casual greeting, and simply ask how he’s been. The goal is just to restablish communication without appearing needy or desperate.

There’s no guarantee that he will act warmly again. But if you manage to rebuild a strong emotional connection with him, it will give you the best chances of getting a reply from him.

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So He Blocked Me… Will He Come Back?

If you’re left wondering: “Will he come back after he blocked me?”, you have to consider why he did so in the first place.

Unless he really wants to hurt you or remove you from his life completely, there’s a good probability he’ll unblock you.

The truth is, in 80% of cases, guys block you because they are playing games with you, and secretly want you to react in a certain way.

Perhaps he wants more of your attention. Or he wants you to chase him and feel desired by you.

The goal, of course, is to turn the tables on him, and get HIM to chase you back!

How To Capture His Heart And Make Him BEG For You Back!

Here’s what we’ve realized after so many years of experience as dating coaches:

It’s really easy to make men fall for you once you know the “cheat code”.

See, most women don’t really know how men think, and why they act the way they do…

In fact, they go through their whole life never meeting the perfect guy who treats them right.

Don’t let this be you!

We’ve taught thousands of girls around the world the special “cheat code” to a man’s heart.

Once you learn the truth about how the male mind works, you can make any man fall in love with you.

Here’s how it works:

There are special tricks you can use to target the “emotional triggers” inside his mind.

If you use them the right way, he will start to feel a deep desire for you, and forget about any other woman in his life…

The best part? These techniques are based on psychology, so they work on any man, no matter how old you are or what you look like.

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As women, we understand how you feel.

But no matter what other people say, always remember:

You are an AMAZING woman…

And you deserve an amazing man who loves you, respects you and treats you special.

So start using these special techniques today, and see how quickly men fall in love with you immediately!

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