As women, we all want the same thing deep down in our hearts:
We all want to be in a warm and loving relationship with a man who cares about us from the heart, treats us like a princess, and respects us.
But even in a dream relationship with a perfect man, there will still be arguments and fights from time to time.
It hurts. And no matter how hard you try, you can’t avoid them completely.
So how can you prevent these fights from hurting your relationship?
What’s the best way to reconnect and pull your boyfriend’s heart back after a fight?
As relationship coaches, we’ve seen this situation time and time again.
In fact, this is a question we constantly get from women all around the world.
Today, you’ll learn everything you need to know about it.
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How To Make Your Boyfriend Miss You After A Fight: 20 Clever Tips
If you’re like most women, fights with your boyfriend can really hurt emotionally.
That’s especially true if you really love him and you’re trying your best, but he doesn’t seem to appreciate you.
But the biggest mistake women make in this situation is to let their emotions take over.
They become overwhelmed with sadness, lashing out at their boyfriends, and react badly to the situation.
You should never do this, even if your boyfriend was wrong to mistreat you. This will only damage your relationship further.
Instead, you should make him come back to you, and beg you for a second chance at your heart.
The best way to make your boyfriend miss you after a fight is to highlight the feelings of loneliness and isolation in his heart, and then make him regret his actions.
Today, our team will give you 20 clever tricks to do exactly that.
Follow these simple tips, and he will come crawling back to you on his knees, pouring his heart out for you, and promising never to hurt you again.
Later in this article, we’ll also show you how to build a deep emotional connection with him, so that he devotes himself completely to you and never wants to let you go again.
1. Don’t Chase Him!
After a couple fights with each other, a woman should never feel the need to chase her man back, no matter how it happened.
Instead, your goal should be to make him try to win your heart back.
He needs to be the one chasing you and trying to mend and repair the relationship.
If you want him to miss you after a fight, you need to make it clear that he has to take some responsibility in fixing things between you.
And whatever you do, don’t let him get used to taking you for granted and expecting you to come running back.
So cut out the desperate texts and phone calls. Over time, he will grow desperate for you again…
2. Spend Some Time Apart
Fresh after a fight, it’s normal for both of you to feel the need to analyze your thoughts and emotions alone.
And if you want to make him miss you, you should give him some space and spend some time apart until he is emotionally ready to open up to you again.
After all, sometimes a bit of time apart will only deepen your feelings for each other.
This doesn’t mean you should outright ignore or ghost him. In fact, this would be very damaging to the situation
It’s just about taking a bit of time for yourselves, and giving him some space to think about how much he needs you in his life…
Do this, and he will miss you a lot more!
3. Enjoy Being Alone For A While
Independence is a highly attractive trait in a woman. And it’s especially important for you to demonstrate that you’re OK on your own after a fight.
You have to remind your boyfriend that you’re an independent and confident lady with an exciting life. And once he sees this, he will miss you even more.
While you’re spending some time apart, he may hear about your life through social media and mutual friends.
And once he does, he will develop a keen interest in what you are doing, and will feel a desire to be back in your life.
4. Be Patient
After a while, you will likely feel some loneliness and miss your boyfriend too.
But try your best to avoid trying to repair matters or speak to him right away. Instead, be patient and take your time.
If he is to miss you desperately, he needs to be the one to make the first move and try to win you back.
So sit back and relax for a while. It’s a waiting game, after all.
5. Don’t Be Too Available To Him
As we’ve mentioned above, you shouldn’t completely ghost your boyfriend.
But at the same time, you should avoid making yourself too available to him too.
So instead of replying instantly to his texts, or calling him back as soon as he reaches out to you, give it some time…
After all, you don’t want to appear needy or desperate to get back together, even though you might really want to.
Texting or calling back immediately will only make him take you for granted again.
Remember: You are the prize, and you need him to realize this, so that he misses you and chases you again!
6. If You Contact Him, Make It Short And Sweet
Instead of long, drawn-out text messages and calls, keep your contact with your boyfriend short and sweet.
This is a great way to make him miss you after a fight. It piques his curiosity and interest, and makes him desperate for more…
In his mind, he is expecting you to give in to your feelings and beg for him back.
But when all he gets back are short and direct replies, he will be the one craving for your love!
7. Find The Right Balance Between Ignoring Him And Talking To Him
You should only open up to him when you’re truly ready to reconnect again. But until then, don’t blank him out of your life completely.
After all, your goal is to make him miss you, and not to have him believe you’re ignoring him forever.
If you’re simply not ready to talk yet, don’t feel pressured into it. Just let him know that you need more time to reflect, and leave it at that…
8. Stay Friendly
You’re only human, and it’s perfectly normal to withdraw into your emotions after a big fight with someone you love.
That being said, you should try your best to avoid sounding too cold or uncaring. This will give him the impression that you don’t love him anymore and you’re not interested in getting back together.
No matter how much it hurts, try your best to stay friendly and behave in an emotionally neutral way.
It’s a careful balance between cold and uncaring vs needy and desperate, and you don’t want to be at either end.
Do this, and he will eventually miss you and reach out to you…
9. Keep Your Anger Under Control
After a fight, it’s normal for you to feel a rush of emotions flooding your body…
And by far the most harmful one is anger.
Depending on how the fight happened, you might be tempted to lash out and be mean to your boyfriend.
But if you want him to miss you and rekindle your bond with him, avoid being angry and spiteful towards him.
These sorts of outbursts will only hurt your relationship further. He might see it as an indication that you hate him and don’t want to be with him anymore.
And this ruins any chance of getting back together…
10. Maintain Some Level Of Contact With Him
Many women will attempt to do “no contact” after a fight with their boyfriends.
But remember: “No contact” is only for breakups after the relationship has ended.
You might feel hurt and neglected after a fight. But you should not completely ghost him.
Ignoring him completely might make him miss you for a while. But eventually, he will lose feelings for you and move on.
So maintain some level of contact with him. If he reaches out to you, you may still reply while keeping your distance.
This will open the door to reconnecting on a deep emotional level later on…
11. Take Responsibility
Look: You’re a beautiful woman with a big heart who deserves to be loved and respected by your boyfriend.
But if you’ve done anything wrong to contribute to the argument, you should take some responsibility for it too.
If you realize that you made some mistakes too, it is important to accept this and apologize if you want to rebuild a deep connection with him.
This doesn’t mean you should take all the blame for the fight, regardless of how it happened.
Instead, it’s simply about being honest and accepting your flaws, and taking responsibility for the mistakes you made.
Deep down, he knows he screwed up by mistreating you.
But once he sees that you love him enough to take responsibility for your share of mistakes, he will miss you like crazy and feel a desperate urge to win your heart back.
12. Hang Out With Friends
After a big fight, it’s important to take some time to heal your own emotions. So go out and spend some time with your friends.
This is also a great way to make him miss you. When he sees that you’re having a good time without him, he will realize how much he’s missing out on without you in his life.
Once again, you have to show him that you’re an independent and confident woman, and your happiness is not controlled by him.
In other words, you should not let a fight with your boyfriend stop you from living your best life and spending time with your friends.
It will feel great to express yourself to them, and they will be happy to listen to your feelings and give you advice too.
13. Use Social Media To Keep Him In The Loop
The days or weeks following a fight can be an awkward time.
You haven’t broken up with him, yet you’re also keeping a distance and not talking with him very much…
At the same time, you do want to keep him in the loop and let him know what’s going on in your life.
And the best way to do this is through social media.
Posting photos of you having fun with friends or family is a great way to show him what he’s missing.
After your fight, he’s definitely going to be checking your social media behind your back, and seeing all these posts of you having fun without him.
This will remind him of how important you are to him, and miss you deeply.
It’s a very sneaky but powerful technique, so use it carefully!
14. Don’t Be Passive Aggressive
It’s easy to let your anger take over and act in a mean way towards your boyfriend.
Now, you might not lash out directly at him. But you might find yourself trying to insult or hurt him in a backhanded way.
Passive aggressive behavior can harm your relationship even more than those hurtful outbursts of anger, because it permanently damages trust in your relationship.
As tempting as it may be, avoid passive aggressive social media posts with hidden messages, or playing mind games with him through his friends.
Remember: Your goal is to make him miss you, not to hurt him or damage your relationship forever.
15. Update Him On Your Life
As you warm up to each other again and start reconnecting, one of the best places to start is updating him on what you’ve been up to.
Tell him about the good times you spent with your friends, and all the new experiences you’ve had.
Here, you’re just opening up and sharing stories with him. There’s no need to be passive aggressive and try to make him jealous – He will naturally feel like he’s been missing out.
Once he hears about all the adventures and experiences you had without him, he will realize how much he needs you.
He will want to be a part of all these stories you are sharing, and he will miss having you in his life.
16. Keep Him Guessing
One of the best ways to make your boyfriend miss you and think about you all the time is to keep him guessing…
Every time he asks you about your life, don’t reveal too many details. Share just enough to keep him wondering what’s going on with the two of you.
You can also give him the hot-and-cold treatment: If he reaches out, be warm and receptive to him. But the next day, pull back a bit and spend some time away from him.
This keeps him on his toes, never knowing what to expect from you. And it will make him miss you and keep him chasing after you.
17. Looks Matter
At some point, you will eventually make plans to sit down and speak to each other in person.
This is the perfect chance to steal his heart and get him hooked on you again.
The best way to do this is by dressing up in an attractive way. After all, men are simple creatures who are highly motivated by looks.
If you know there’s a certain look that turns him on, or a hairstyle that he can’t get enough of, use it to your advantage.
Remember: This might be the first time you’ve seen each other in person in quite a while. And if you show up looking your best, his heart will skip a beat when he sees you.
The sight of you will have a huge impact on his mind, and he will miss you and think about you non-stop.
18. Embrace The Person That You Are
We all know that confidence is attractive. But true confidence means being completely comfortable with being yourself.
So don’t try to change or pretend to be someone you’re not after a fight just to try to pull your boyfriend back.
You want to make him miss you. But he has to miss the real you, and not a made-up, fake personality that you pretend to have.
You should love and accept yourself for who you are. And if you do this, he will sense your confidence and want you back in his life as soon as possible.
19. Keep Him Chasing By Carefully Pulling Away
One of the best ways to keep a man chasing and missing you is to pull away carefully.
Here’s what we mean:
Imagine you gave a cat a piece of string. He might play with it for a while, but quickly get bored…
Now try dangling it in front of his face, and pulling the string away when he reaches for it.
He will start chasing it all around the room, getting more and more desperate, before becoming completely obsessed with it!
This is the same sort of feeling you want to give to your boyfriend.
So don’t give him everything at once. Don’t make yourself too available to him. And even as you reconnect with each other, remain a bit secretive and mysterious.
Just as you feel like things are warming up between you and him, pull back a little bit. He will chase you to close down the distance.
20. Be A High-Value Woman
A man is not going to miss a low-value woman. But he will do anything to win a high-value one back.
So if you want him to miss you, strive to be a woman who’s worth missing. Give him a reason to miss you and think about you while you’re apart.
All those loving memories are a gift that he needs to learn to value and cherish. You’re a high-value woman and he can’t take you for granted.
Once you make this clear to him, he will notice that big gaping hole you left in his heart, and he will simply have no choice but to miss you and want you back.
The “Shortcut” To Keeping A Man Deeply Devoted To You
At the end of the day, relationships require a lot of work.
After a big fight, it’s going to take a lot of time and effort to rebuild the connection between you and him.
Even after you start “talking” and “hanging out” again, you will still have to work on rekindling that emotional bond.
And when the next argument comes around, you’ll have to do it all over again.
So what if there was a better way?
What if you could make your man deeply and completely devoted to you in a way that he will never want to let you go?
What if your emotional connection was so strong that you never have to fight again, because your hearts will always be tied together as one?
As international relationship coaches, we’ve helped thousands of women around the world do exactly this.
It all comes down to hitting a few “emotional buttons” inside a man’s mind, making him feel a surge of devotion and love for you, and then “locking in” his commitment for you.
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